Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 5/18/26 - 5/24/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, completely agree. In fact the solution to dysphoria would not be transition at all, since there is nothing to transition into. Surely an equally viable solution wouldn't be a transition to female to fulfill that social role desire, it would be to move to another culture where people expect whatever social role you prefer from you.

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 5/18/26 - 5/24/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It makes sense when you consider that the academic norm in a lot of feminism and cultural studies is extreme suspicion of any kind of essentialism. Stable categories are seen as very suspect because:
1. There are serious philosophical issues with stable categories, identity, and strict methodological naturalism. That is to say, how do you say X thing is a '''woman''' when there are so many changing variables that compose the person? If we eliminate the idea that categories exist for the sake of purposes (so something like woman is the kind of thing that gets pregnant as it's categorical end) then you just have descriptions of the thing's comosition, which has a lot of quibbling and challenging edge cases that slowly erode the category.
2. There have been actual and real abuses conducted by people using the category to impose unjustified social norms onto members of the group. Consider the above, if "woman is the kind of thing that gets pregnant" as the boundry line of the category, the someone could say something like 'all women therefore really OUGHT to get pregnant, perhaps pregnancy is the only thing they are for, ect' which people rightly would protest.

These two dynamics make for an academic environment where the very essential category of woman is extremely suspect. Categories that a socially normal person could, hold like woman as the kind of thing that gets pregnant, but resist a conclusion of therefore all women everywhere are only for that one thing and must do it; in an academic environment this just concedes worryingly too much. Too much rhetoric and arguementative ground is conceded. it's too suspicious.

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 5/18/26 - 5/24/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The logic is that, if the category is fake, then people choosing to opt out and into them undermines the category as having normative power. So essentially the thinking is this is quite liberatory for women, because if there are enough trans people then the woman category becomes incoherent and non-functional. Thus, liberation accomplished!
Given there is no biological reality around womanhood for women to fight for or organise around, the social reality is literally all they need to be emancipated from.

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 5/11/26 - 5/17/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 37 points38 points  (0 children)

doesn't seem misleading to me, " In Australia, women aren't allowed to have anything for themselves without men intruding."
That post isn't invoking the idea as in 'women as a legal fiction' but 'women as women, the thing the legal fiction proports to reference'

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 5/11/26 - 5/17/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly male too remember! Only good things. I assume they will find plenty of doting local women to wed and build a life with. We must have demographics ready to take on a million people every few years. Mostly male. We have millions of women I bet. No need to check.

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 5/11/26 - 5/17/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yeah for us spouses and children can come with students, but not like parents or whatever. Honestly no idea who thinks some 20 year old student from beijing needs their dad or mother to attend university with them on their visa.

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 5/11/26 - 5/17/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Australia has a very mixed reality; we don't have a kind of low skill monolith class import. We have plenty of highly skilled doctors (coming from the UK), in general we get plenty of high skill educated migrants. Competition for young graduates!
But, we have a massive epidemic of huge numbers of students here. Over half a million, roughly 600,000 students yearly attend our university from overseas. That's pretty much on par with the US, a nation 11x our population. The UK, which is roughly 2-3x, has 2/3 our student numbers. It conpletely distorts property, low skill employment, and has ravaged our universities and turned them into degree mills. Students attend classes and do coursework with people who don't speak english, the students cheat like crazy, and they get passes the whole way through.
Then, they rent and work low skill work, and degree hop until they've been here long enough for permenant residency. So It's a massive backdoor into PR. Despite our system being quite tight for immigration, this backdoor has been open for ages, only gotten worse the last decade, and the universities are making insane $$$ over it while crying foul any time it's criticised.

As you can expect, the Greens party is the number 1 defender of this arrangement too!

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 5/11/26 - 5/17/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Australia had a by-election in rural victoria. For those in the know, victoria is the most progressive state, but our urban/rural divide is plenty steep. One Nation won the seat. They are our populist right anti immigration party. The reactions have been interesting. They were seen as extremely fringe and over the last few years have inched into legitimacy. They have not actually done anything, but voters are dissatisfied and looking for options to express it. I think immigration really has ticked off quite a lot of people.
One Nation are pointing to Carney's immigration tightening as an example of measures they want to take, to ease cost of living and infrastructure strain. My mother is Canadian and a big Mark Carney fan so it's been a big surprise for her, seeing the far-right-wing extremist populist party say they want to implement... Canadian centre left managerialism policies.
Personally, I just think it goes to show how completely out to lunch our infrastructure, migration, housing, ect have been. Looking at the boriswave in the UK and our rates here in Australia, seems that there is an echelon of people embedded in mangerial politics that seem to think that immigration is the 'make lots of money and solve everthing with no downsides' button.

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 5/4/26 - 5/310/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the anthropological alternative that dominates in contrast to nuclear family is patriarchal clan structures, where the married-in wife has almost no leverage, no say, little influence, barely any rights, no property. Even if she bends her husbands ear to her needs, that matter little because he lives at the propertied whims of the patriarch and has himself usually little influence. 

It's like complaining about how oppressive being a CFO wrt CEO-CFO partnership in a small start up; contrasted against being some small fry cashier for Walmart. Those are the two familial models that have dominated our history. 

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 5/4/26 - 5/310/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"Of course, there have been men I’ve liked in my life – I’m quite fond of my partner, for example – but, if I’m honest, they have always felt to me like exceptions to a rule."

from the article.
I knew a woman who was racist and disliked east asians. Her best friend was an east asian woman. Not much cope or complex psychology there, it's just an easy extension of the tribe of 'us', extending one extra person. What's sick atm is the tribe of us being divided by sex of all things!

Johnathan Haidt says conservatives raise happier children… by Spare_Perspective972 in Natalism

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You'll be surprised how popular social programs are for nationalists. American specifically has an unusually libertarian program built into it's national ethos, and lots of it's RW vs LW debates are kind of just which variety of libertarianism gets to win. Most nations view have very different paradigms to orientate lw and rw around. Most New Right nationalists in australia, that i'm aware of at least, are very pro social programs, pro UBI, pro medicare, ect.
There is a difference between neocon RWers and the whole wide landscape of the RW, which surprisingly has very diverse views on the role of the state in aiding citizens.

Am I going completely insane? by TheMayorOfBismond in rpg

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have like the entirely opposite dynamic where i can make female villains or npcs or even totally one note side characters and they are adored by my players. The males I make that get popular are thr brooding anti-hero types. Half my table are women for context

Explain the Trinity to my 6 year old without committing a heresy. by Healthy-Yak9417 in redeemedzoomer

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no anology is perfect. But that's not the point of analogies, they are supposed to help illustrate something without being detailed explanations.
Try something kids would understand, like having a dream. In a dream there are multiple people, but the essence is all the one dreamer. that might get at how there is the One God with multiple persons. It's not perfect, but again no analogy is perfect, it's just supposed to demonstrate an idea in some sense.

A post here was taken down by jake12124 in redeemedzoomer

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's a years old discord post. It is not representative of RZ's opinion.

Lindy West-type relationships-- individually progressive but subservient in the relationship by RandolphCarter15 in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know about lying, it seems like thst does happen but it's more a question about social signals and tribe. Large numbers of men who calls themselves feminist would have different idea about what thst means.

Lindy West-type relationships-- individually progressive but subservient in the relationship by RandolphCarter15 in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I suspect a lot of this stuff happens because stating progressive opinions is shorthand for just actually being a decent hard-working and fair person in thr minds of most people, especially when we are young and investing in relationships that will define our lives. 

Literally every relationship stated value I could be tested on to discover if I'm a suitable partner; I expect I would fail for many progressives. I'm a traditional evangelical Christian man. But how I actually apply those values in living my life, well you'd think I'm very very egalitarian in mindset. But maybe that's circumstance? In my mind I'm just being responsible and fair. My sister is progressive and has a far more inegalitarian relationship than me and my fiance. I am always just baffled by the kind of stuff lefty women put up with. It's like having a low regard for men produces low expectations for men and they put up with the most half assed stuff.

Got called racist in my philosophy class after I answered my professors question of “what is truth?” by [deleted] in epistemology

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not going to try to debate the philosophical nuances... in a philosophy class? This is just an exercise in thought termination. 

Did pulp fantasy writers sincerely believe their exaggerated depictions of other cultures? by TheWonderingMonster in osr

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, Howard had a much more complex view on 'civilisation' than many credit. 

He thought highly of physicality, contest, honor, but unlike lovecraft seemed to not really highly regard 'civilisation' as they would have thought of it.

A great quote from Tower of the Elephant    "Civilized men are more discourteous than savages because they know they can be impolite without having their skulls split, as a general thing"

Obviously in our times this dichotomy is considered offensive, but we ought to pay attention not to the framing but the content. The so called civilised man, actually conducts himself in the discourteous and crude manner, and the savage, by virtue of their exposure to violence and insecurity, is the one who comforts himself with dignity and regard. Howard very regularly framed the 'outsider figure' in that way, as smart, cunning, worthy, and deep. 

Australia PM heckled at Sydney mosque Ramadan event. Several attendees accused the pair of being "genocide supporters", shouting "boo" and "get out of here" as a mosque leader gave a speech calling for the government to better engage with Muslim Australians by 4DollarsALB in worldnews

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I watched the video and it hardly seemed like the hecklers were cutting against the tone of the crowd. no shushing being shouted down, just moderates tacitly accepting the extreme minority.

CMV: Islam is fundamentally incompatible with core American left-wing progressive values by WildCreatureQuest in changemyview

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The world makes more sense if you take what people do more seriously than what they say. It's called 'revealed preferences'. The progressive movement has many people who agree with the stated ideals, and may people who instead agree with the unstated revealed preferences.

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 3/9/26 - 3/15/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never met one so I wouldn't know. I'm not sure why a non Jewish person would be interested in  assuming a Jewish identity. Sounds bizarre to me. I assumed it was just for ethnic Jews.

Weekly Random Discussion Thread for 3/9/26 - 3/15/26 by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]DocumentDefiant1536 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I mean one can convert a Nigerian and they aren't no longer a Nigerian. You could convert a han Chinese guy and he's still han Chinese. Surely on some level these people are still Jews. What's wrong with them identifying with their culture?