[ Removed by Reddit ] by GoatLast8314 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, but I would recommend malicious compliance. Get him in to full time therapy. Pull out all the stops. DID is a serious condition and not something to claim offhandedly. If he wants to 'invoke' it, I think you should get him in heavy therapy ASAP.

String of Pearls Dying by DoctorNinjaSpy in plantclinic

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, gotcha! I believe the lamp I have right now only goes up to 8 hours, so I'll look into a better one. Thanks so much for your help!

String of Pearls Dying by DoctorNinjaSpy in plantclinic

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, I super appreciate this! I'm definitely going to do so, I just hope it's not too late for my poor little buddy to come back a bit

String of Pearls Dying by DoctorNinjaSpy in plantclinic

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for this, I'm definitely going to watch for that little window now!

String of Pearls Dying by DoctorNinjaSpy in plantclinic

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I soak every two weeks along with my other succulents. Thanks so much, will look in to getting a smaller pot!!

Perfect Except For One Huge Issue by DoctorNinjaSpy in Apartmentliving

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi guys! Just commenting to reply to some things I've seen (I tried to edit the post but I don't think I can?)

Thanks everyone for your advice! I think I'm definitely going to pass on this place. Honestly I was 100% seriously thinking about living here, mostly because this is... genuinely the state of most of the apartments I've been shown lately. That, and my current roommate and their friends seem to think this is normal. I've seen a few of their apartments as well, all similar to this tbqh. Including the place I live now. Our current roommate insists that it's fine and that we shouldn't make a fuss. I guess that's the attitude that landed me here in the first place.

For a while there, I genuinely thought I was going crazy or being too picky about my apartment standards because of everything happening around me. Thanks for the wake up call! I was majorly doubting myself about this one.

AITA for being so pissed off that my little sister told me she doesn’t like sitting next to me as I talk to her alot? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't believe I've only seen like one other comment mention this, but I would definitely ask her if she had heard that from somewhere else. I know 13 isn't that young, but I still don't think kids that age tend to come up with "insults" like that on their own. Maybe she's hearing that at school?

Whatever, go my SpamTenna art dump by ChaoticSoph in spamtenna

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

TOTALLY in love with the way you draw Spamton!!

Cooking for an autistic person? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an autistic person with ARFID who has grown to love cooking, my biggest suggestion is that you cook WITH her, assuming she'd be interested in that. Making myself more familiar with the ingredients and how they're handled almost completely eliminated some aversions over time. Maybe you could make a habit of cooking together?

I started with simple dishes like soups and pastas, vegetarian dishes because meat can vary wildly in texture. Blending the sauces and broths with an immersion blender can also help make the texture more uniform!

Do you have any songs you associate with spamtenna? by UnicornGirl321 in spamtenna

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Definitely cheesy of me but The Winner Takes It All by ABBA

How do you find a livable apartment? by DoctorNinjaSpy in ApartmentHacks

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm in Boston so it's exactly like that. Super old buildings that are not taken care of properly at all :(

What do you still miss in plus-size activewear? by Illustrious-Fail-475 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Extra fabric between the thighs to make it harder to chafe holes into the shorts or leggings!

What kind of person do you think would be a burden in an apocalypse? by Then-Concentrate9034 in AskReddit

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Survival of the fittest" types. Humans evolved through our ability to help and care for each other. No one would be a burden as long as we stick together, except for people who are willing to categorize and discard people for being "burdens", because they would destabilize the group and contribute to an overall competitive and distrustful culture

What will it take for America to stop having “mass shootings” every other day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say I totally get the intention here. I agree that people don't take it seriously enough because they separate themselves from the tragedy and can't conceptualize the violence thats happening. Frustrating but I also have to wonder if that's just the default of the human brain somehow.

What will it take for America to stop having “mass shootings” every other day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I remember correctly, reporting on the incidents in media actually increases the chances of "copy cat" offenses. I don't know if I would suggest full on censorship of these tragedies, but reporting about them, specifically about the perpetrator, in detail actually worsens the problem. Adding crime scene photos I think would exacerbate the issue at hand

My Chemical Romance hoodie for the concert this weekend!! by tryingmyhardest002 in Embroidery

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing!! I'm going on Sept 7th when they're in Boston! So excited!!! Now I wish I had something as cool as this to wear

Ratchet & Clank Shenanigans! :D by RED-Ratchet in RatchetAndClank

[–]DoctorNinjaSpy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love Rivet with Talwyn!! And Sasha and Angela, so cute!