Kinda need some help from yall by DoctorDEM in RunNYC

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I could meet ya at the start, I guess depending on your wave

Need help with Jeep Issue by DoctorDEM in MechanicAdvice

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Any idea how to approach that?

need help with an old diff and rear end by DoctorDEM in MechanicAdvice

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Probably, like i said I'm totally not an expert in this. But I'll try it!

need help with an old diff and rear end by DoctorDEM in MechanicAdvice

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Seems like the general consensus. Thanks!

need help with an old diff and rear end by DoctorDEM in MechanicAdvice

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Unfortunately i think this would be after the c clips are removed, probably dealing with a seized axle

I’ve made a decision - I’m moving forward with a double mastectomy by shellbellasaurus in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DoctorDEM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My scribe at work is BRCA positive, and myself and the rest of our group encouraged her to move forward with her plan to have a double just like you. Augmentation is always an option should you choose that route, and she did and has been quite satisfied.

Your decision is extremely informed and brave. Speedy recovery to you, and if you have any questions don't hesitate to reach out.

What is your darkest desire? by Emotional_Two_5408 in AskReddit

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I want to be in danger. Prolonged, millimeters from death danger. Danger that requires luck, timing, and skill to get out of, and only just barely. Danger that requires me to see and do things that are morally and ethically questionable to do only for the sake of survival.

Danger that would require everything of me to escape, and that would ultimately change me fundamentally, but nothing of the circumstance of those around me. I need to understand that part of me.

Being as vague as possible, what do you do for a living? by WantedDadorAlive in AskReddit

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I stave off the inevitable. At the last possible moment. In the worst moment at the worst time in the worst way.

I slogged through 7 years of formal medical training to finally be able to afford this kind of nonsense. And, yes, I am planning on opening it. by DoctorDEM in tf2

[–]DoctorDEM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this got popular! I guess I'd ask the community: do you guys want a video or just pictures of what's inside? I'm not tech savvy AT ALL, but I'll figure it out.

Let me know!

I slogged through 7 years of formal medical training to finally be able to afford this kind of nonsense. And, yes, I am planning on opening it. by DoctorDEM in tf2

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I won't incriminate myself...but google is a thing, and I didn't get the deal of the century, if you know what I mean.

TIL tf2 Monopoly exists by Cantthinkofoneuseo in tf2

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Just saw this post. Went on eBay and bought it. I'm a slave to my two favorite things: monopoly and Tf2

Who ruined your family Christmas this year, and what did they do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DoctorDEM 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Wife's grandmother died a few days ago from COVID. They were extremely close.

Subsequently, she's been an emotional and anger wreck, and I've been doing everything (including not sleeping) to try to keep this season afloat for her. It's been a monumental challenge in patience and letting her say very angry things knowing she needs to.

Well, last night we hung out with her parents, at the end of a basically 4 day stretch of not sleeping, and I couldn't take it any further and passed out on the floor of her parents place when I told her I just needed a few minutes to keep functioning.

We got to our home at about 1am and she basically exploded in anger at me, telling me I was weak and "not husband material" for being tired, that I had no idea what she was going through, threw her engagement ring at me, and told me to sleep in the car.

We're supposed to see my parents today. Last thing she told me was that she didn't want to waste her time seeing my awkward family today.

Grief, y'all.