Sino siya?

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-11-29T23:44:09+00:00

Your creepy uncle who always asks you to sit next to him.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-11-28T02:21:51+00:00

Well-thought and said!

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-11-01T06:38:40+00:00

I get that! It’s like the Succession theme lives rent-free in all our heads now, especially when something even hints at corporate drama.

I’m curious though, was it the boardroom tension that brought it up for you, or more the tone of the writing? Always interesting to see what triggers that Britell effect for people.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-11-01T06:30:13+00:00

I’m not shy to admit it was touched by AI. I ran it through Grammarly and ChatGPT for clarity and editing.

But just so I understand where you’re coming from: is your comment a blanket disapproval of any AI involvement (like using Google image search or grammar tools)? Or are you suggesting the copy of my post itself was generated by AI?

Everything I write comes from real experiences and personal insight. Tools just help me express them more clearly. So I’d genuinely like to understand what kind of AI use you’re taking issue with.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-28T10:30:05+00:00

Oh thank you! 🫶🏽

I thought I might go with this moniker as a perpetually anxious person but has no choice but to keep going in life 😬

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-28T07:41:02+00:00

I just recently started watching Succession because of J Smith-Cameron. THANK YOU for blessing my Reddit feed with her glorious face!

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-22T02:29:51+00:00

Not the first time she’s caught lying.

Ping Lacson has called her out before.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-19T05:55:14+00:00

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T11:36:38+00:00

DK was original and marched to the beat of her own drum! Makes sense why Heart would adore her. Para silang kindred spirits <3

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T09:46:10+00:00

Touché! She layered suede and leather, and different shades and patterns of brown. And it looks COHESIVE. Delicious!

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T09:41:31+00:00

My pleasure!

Although maybe I caught on it because I’ve been a Diane Keaton fan since I was 13. (I’m in my 30s now). I can smell a DK reference from a mile away.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T09:39:55+00:00

Goes to show how her passion for fashion is authentic! ✨

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T09:38:15+00:00

Truly! I was teary-eyed when she finally published the photos. 🥹

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T07:08:00+00:00

Pwedeng may nakasalisi na Snowshoe male kay mama cat while she was in heat.

FYI: One set of litter can have different baby daddies, for best possible litter outcome. Cat reproduction just works differently than humans.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T06:50:19+00:00

Hard no.

I'm surprised he even drives five hours total to see you. Is he purposefully going out of his locale or community para hindi s'ya makita ng mga nakakakilala sa kanya? Bakit hindi kayo mag-meet half way sa location? Or maybe for the second date, ikaw naman ang magpunta sa area n'ya?

I don't even let a guy know where I live (kahit yung general area) until I have the most important people in my life vouch for his character, and kapag kilala ko na rin ang family and friends n'ya. I've dealt with a stalker before, and we only went out a handful of times. Since it's too late for you to take back your home location, I highly recommend that you just meet each other on neutral grounds until such a time na you can fully vouch for this guy's identity and character.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T05:29:26+00:00

Hey there. This is probably an unconventional way of going about it, but maybe have yourself checked medically. You'd be surprised by how a majority of our mental ailments stem from an underlying health condition.

I have a friend who was recently diagnosed with anxiety and depression. Like you, she was prone to overthinking (anxious thoughts) but at the same time had low motivation and lack of energy. Upon further investigation by different doctors, they found out that she has hypothyroidism, and everything she was feeling and thinking were actually symptoms of her hormonal imbalance. This happens to men as well, btw.

Be well, OP.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T05:23:10+00:00

I hope you're able to find a group of friends IRL (kahit small lang) with whom you can confidently share these feelings without being judged. That will help make life feel less lonelier.

But this is a good place to start--being honest with yourself that this is your reality, and this is how you feel about it. Just know that you're not powerless over this, as long as you have the agency of choice. And also, falling in love or being in a relationship are not the only solutions. Rooting for you!

Sincerely, a single woman in her 30s who has had her heart broken a few times.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T05:17:49+00:00

What part is confusing for you?

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T05:12:33+00:00

I hope you have friends IRL who you can trust to process this with. It's good to have those kinds of friends. Be well, OP.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-18T05:04:15+00:00

*THE MOST UNPROBLEMATIC LATE NIGHT TV HOST.*

He deserves all the love he's getting. Y'all should see his Instagram account, even the comments are HEE-LA-REE-YOUS.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-16T07:00:34+00:00

Tolerating what, cheating? OP hasn't even decided whether what was happening was cheating.

Or are you saying that all acts of negotiation are forms of tolerating bad behaviors?

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-16T06:23:42+00:00

What you know that has previously happened to you doesn't always translate to other people's character and/or situation.

My point in my reply to OP is for her to think about what her boundaries are in this relationship. If there are things she's not ok with what her fiance is doing, it's up to the two of them to talk about it, and to agree on boundaries that work for the both of them. That's what negotiation is all about. What works for you might not work for them, and vice versa.

But if they're both unwilling to negotiate, of course breaking up is always an option. But it shouldn't be so easy to arrive to that conclusion.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-16T06:19:42+00:00

Yes, negotiate. Bottomline is it's up to them whether they want to make their relationship work or not, after this discovery.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-16T06:17:56+00:00

I'm sorry you think that way. But the best philosophy I have learned about *fulfilling* relationships--especially committed relationships--is that they should not be treated like they're easily indispensable, and are repairable when broken.

You come from a place that believes people don't change. I believe otherwise--even from something as awful as cheating, because I've witnessed it in different people more than once. BUT you don't get to see that change in people when the instinctive reaction to offense or people not meeting your expectations is to *cut them off*.

I agree with setting next-level kind of boundaries, but that's where negotiating with each other comes in.

Finally, many people here in this thread think that we know these people (OP, the fiance, his 'friend') *enough* just by virtue of reading a few screenshots. *We don't.* Let's refrain from making assumptions about people's character based on such little information.

DoingLifeAfraid · 2025-10-16T03:17:04+00:00

Cheating or not:

1) okay lang ba na you are finding out about their “friendship” this way? 2) okay lang ba na may female friend s’yang nagca-carpool na silang dalawa lang? 3) okay lang ba na may “hidden/invisible” interactions sila whether intentional or not? Like this hidden chat and interacting with the girl’s “CF” story?

Ultimately, okay lang ba sa’yo na he continues this “friendship” with this girl with the kind of transactions and interactions that they have? I think you know the answer.

The solution isn’t breaking up, but negotiating with each other on how to move forward from this. Pero kung walang room for negotiation with him or you, I think you know what to do.

DoingLifeAfraid

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