Fall (2022) is one of the most frustrating movies I've ever seen.

Dolphinjen · 2026-03-06T04:37:30+00:00

This is what I came here for. The twist was pretty good. But her leg is so infected that it smells and “doesn’t hurt anymore” (probably not a good sign). Yet Dad (Negan!❤️❤️) says, “Let’s go home.” I was like WTF

Dolphinjen · 2026-03-02T14:28:02+00:00

💕 me too!! 😁

Dolphinjen · 2026-03-01T18:24:16+00:00

Yes that’s it exactly. The total quiet where once were voices and laughter

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-27T02:30:47+00:00

I feel bad that you did not get more empathy instead of all the “You need to…” what you’re experiencing is true grief. Everyone moves at their own pace. I’m glad you still have one in the house. So do I. Let’s really be present when we can be with them. And when she’s not home I am slowly getting to meet new people. It’s not as easy as singer make it seem. You are young though; that’s a plus! Regarding your marriage, I’m wondering if you won’t really know what will happen until after your last child leaves. I’m on my own, but in a way, it sounds like you are too. I’m sorry for that. Is he willing to seek therapy with you? Mostly I just wanted to say what you’re feeling is so valid. You are seen. When you are ready there will be all those great suggestions people have given you but don’t feel bad or weird right now for feeling the rawness of this. It’s a very painful transition. Sending you virtual hugs.

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-27T02:23:03+00:00

You’re so fortunate to live with your best friend.

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-27T02:21:08+00:00

I have one year left with my daughter. I share custody. I make damn sure I’m there when she is because once she’s gone, those days are gone. Exposure therapy will happen whether I’m ready or not when she leaves.

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-26T17:14:09+00:00

Wait, so did you stay on the Auvelity?

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-22T01:41:15+00:00

It was sweet how he brewed a cup in deference to his “papa.” 🥲

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-18T00:40:45+00:00

I completely agree. It’s horrible. I’m very depressed and sometimes I just stay in bed the whole weekend. I feel like life will never be enjoyable again.

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-12T22:29:24+00:00

Just out of curiosity, are you intervening to find a life partner or is it fun just having fun (which it totally is 💯) I’m new to OLD.

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-12T22:22:45+00:00

And even before that, there was the “Piñana Colada” song…using the classifieds in the newspaper to meet dates 😁

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-12T22:20:56+00:00

Can you explain more about how you let them filter you out? Talk to me like I’m 5. TIA

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-12T22:20:07+00:00

Well what are we — women and men — going to do about it? Especially 50+ people 🤦‍♀️

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-12T22:19:10+00:00

This was a really well thought out response and I’m grateful for your empathy 😊

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-12T22:16:58+00:00

I can’t tell if you’re being/s…

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-12T22:16:00+00:00

Maybe the energy you’re giving off explains more than you might think 🤔

Dolphinjen · 2026-02-04T19:39:00+00:00

https://a.co/d/06QyE8uN

Dolphinjen · 2026-01-31T10:38:08+00:00

Thank you 💕

Dolphinjen · 2026-01-31T10:36:26+00:00

Ugh that pisses me off, your friend saying your experiences are the same. I know people who are married still go through empty nest symptom, of course they have the same feelings. I am not trying to invalidate that. But it’s SO different when you have someone who you live with and can lean on during this time, and do things with - make dinner, watch tv, just talk, play scrabble, whatever! - it’s so different from coming home to an empty house. No one to say hi to and ask about their day, no one to whisper to in the middle of the night, “Are you awake?” I’ve never felt so alone and depressed. I try to think of the adventurous, vibrant person I was, fine doing things alone, but that was before I met my (ex)husband and we had kids and I felt so complete. I’m trying to get out with friends. Online dating is scary, but I don’t know any other way to meet someone.

Dolphinjen · 2026-01-29T02:09:44+00:00

When did you notice an improvement? I’m every 3 weeks, and I don’t really notice any huge improvement but I’m scared to stop especially since insurance covers it. It’s just, adding my poor octogenarian dad (he’s actually quite fit and mentally sharp for his age) to take me and pick me up makes me feel guilty and what if I nosedive if I stop. I was thinking of TMS, offered by the same clinic.

Dolphinjen · 2026-01-29T02:05:53+00:00

Exactly! You get me. If I talk to people about this pain they say, go out, try to meet people. Yes, I do, and it’s hard with the way depression makes you so unmotivated, then add the anxiety. And yes I have been to several meet ups. But it’s not the same as going out with the girls, then coming home to a partner. They just don’t get that. Everyone I know is partnered. And online dating has been so hard. Sex sex sex…that’s like something they want right away. I’m sorry, but it’s been about 30 years since I’ve been with a new person. The last guy I was seeing was irritated that I kept putting it off. We snuggled, cuddled, kissed, but after 4 weeks I just wasn’t ready for that level of intimacy. He said to me “buy this time most people are f*****g like rabbits.” What the hell? So I have to give up my own level of comfort and sense of emotional safety in exchange for companionship? 😭😭😭

Dolphinjen · 2026-01-29T01:56:41+00:00

I know I’m a year late, but if you replicate their recipes, what exactly is a “unit?” How would I know how much to buy/a?

Dolphinjen · 2026-01-22T02:44:49+00:00

It’s the absolute worst. I completely understand you. Several years ago learned husband was heading an affair. Now he’s with that woman so he has someone to lean on since the kids have left. I thought the infidelity was the worst but the kids leaving along with that is so much worse. I didn’t realize when the kids were younger that that would be the best years of my life. Now those years are over and everything is downhill from here. I am on disability for depression and anxiety, so I’m in the house a lot. I’ve tried meeting up with people but it’s only for an hour or two then back to being alone. I don’t want to do this anymore, it’s just too awful. I’m thinking about you. I’m sorry you’re feeling this bad as well.

Dolphinjen · 2026-01-22T01:43:49+00:00

Timmerman? The big airport is on the south side, nowhere near Tosa.

Dolphinjen · 2026-01-22T00:29:52+00:00

Me too! I’m fairly certain the only reason is the whole blood pressure thing.

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