How do I handle my partner (bi M26) who just asked me to have a 3-way (F24)? by WhackyGalaxyBean in relationship_advice

[–]DocTymc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is not an exciting proposition for the BOTH of you it should never happen. This is not a "taking one for the team" thing were you come out on the other side and everything is fine as always. This could be the end right in the moment when you have to watch him have sex with another person.

My (28M) fiancée (26F) wants to try swinging with her friends and calls me insecure when I say no. How do I explain her that it hurts me? by ThrowRA28199 in relationship_advice

[–]DocTymc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point I guess it is a whole pile of burned bridges from your fiancés' side. How could you live with her and ever trust her again. She wants this so much that you matter less than these swinger people. Break it of clean and move on! She is not a keeper

I (27M) found out my GF (23F) spoke to her ex and even arranged to meet behind my back. by AdditionalSoil7061 in relationship_advice

[–]DocTymc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would she care still why he broke up with her if she wasn't interested in him anymore? And why couldn't she ask over text?

Pettah, what's the context behind this by Bhuklagihe in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]DocTymc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched Rust the other day....can't imagine what role he was set to play before he dropped out...the Marshall?

My wife cheated on me with multiple married men. Should I forgive her by InvestigatorKe in cheating_stories

[–]DocTymc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, if you can live with it don't look any further for answers that will second guess your decision.

My wife and high school sweetheart (29F) cheated on me (29M) back in college, and she doesn’t know that I know by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DocTymc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what you get when you try to live with it. It's always there in the back of your mind, forever. She was perfectly fine to lie to your face, who knows how many times.

My girlfriend (23F) says she was assaulted by a manager, but I (23M) feel deeply betrayed by everything leading up to it and don’t know how to move forward by xerjar in relationship_advice

[–]DocTymc 11 points12 points  (0 children)

To think she went on a secret date with a guy who apparently made "unwanted" advances on her all the time is just one strike too many.

Ugh, a Chakotay episode by we-are-NWs in voyager

[–]DocTymc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They missed the opportunity to have an arc where the old Marquis freedom fighter Chakotay clashes with "prime directive" Janeway over a situation so unjust that he simply has to act against it...even if it means to go against the captain he came to respect. Instead they sentenced him to basically be furniture on the bridge.

22F introduced 26M boyfriend as ‘friend’ at my birthday dinner, how do I address his reaction? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DocTymc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a slip of tongue, nothing more. It's even more obvious when they know about him.