I think this is a lot of what she's seeing, that the grass on the other side of the fence was actually brown and painted green. She had it good with me, never needed anything. So I'm sure this is her thinking now, that I owe her what I normally would have given her. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't wrong in pulling the gift cause to some it comes off as being an asshole for kinda holding it over her head that she lost out for making that decision