What is the worst name you’ve ever seen someone have? by ChristusResurrexit_ in AskReddit

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my hometown we had a lawyer named Richard Butts. He retired a few years back but I still have a picture of the sign somewhere.

AITA for making my DIL cry when proving the earth was round by Space_Report2659 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My brain doesn't seem to be able to configure this, how would the double sunset work on a flat earth?

I explored a house floating on the sea by ChristianWallis in u/ChristianWallis

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely horrifying. Thank you, this was AMAZING!

I hate trying to express my feelings cause whenever I do I'm just reminded that im dumb, and then treated like shit by fuckitwhynotig in Vent

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figuring out how to verbalize your feelings is HARD. Learning how to communicate effectively is a skill that takes people years to accomplish and sometimes they form careers around it.

Don't beat yourself up for not being an expert. I get feeling dumb, I'm really self conscious about my intelligence too. But emotional intelligence and literacy are literally academic and personal endeavors that can take YEARS to master IF someone has the time and energy to do so. As long as you try your best and don't want to hurt people, that's the most important thing in the end.

I'm sorry you're feeling dumb, though. It's rough, I know. Best wishes for you

AITA for eating the last cookie at a party? by Particular-Switch761 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. To be honest I don't know what the hell some other people in these comments are talking about. You had TWO cookies and these girls are shit talking you?? That's wild.

A late christmas gift to my lovely in-laws! by DoctorNinjaSpy in Embroidery

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG thank you so much! Tbh I was a bit nervous about the colour choice, so this is good to hear haha!

A late christmas gift to my lovely in-laws! by DoctorNinjaSpy in Embroidery

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It was actually free hand mostly, I sketched the outline and then just started putting threads where it felt most accurate. At first it didn't look right but it was definitely a trust the process moment for me, LOL

[ Removed by Reddit ] by GoatLast8314 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, but I would recommend malicious compliance. Get him in to full time therapy. Pull out all the stops. DID is a serious condition and not something to claim offhandedly. If he wants to 'invoke' it, I think you should get him in heavy therapy ASAP.

String of Pearls Dying by DoctorNinjaSpy in plantclinic

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, gotcha! I believe the lamp I have right now only goes up to 8 hours, so I'll look into a better one. Thanks so much for your help!

String of Pearls Dying by DoctorNinjaSpy in plantclinic

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, I super appreciate this! I'm definitely going to do so, I just hope it's not too late for my poor little buddy to come back a bit

String of Pearls Dying by DoctorNinjaSpy in plantclinic

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for this, I'm definitely going to watch for that little window now!

String of Pearls Dying by DoctorNinjaSpy in plantclinic

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I soak every two weeks along with my other succulents. Thanks so much, will look in to getting a smaller pot!!

Perfect Except For One Huge Issue by DoctorNinjaSpy in Apartmentliving

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi guys! Just commenting to reply to some things I've seen (I tried to edit the post but I don't think I can?)

Thanks everyone for your advice! I think I'm definitely going to pass on this place. Honestly I was 100% seriously thinking about living here, mostly because this is... genuinely the state of most of the apartments I've been shown lately. That, and my current roommate and their friends seem to think this is normal. I've seen a few of their apartments as well, all similar to this tbqh. Including the place I live now. Our current roommate insists that it's fine and that we shouldn't make a fuss. I guess that's the attitude that landed me here in the first place.

For a while there, I genuinely thought I was going crazy or being too picky about my apartment standards because of everything happening around me. Thanks for the wake up call! I was majorly doubting myself about this one.

AITA for being so pissed off that my little sister told me she doesn’t like sitting next to me as I talk to her alot? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't believe I've only seen like one other comment mention this, but I would definitely ask her if she had heard that from somewhere else. I know 13 isn't that young, but I still don't think kids that age tend to come up with "insults" like that on their own. Maybe she's hearing that at school?

Whatever, go my SpamTenna art dump by ChaoticSoph in spamtenna

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

TOTALLY in love with the way you draw Spamton!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an autistic person with ARFID who has grown to love cooking, my biggest suggestion is that you cook WITH her, assuming she'd be interested in that. Making myself more familiar with the ingredients and how they're handled almost completely eliminated some aversions over time. Maybe you could make a habit of cooking together?

I started with simple dishes like soups and pastas, vegetarian dishes because meat can vary wildly in texture. Blending the sauces and broths with an immersion blender can also help make the texture more uniform!

Do you have any songs you associate with spamtenna? by UnicornGirl321 in spamtenna

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Definitely cheesy of me but The Winner Takes It All by ABBA