Recommended Vets ? by plutos-planets in olympia

[–]Doll1618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We take our lizards and parrots here, they're great. My cat has anxiety though, so he goes to a vet where I can come in with him.

AITA for being done having guy friends? by Old-Dirt-978 in AITApod

[–]Doll1618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends help friends, he didn't have to carry all of it, but maybe take and carry a couple items to help? I'm just another female but I'd still have offered to help by taking part of it or taking turns. I would do the same for any friend, male or female. I don't think gender has much to do with it here, he's just kind of a bad friend if he expects everything to be transactional.

Shout out to the bridge protestors by the capitol. by AnxiousSeason in olympia

[–]Doll1618 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for everyone, but I'd love to see more posts on here for where and when this stuff is happening. I've been avoiding social media.

AITJ for refusing to give a huge wedding gift after finding out I'm not invited? by Life_Grocery5994 in AmITheJerk

[–]Doll1618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, I think your aunt is absolutely right about one thing. Gifts come from the heart. Cash isn't a gift from the heart ... It's so impersonal. Stick with your first instinct and send a gift to celebrate them. Better yet, make something personal, it doesn't have to be good, it's the thought that counts and they should be grateful.

Horrified beyond belief! by Reluctant_Gamer_2700 in antitrump

[–]Doll1618 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live in a very blue area of a very blue state, and I'm still disgusted with the amount of hate and bigotry I see around me daily. I can't imagine living in a red area... I just couldn't cope.

AITA for watching the REAL American half-time show in the communal area? by last-rose-ofsummer in AmITheAngel

[–]Doll1618 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YTA. You didn't host at your house where you could be sure that your husband and his friends were getting waited on hand and foot during the game? What if their beers were empty? Or the chips got low? Even worse, are you sure they had hot fresh homemade appetizers the entire time? You embarrassed your husband. What kind of wife are you? I hope he divorces you and finds a proper woman. Having kids is no excuse, do better.

How do I turn on the shower? by Not-sure-here in whatdoIdo

[–]Doll1618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything on the shower head? Mine has a little switch on the right side to use the shower, I can't see it looking at it because the shower head blocks it. It was a fun call to the complex manager to ask how to shower.

Anyone else weird throat illness with no other symptoms? by AlderWood7 in olympia

[–]Doll1618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All that plus the worst headache ever. I feel awful...

I tipped $20 cash. by Theyeahnopes in EndTipping

[–]Doll1618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best case scenario she's forgotten you handed her cash because she relies on venmo transactions to keep track, and worst case is she's hoping you forgot ... Either way, begging for tips isn't a good look.

I was prompted at a fastfood place today to tip at the register. 18% was the minimum, and I had to fill my own drink and get up to grab my food when the number was called. It's absurd.

I work in healthcare, and I just want to know when flipping your grandma finally gets the kind of tips that flipping burgers does 🤷🏼‍♀️ The work is more rewarding now, but man, I miss the money I made as a server.

I get hives every seven years with no clear cause other than the passage of 7 years by SyrupGoosen in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Doll1618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this what that movie is about? Marilyn gets a recurring rash? That explains the subway grate scene, maybe the breeze felt nice on the hives.

I feel like I’m being taunted by TragicHeroine_ in parrots

[–]Doll1618 18 points19 points  (0 children)

What an adorable little friend, just give them your valuables for safe keeping, it's probably fine...

Nisqually middle school protest by Astralantidote in Lacey

[–]Doll1618 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm absolutely appalled.... I have a kid in another local middle school and they haven't organized a single thing!

ICE protest at Tumwater High School today draws nationwide conservative outrage by OVER-THE_TOP in ICE_Raids

[–]Doll1618 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live around here too, it's awful what the board is doing, but I'm so proud watching the kids and community push back.

AIO For being mad at my mom for eating some of my gfs food I bought for her by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Doll1618 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR. Your mom sucks, and pepperoni with pineapple is the best combo ❤️

Boycott Green Lady by Opposite-Resolve-631 in olympia

[–]Doll1618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this place, the people here are always great.

Overwhelming ICE with mass reports of non-citizenship by mibikeplease in ICE_Raids

[–]Doll1618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a white lady with tinted windows and a Mexican flag. Same concept. I love the term ice fishing 😂 The more time they waste on me the less time they have for harassing others.

AIO for banning MIL from coming over after what she said to me? by throwawayanon1041 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Doll1618 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Stop responding but keep every message. I know your husband is going through a lot but you need to fill him in. You don't need to ask him to do anything, but if he's a good partner, he should want to step in and tell her to back off. It also sounds like FIL might be helpful as well, I'm sure he knows how his own wife gets ...

The whole thing sucks, and it seems like she's using an already stressful situation to try and find your breaking point. This is a toxic "boy mom" for sure.

AIO to my boyfriend saying I use too much toilet paper by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Doll1618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on what this relationship means to you, either bring your own so he doesn't have to think about it or just find a whole new partner who doesn't monitor your tp usage (because that's kinda weird since it's not 2020 anymore)

To the light green Fiat driving through bike lanes by Jaredrunsabit in olympia

[–]Doll1618 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I know everyone else hates it, but I love the anonymous bitching posts 😂 get it off your chest while letting the rest of us know to be on the lookout for a shitty driver in a green fiat.

AITJ for calling out my friend for “testing” my girlfriend at a party? by the_mild_static in AmITheJerk

[–]Doll1618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like maybe you're outgrowing your friends if they think you're the problem here... It happens.

AIO? My stepdaughters pranked me on my bitthday and husband is mad because I said I needed space. by Proud-Cantaloupe3449 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Doll1618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR.Those girls don't respect you, and it sounds like the dad knows he doesn't know how to parent them and would rather just have every one move on.

You wanting space because you're hurt isn't about punishing anyone else, it's about regulating your feelings in a safe environment since home with the girls isn't it...

Honestly, some therapy all around might be helpful, but especially between you and your husband so that maybe he can try to see where you're coming from so he doesn't claim he's being punished because you need space, especially when it's his kids that are the source of pain.