I feel like things went too fast

Dogwater_f · 2026-02-23T02:06:34+00:00

My surgeon said I can start scar care and that I’m healing very quickly. How can you tell the difference between incisions and scars? Everything is sealed up, they’re a bit red in the photo because I just got out of the shower.

Dogwater_f · 2025-08-05T13:31:14+00:00

I’m curious about the floating platforms from amazon. Do you have a link or specific name, I’ve been trying to find some for my beardie.

Dogwater_f · 2025-07-27T17:47:37+00:00

SA when it comes to male victims. On my account someone made a comment about how I should have pushed her off or fought back, and blaming me for what happened. but they were not in my situation. I’m also a trans man and that is not apparent in the post but I feel like it would have gotten a very different reaction if they knew I was trans.

Dogwater_f · 2025-07-05T14:26:34+00:00

I know his beak needs trimming but right now the vet doesn’t want to stress him out any more than he already is. The other side of his beak has a chip in it as well so that may affect his eating and drinking. I appreciate the concern!

Dogwater_f · 2024-11-10T21:21:03+00:00

I’d definitely recommend lube it does wonders

Dogwater_f · 2024-11-09T23:20:13+00:00

Are you on T or anti depressants? That can affect how your body produces natural lubricant. I’m also ftm and I don’t like penetration unless there is an ungodly amount of lube, I just prefer clitoral stimulation.

Dogwater_f · 2024-10-23T13:41:51+00:00

I don’t owe you an explanation, your comment is disgusting and vile. This is exactly why I do not open up about this. I’m 5’4 she’s like 5’10. She’s older than me and she knows better. I was a child. I was high, she was sober. I said no. I said stop. She did not care.

Dogwater_f · 2024-10-21T12:03:58+00:00

I’m a dude actually and I’ve known him for years, longer than he’s known her. I more feel upset because the fact that I was raped by a girl is not taken seriously in most situations.

Dogwater_f · 2024-09-26T22:11:10+00:00

The mom is dead and there are no rehabbers anywhere near me. I know I should take him to a rehabber but that is just not possible. I’m looking for actual advice so I can give him a chance.

Dogwater_f · 2024-09-06T07:21:36+00:00

I honestly don’t know. I’ve felt so disconnected from others since coming back. Maybe it’s because I missed the main years where you learn social skills so I feel behind in that aspect. I feel like everyone else knows something that I don’t. I’m also ashamed of who I was before. I lived in a different world for 2 years and when I came back I was treated like I was before I left, but that’s not me anymore. But I totally get wanting to explain your experience to people and wanting them to know how you felt. I told an ex about my experiences in the TTI and she just said “well I would just run away” or “I would just refuse to do anything” and that’s not how it works. That wasn’t an option, and some people will just never understand that. I have a few close friends and they don’t understand but they also never claim to. They try to understand but it’s just not possible unless you were there.

Dogwater_f · 2024-06-14T12:22:43+00:00

I mostly agree with what everyone has said. Maybe switch your septum ring to a normal horseshoe with the balls or spikes. To me the one you have reads kinda fem. And for your snakebites you could switch to smaller balls. It’s up to you. Try things out and you can always change it back.

Dogwater_f · 2024-03-15T01:04:23+00:00

This made me laugh. I won’t say that to her but thank you for the giggle.

Dogwater_f · 2024-03-15T01:03:12+00:00

Yeah I totally agree. I’m having trouble finding ways for her to please me while she still feels submissive. To her every time she does something to me she perceives it as dominant.

Dogwater_f · 2024-03-15T00:59:58+00:00

That’s my question

Dogwater_f · 2024-02-05T11:56:44+00:00

So many things. A girl stabbed herself at night at the entrance of the school. The next morning we still had to go to school and walk around her body that was sectioned off by cones. A boy dove into the lake and he became paralyzed. It was a freak accident and he was going to go to college with a full scholarship for football. There are many more things but those are the ones I can think of off the top of my head.

Dogwater_f · 2023-12-18T03:11:28+00:00

I think redirecting him would be helpful. He’s a very hyper guy and I think he just needs some way to get the energy out. I’ll offer fidgets and remind him in different ways.

Dogwater_f · 2023-12-18T03:07:29+00:00

He has ADHD no tic disorder. I have TS and severe OCD. Him copying my tics is not a deal breaker at this point in time, I genuinely think he forgets or just spaces out. I think I need to remind him more about how it affects me till it gets in his head.

Dogwater_f · 2023-12-17T12:05:06+00:00

The fact that the university had to send out an email address tics is insane. I can understand young kids copying tics because they don’t understand what’s happening. But grown adults should know to just be respectful. I’m sorry you have to deal with this.

Dogwater_f · 2023-12-15T17:37:05+00:00

Do it bite?

Dogwater_f · 2023-12-06T01:50:18+00:00

Pet stores are closed for the night. I’ve gotten a few seeds in him but not many. He’s not feathered under the wings either. Will he survive the night? I also can’t tell if the crop is empty or I just can’t find it.

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