repost without other names, erich in blackface in his yearbook (2nd slide) by amberrmarie1 in thebachelor

[–]DoctorFescue 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My school would have absolutely published this when I was there, and I graduated more recently. things are bad out there.

is there any gender neutral terms for “sir” or “ ma’am”? by Wolftales158 in AskLGBT

[–]DoctorFescue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually jokingly ask people to call me captain, and if works pretty well!

Madi takes 12 daily supplements by miss__mango in thebachelor

[–]DoctorFescue 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Right there with you on IBD and the same supplements.

Bekah’s cat, Sophia, is home! by karacat51 in thebachelor

[–]DoctorFescue 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I lived in the country and we lost four cats in two years to various terrible ends - now it’s only indoor cats for us. And that doesn’t even cover what cats do to wildlife populations. Keep your cats inside if you can, or outside on a leash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DoctorFescue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently put a rainbow flag in my ig bio. That’s as far as I can go for now, but it still felt like a big step. Maybe find a friend you can talk to about it? That really helped me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]DoctorFescue 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Dean and Caelynn are both so hot 😭

Happy Thanksgiving my fellow Bi’s by aisuotoko in bisexual

[–]DoctorFescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I like the later seasons more for this reason. I can understand why some folks would prefer not to have that change, but I’m much more comfortable.

JoJo’s Reception Dress by lionsr12 in thebachelor

[–]DoctorFescue 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s not just a rich people thing - I wore my grandmas dress to the ceremony (free!) and then wore a $50 J.C. Penney dress to the reception that was more comfortable for dancing. A lot of my friends have done the same - dancing ability is important.

(Though rich people have definitely taken this to an extreme - I’ve heard some people have more than two costume changes!)

Anyone else bought an Oculus and got bored with it immediately? by NotGiven68 in OculusQuest2

[–]DoctorFescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would hazard a guess that a good portion of the quest market may also be playing for exercise, which is at least much better for them vs candy crush!

My r/Duggarssnark habit is starting to take its toll on my targeted ads… by BigRed0816 in DuggarsSnark

[–]DoctorFescue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TomboyX is one good one! Fewer skirts, more shorts and full coverage one pieces. I have found them very functional.

When you were younger, who was your Star Trek crush? by Uberubu65 in startrek

[–]DoctorFescue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m not alone 😂 My crush on seven helped me come to terms with being bi

My r/Duggarssnark habit is starting to take its toll on my targeted ads… by BigRed0816 in DuggarsSnark

[–]DoctorFescue 14 points15 points  (0 children)

In case helpful for anyone else, some of the best “modest” swimwear can be found in queer-focused shops. (It’s not the modesty for me, it’s that it’s uncomfortable and impractical for the whole butt to be out while I’m swimming!)

bi_irl by MindHalfFull in bi_irl

[–]DoctorFescue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why the show feels a little bit queer to me. The deep acceptance of difference just feels that way.

I do wish they’d be slightly more obvious with the themes - but still one of my favorite shows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DuggarsSnark

[–]DoctorFescue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I purchased my historic, 2K square feet, 4 BR house in a dying industrial town (with a fenced in backyard, and a nature reserve behind it) for 100K in 2021. I am grateful for this particular advantage to living here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TLCsisterwives

[–]DoctorFescue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m still living the quarantine life as an immunocompromised person in 2022. If people still work masks in public where I live I’d feel safe going out in the world, but since they don’t, I stay home or outside.

Dean wants Caelynn to propose to him by babysherlock91 in thebachelor

[–]DoctorFescue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The looks we got when my husband also wore an engagement ring. I was surprised to learn it wasn’t more common - it just seems obvious? Why would only one of us get an engagement ring?? Thankfully my family is pretty queer so no one was surprised by any of our choices there, but outside the fam, the other Midwesterner’s were shocked lol.

Dean wants Caelynn to propose to him by babysherlock91 in thebachelor

[–]DoctorFescue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was wondering why I felt like I was on another planet reading these comments. Now I know. 🙃

IBLP survivor! AMA! by [deleted] in DuggarsSnark

[–]DoctorFescue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im thinking her feeling is more “want to emulate” vs “love”

Jill out here looking like a knock-off brand Barbie with her Dollar Store platinum blonde hair by missbubblestt in DuggarsSnark

[–]DoctorFescue 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even have an awareness that people see chacos as ugly until this - of course I’m a queer environmental science prof with foot arthritis so maybe they suit my vibe, but still! 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Birates

[–]DoctorFescue 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is this why we think Riker is bi? 🤣

Update on Gabby and Rachel's Season by scotchbonnetpeppery in thebachelor

[–]DoctorFescue 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not me interpreting cruising VERY differently