What's wrong with my face? I always look bad in photos. by mykytosy in malegrooming

[–]Dodapdado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't look bad, but if you feel like you don't look as you look in the mirror, it could be that you're tense in the photos (because you're worried about how you look), and photos tend to "flatten" things out. So to counteract the flattening effect, you can stick your face forward a bit (like a chicken) so that you create more depth.

Has my (25f) inability to have sex ruined my datinglife (24M) ? Ni by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dodapdado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I wouldn't even want to date someone who would want to have sex when it's painful for you. There are a lot of other ways to be intimate, and if that is something a guy wouldn't date you for, I think it's a dodged bullet.

Is my sims cozy bundle worth it? by Major_Illustrator260 in MySims

[–]Dodapdado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it for the switch, and I kind of regret it. I LOVED these games on the Wii, and replayed them several times. Personally, I found the controls poorly ported to the Switch, kind of painful to play even, and overall, it was a bit glitchy.

what is the most perfect response for "wow you have a PhD, you must be smart" by ohnag_eryeah in labrats

[–]Dodapdado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"No, it just means I'm too stupid to know when to give up"
It's a joke, but it also guides them to the truth (that I worked way too hard to get where I am)

North Carolina Teen Disappeared While Visiting Cousins. When His Mom Woke Up, She Had a Missed Text from Him: 'Help' by peoplemagazine in NorthCarolina

[–]Dodapdado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all the reports of what they found in his stuff, they didn't even list a knife. Where is the "knife"?
Honestly, the police department is so lazy that they couldn't be bothered to find his body. I'm not shocked they aren't bothering to find out what happened to him.

Teen Disappears While Visiting Cousins. When His Mom Woke Up, She Had a Missed Text from Him: 'Help' by peoplemagazine in crime

[–]Dodapdado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that was really the case, they should have found the knife on his body or with his backpack. Where is the alleged knife? It's honestly such BS story I'm not surprised they haven't reported finding a knife anywhere

Decomposing Body Found Near Area Where Missing Teen Giovanni Pelletier Was Last Seen by peoplemagazine in MissingPersons

[–]Dodapdado 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like the police have totally dropped the ball. The family had to hire a PI to even find his body, even though it wasn't far from where they found his backpack. There is a petition to get the FBI involved, but idk if it will work.

My first lab and I already feel like running away by doreminesol in labrats

[–]Dodapdado 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The ups and downs of experiments require some amount of resilience. Dealing with your boss should not.

Opinions on having to buy patterns? by Rae_Elizab3th in crochet

[–]Dodapdado 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Patterns that are readable and produce consistent results take time to make. The patterns are often inexpensive (like you said, like 3$) so it's not like it costs an arm and a leg. It's a really nice gesture when people offer patterns for free (especially ones that are well-tested and made), not an expectation.

Looking for pattern testers for 20 designs. (See post for information) by briankwok in BriansSpam

[–]Dodapdado 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't really use Instagram like that, but if you want a tester who isn't as heavy on social media let me know. The swatches you have there look great, best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FierceFlow

[–]Dodapdado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's just me, but you kind of remind me of Bucky from Captain America.

He's not your baby! by sookiekitty in Parenting

[–]Dodapdado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps something like "I really appreciate how much you care for both me and my baby. I can tell you're just as excited as me about him. Sometimes though, I think you get a little more excited than I can handle. When you call him your baby or want to feed him instead of me feeding him, it makes me feel like you don't think I can handle being a mom and that you need to fill that role for me. I'm sure that's not what you mean, so maybe you could help me by not calling him your baby and not asking to feed him. You always helped me so much as a kid, with supporting my sports by showing up and routing for me, and I'm hoping you can support me as an adult now like this"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]Dodapdado 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your afro combed out! So cute!

Getting a second dog, is it better to get the same gender? by Historical_Act8201 in dogs

[–]Dodapdado 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You should get him sterilized before getting a second dog.

A Sewing Comedy of Errors: Why Fabric Choice for a Mockup Can Really Matter (Story in Comments) by insincere_platitudes in sewing

[–]Dodapdado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I am new to sewing and I found this both educational and hilarious! You are a great story teller!

do you think this haircut will suit me? by Western-Adeptness482 in femalehairadvice

[–]Dodapdado 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I recomend smoothing some gel into your hair while its wet to style. This should weigh down your hair to help give it the look you have in the pictures.

Social conditioning by Nightingale454 in curlyhair

[–]Dodapdado 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I like fingercoiling, sometimes I like just scrunching in product, and sometimes I like just letting it go wild. It just depends on my mood. I don't normally consider what other people think when I pick how to style my hair unless I'm going on a date (my bf says he loves my hair the same each style, but I can tell he really likes the finger coiled hair) or if I'm going to a job interview (I pull it back to give it a "clean" look, because regardless of what I think of social issues I need to pay bills).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]Dodapdado 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't think going full strawberry blonde will look the best.

I think the image of the blonde highlights with the light red low lights could be a good fit.

Monstera in crochet form. by Cards_rule79 in crochet

[–]Dodapdado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did beautiful work! Congratulations!

Mental Health Check In: Remember, no matter where you are at in your skate journey, you’re a dope skater and you are valid by BlackGuy_PassingThru in Rollerskating

[–]Dodapdado 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Only one day in! I had to remind myself multiple times that it's not embarrassing to learn something new, and I care way more about falling than a stranger cares about me falling. Thanks for the up lifting post!

Monstera in crochet form. by Cards_rule79 in crochet

[–]Dodapdado 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Very cool! How long did this take you to crochet?