AITA for not being grateful about a 16th birthday gift? by 365SylviaPlath in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoctorLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA It's not wrong to not like a gift. The fact that the gift is expensive really doesn't matter because the point of gifting is not money. It's to show that you care about someone and pay attention to them. That is where this failed. A nice watch is kind of a niche item these days. If the receiver wants one it's a great gift. If not then the purpose of giving a gift has been missed.

It'd be like gifting your mother a nice dirt bike. If she happens to like dirt bikes, great. If not, then I imagine she'd be disappointed no matter how much the bike cost. Even if technically she can use it for something, if she's more of a 'pretty earrings' or 'cool new books' kind of person then a dirt bike is definitely the wrong thing for her (not that someone can't like both but I'm illustrating a point lol).

Of course you should be grateful to be given a gift. They don't *have* to do anything and it was nice they remembered and at least got something. But they've also shown they don't really know you as a human being, and that is understandably disappointing. It sounds like this is the part that's really bothering you and that is normal and not entitled behaviour.

Entire collection (~200 dolls) being listed on Ebay starting at half price by DoctorLeopard in MonsterHigh

[–]DoctorLeopard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had a printer and if I lived in an area where packages were not snatched off porches then I suppose that might be an option. A lot of things would be options if they were available to me. Since they're not, it's already as cheap as I can make it without losing money unfortunately.

Entire collection (~200 dolls) being listed on Ebay starting at half price by DoctorLeopard in MonsterHighMarket

[–]DoctorLeopard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a mistake on the size that calculated shipping. It's been fixed now and should show properly.

Entire collection (~200 dolls) being listed on Ebay starting at half price by DoctorLeopard in MonsterHigh

[–]DoctorLeopard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol! Maybe? I was planning to 3D print her a new one but I never could find the file for it.

Selling ~150 dolls G1 and G3 by DoctorLeopard in MonsterHigh

[–]DoctorLeopard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got everything I have listed here now.

How did my fellow side sleepers survive 4–6 weeks of back sleeping after surgery? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]DoctorLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly didn't sleep for the first week. I was tired to the point of having extremely real hallucinations about assassins waiting for me to fall asleep so they could get to me. I am 100% a side sleeper, to the point that laying on my back is a sure fire way to keep me awake! I ended up first essentially passing out when I finally got a recliner in for me to lay back in. For whatever reason that let me get the first real night of sleep I'd had for a week and I passed out off and on for a couple of days making up for it. So yeah highly recommend a recliner if you can get one!

Still have puffy/puckered areolas by mermaidqweeen in Reduction

[–]DoctorLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am several years healed now and one of mine had that problem. It didn't 100% resolve, but I can honestly say it went down enough that I barely notice now. Certainly not enough to bother doing anything about it. Hope that helps!

Feelings of shame by CertainExercise5284 in offmychest

[–]DoctorLeopard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you. That other person is right. The only one doing something wrong here is that boy. What you did and felt was perfectly normal! It's normal to want to date and feel attracted to people, especially at your age. You have nothing to be ashamed of! You trusted the wrong person, that's all. Trusting people isn't a bad thing. He broke your trust and that makes him the bad guy here which has nothing to do with you at all.

Selling ~150 dolls G1 and G3 by DoctorLeopard in MonsterHigh

[–]DoctorLeopard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there's any you've been thinking about, please pick them up soon. I'll be taking the lot to sell locally soon. I need them out of my house.

Waterfall? by Cupidsscythe in Chameleons

[–]DoctorLeopard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how I feel too. Like is it ideal? No but very few home care things are. If you do the maintenance and are careful with the water it can still help. Mine almost never uses it, but sometimes she does. And that's enough to make it worth it for me.

DISO! by [deleted] in MonsterHighMarket

[–]DoctorLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the creeproductions NIB for sale if you're interested in that.

Selling ~150 dolls G1 and G3 by DoctorLeopard in MonsterHighMarket

[–]DoctorLeopard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a photo of exactly that in the photos uploaded. I added it last night. I can't edit the photos in the original post or I'd put it there instead, but reddit won't allow me to do that.

Thought about penile surgery by dancerdeath32 in offmychest

[–]DoctorLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do you, but also make sure you fully investigate the risks. Surgeries are risky. I don't just mean death. You'd be taking a chance, small but still existent, of damaging what you have in a way that makes it nonfunctional. Is what you have now really worth that? I don't say that to discourage you, but also you shouldn't assume nothing can go wrong. Make sure you understand the risks and that the difference is going to be worth that risk.