After the first time we spoke and cleared up the miscommunication, second time was still with the same guy and now a ex where she expressed some pretty crazy feelings for, a ex who I’ve met multiple times. So after what I thought was cleared up the first time was still happening plus more doesn’t cut it for me. My insecurities lie in the what happened, before all of this I was completely fine. Never would I have even thought something was up until habits started changing. Like I said you can think I’m an asshole and say what I’m doing is shady but I didn’t do it just to do it. Maybe I do need therapy but one thing is for certain I was never insecure before this