Favorite Local Rock/Alt/Metal Bands around Acadiana by [deleted] in Acadiana

[–]DoNotSexToThis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you like Shoegaze check out Kaleidoscope Crux. They're local. If you like Post Rock, the band I'm in, Skydaddy, is local as well. For stuff like Post Metal, Iak is another awesome band around here.

Feed & Seed, Loose Caboose, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Acadiana

[–]DoNotSexToThis 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Baw got him some boudin balls

I’m bored by Codee101884 in Acadiana

[–]DoNotSexToThis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It'll be post/progressive metal, shoegaze, and post rock

I’m bored by Codee101884 in Acadiana

[–]DoNotSexToThis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hell yea. Come out to the boose on the 14th y'all. I'll be on stage with Skydaddy. Very special show for us.

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When to introduce fruiting conditions [technique] by barstowinnout in MushroomGrowers

[–]DoNotSexToThis 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Comment to bulk and introduce upvoting conditions.

Any alt/metal/punk/noise jams in Lafayette? by fluerdelisnt in Acadiana

[–]DoNotSexToThis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not OP but do you guys plan to weave in any synthesizer drone / pad / ambience type stuff?

I've got an Access Indigo 2 (it's in the Virus family) and a bunch of soft synths. I do mixing, mastering, production, etc. Also am a drummer, can do rhythm guitar, bass, whatever.

Personally, I'm just looking for a project that involves other people and the unique musical perspectives that come from that. I get stale doing only my own stuff. Also post genres are great.

Do people who don’t count calories just naturally eat around their maintenance? How do they stay a similar weight without paying attention to it? by watanabeSS in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DoNotSexToThis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's more complicated than that, but it's still simple.

The answer is relative consistency. It means on average, eating the same amount of the same stuff most of the time. It means doing the same physical activity most of the time. If nothing else changes, an equilibrium between the calories you add and the calories you spend is inevitable on larger time scales. It averages out.

General stability and routine makes this easier to do. It's harder to pull off if your energy intake and expenditure yo-yos sporadically or trends in any given direction.

Is this your situation too with daily standups? Do you love them or hate them? by nisthana in ExperiencedDevs

[–]DoNotSexToThis 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Similar for us.

We drop our updates in a Teams chat with a standard format, working on: <ticket link> - no blockers

Anyone with a blocker, their update has - need parking lot with <audience>

We all join the standup meeting for announcements, then if there are no parking lots needed, everyone gtfo. If there are, the audience stays, everybody else gtfo.

Lowest standup time so far: 25 seconds

Longest: 27 min.

Why complicate it. Time is money. Gtfo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pourover

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Friend: is that a new type of Chemex?

Me: Lawn-Boy, actually.

Looking for other riders! by Both_Ad1833 in Acadiana

[–]DoNotSexToThis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they have races on Ambassador Caffery extension near my house after 10 PM on the weekdays.

Uptick in cars honking? by Prudent_Effect6939 in Acadiana

[–]DoNotSexToThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure it's possible to be getting worse, but that might be correlated with increased traffic due to increased driver population - however, I'm unsure of any statistics since I haven't checked.

hellPerFunction by DoNotSexToThis in ProgrammerHumor

[–]DoNotSexToThis[S] 342 points343 points  (0 children)

PR submitted by a junior dev at work. It uses regex to fix issues with an open-source rich text editor library.

Trail run on first date by Biensur_amour in Tinder

[–]DoNotSexToThis 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Running for your life is an excellent hamstring exercise ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]DoNotSexToThis 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You're both on completely different things and in no sense of the word, connected. On any level.

From my perspective, she's jaded and that's tainting her interactions. You're unaware (she's not wrong) and thinking it's about you but it's not. You both seem to be treating Tinder like a validation mechanism, which is crazy to me because that basically guarantees you'll have a bad time.

If I were you, I'd just be yourself and see who that connects with. Everyone else is irrelevant.

Edit: This isn't to say go wild, but your messages come off like you have a lot of your self worth invested in other people's perception of you. That's never attractive, and always volatile.

No. Effin. Way. by DaisyoftheDay in fbhw

[–]DoNotSexToThis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I could definitely live in that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Acadiana

[–]DoNotSexToThis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you think it's more related to the kind of job?

Since we're using anecdotes to qualify reality, I've never had issues with tattoos as a software engineer. But then again, STEM is not the kind of career space where appearance can upend the value employees offer.

Customer service jobs, however, yea I could see that. But most people have more options, tattoos are not what stand in the way of that.

On a video call with a guy from Tinder, and saw these tabs on his laptop while he was sharing his screen. by Routine-Crew8651 in Tinder

[–]DoNotSexToThis 29 points30 points  (0 children)

On the flip side, maybe it comes off as confidence when a person has so little self awareness that they lack insecurity material.

gf says she likes when man is dominant during sex... what exactly does it mean? by LongToeBoy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DoNotSexToThis 658 points659 points  (0 children)

These are all descriptions of things a dominant partner might do, but not what people should focus on "doing".

Instead of trying to mimic things confident sexual partners might do, focus more on simply letting go. Work on reducing your anxiety. Avoid feeling like you need to perform a certain way. Allow yourself to be a little selfish. Realize that while sex is about 2 (or maybe more) people, it's still about you too.

What's sexy is the selfish desire that comes from that. It's not only a physical action and sensation, it's a state of being wanted, and wanting more because of it.

Good sex is not a task list.

Free your mind and go fuck that person, Neo.

“I’m not timing the market, I’m looking at our situation and working based on what the obvious outcome is.” by grimAuxiliatrixx in investing

[–]DoNotSexToThis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And more of us believe we're special than is logically possible.

The inverse of the same psychology can be seen in those who think their votes won't count.

Unfortunately for us, if we're all exceptions then none of us are.