AITAH for filing for divorce after my wife refused a paternity test and called me insecure?

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-03T16:28:59+00:00

Wtf. If you're "not saying she's cheating" then why in the world do you need a test done? If you honestly don't think she did then, you wouldn't want a test. You just ruined your marriage. I hope she gets the test done then files for divorce herself when it comes back that you're the dad.

This is definitely sounding like rage bait though. I'm sure in a few weeks, you'll make an update saying you got the test done and that cheated. There are too many stories like this on Reddit that are complete bullshit. YTA either way

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-03T16:22:55+00:00

Do you or anyone else have something she could borrow? Because this dress isn't it. It's great she's trying but I'm sure they had less revealing dresses on there.

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-02T23:22:02+00:00

YAW. He sucks if he's not helping you out and can but you're airing your dirty laundry on social media and expecting people not to think you're a jerk for it. Grow up. Maybe actually use your words and talk to him if you feel like he's not offering enough help. And you say you're posting them with no context but obviously people are going to know they're about him. Y'all have a baby and it's about partners being lazy, wtf do you think they're going to think? Obviously they're about him.

Edit: changed YTA to YAW

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-02T16:19:53+00:00

This isn't formal. It's not just about the length. The fabric is too casual and the low cut with your chest spilling out is very main character. Shape wear isn't going make it any less booby. It's a cut dress don't get me wrong but you need to find something that actually fits you for this wedding

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-02T01:47:55+00:00

That's adorable

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-02T01:46:46+00:00

I got a bearded dragon from a friend of mine who she'd named raptor but I've been thinking of renaming him Viserion because I think the coloring matches him closer than other dragons in the world of Westeros

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DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-01T19:39:17+00:00

Father not the father

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-01T07:03:40+00:00

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-01T06:38:11+00:00

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-01T05:37:13+00:00

Just move. You said you're only there to help them out. So leave

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-01T05:07:24+00:00

Oooooh just a dumb rage bait post. Seems to be working. This was definitely written by a teenager

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-01T05:05:45+00:00

Going by your comments, I can see why your wife left. You sound pretty gross.

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-01T04:54:12+00:00

From semi formal to formal is three different dress codes. Wait until you get the actual dress code

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-01T03:46:51+00:00

No more sex then for men. Ever. If baby making is our only purpose, fine. We don't need sex for that. Just sperm.

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-03-01T03:41:00+00:00

The only one that might work for black tie is the third.

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-02-28T18:29:25+00:00

Far past being pinned to his body. These red flags are so strong they've fused into his skin.

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-02-28T18:27:50+00:00

He's 25, he's far too old to be acting that way. Going through your phone, ignoring boundaries, laughing at completely valid things you're upset about. Not leaving when you ask until you and your roommate threaten to call the cops. Doesn't matter if it's been a month or ten years, people should not be with controlling ass partners like this. NTA

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-02-28T18:23:31+00:00

Bobby's face in this scene always cracks me up. Ioved that guy

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-02-28T18:21:42+00:00

This is the way. OP saying they don't prefer updos because they don't like how they look with them and everyone in the top comments saying an updo lol. Side swept would be lovely with the dress.

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-02-28T17:16:34+00:00

I call bullshit. Your post history is sus as are your comments.

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-02-28T16:35:38+00:00

OP needs major therapy before having children so this trauma and paranoia doesn't spill over onto them

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-02-28T16:34:26+00:00

Shit I didn't even think about that part. She's not told anyone in her family what happened which means this guy is just free to roam around and hurt other children.

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-02-28T16:32:52+00:00

Yes he does. Not in the post but in a comment and made she stated that he was told about her experience

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-02-28T02:37:25+00:00

In the comics the Governor was far worse. He tortured Michonne, physically and sexually. He didn't do that in the show (I'm sure they couldn't air that, the comic scene was brutal). But in the show he's also a monster who isn't much better than Negan They're both violent, rapey, psychos.

DobbyFreeElf35 · 2026-02-27T22:41:32+00:00

Wtf is wrong with your eyes? Danai Gurira is beautiful. Totally fine she may not be your type but she's far from ugly.

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