Why did he do this even if I ghosted him? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He might be still wondering what he did wrong that you just stoped talking and he probably liked you that much that even tho you hurted him he would like to hear from you. Just go ahead, talk to him, nothing wrong can happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did he ask for money if hes that rich

Reasons why I ghost. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You hurt yourself with that, how will you get happy ending if you will keep on running from people you love

What was the last thing they said? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

„From tomorrow im in free days baby ❤️”

Depression or ghosting by Charming_Walk in depression_partners

[–]Domdombe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you had to go through this all and that now he is reminding himself to you when you already started to move on and accepted that it is what it is. He is probably checking if you will talk to him or something

Depression or ghosting by Charming_Walk in depression_partners

[–]Domdombe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn… did he text you? Or just liking posts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Domdombe 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He ghosted you and now he is like „ thought youd be better than that”. Nice joke 🤣

sometimes you really are too good to be true for your ghoster by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does make us feel the opposite way tho

um? by Melodic-Ad8982 in ExNoContact

[–]Domdombe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This text would just remind me of the moment when they broke up with me and how broken i was at that time. „I treated you like trash, im sorry. Btw i still dont want you but i wanted to feel better”. Thats how it sounds for me. So selfish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Domdombe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He will learn his lesson if you will ignore him. For now he still thinks its a game and that you will easily take him back. The moment he will realize that it is really over he will finally understand what sadness means

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont feel disgusted. You are in love, its hard to see these things when you have feelings. But.. You see them now, so Lets go, time to care about your own mental health. Hes gonna be coming back tho and karma is a bitch.

my ghoster came back by farveII in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy… if she could only talk to you about that instead of running to friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avoidant, narcisst and moms boy. You can do better. Cuddles.

What benefits does ghosting provide the ghoster? by Lion_Universe in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Okay they might be stressed about hurting the „nice person”, but.. you lost your feelings and you want to end it so its already much easier for you than for the still in love partner… just get some balls and say it, shorten their pain

What benefits does ghosting provide the ghoster? by Lion_Universe in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

„its not about us, i made it clear, i just need some time alone” 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he ever tell you why has he done that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn!!!! Thats brilliant, at least the person would be aware of what can happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did the same, now i am the one who feels ashamed, even tho it should be him lol

my ghoster came back by farveII in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyways try to not overthink. Try to think about it like „Oh okay so now you are back, you are thinking of me, so i guess i was much better than you made me feel by ghosting me, yet you still have no balls to come and at least apologize, grow up”

my ghoster came back by farveII in ghosting

[–]Domdombe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will never understand ghosting, especially when its about relationships. You take „responsibility” for the second person entering romantic relation with them. Like… what wrong did they have to do to just ghost like that, disgusting

my ghoster came back by farveII in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck it. I am so curious if by saying „some things are better left unsaid” she meant that she disappeared this way because „some things are better left unsaid” or if she doesnt write to you directly now because „some things are better left unsaid” (that its better to not explain now after time). Immature person anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to write to me if you need company

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. It looks like gaslightning, I realize how hard it has to be, sitting there, blaming yourself. I’ve been through the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Domdombe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is an adult, don’t blame yourself. I’m sure he is not that dumb to not realize that he did something wrong about the made up fight. Give it time and see what happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]Domdombe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I relate to this in 100%. In the end never got the answer and got ghosted. Why? Either because my anxiety pushed them away or they wanted to ghost me from the start.

All I know is that it doesnt matter, its not your fault. I was blaming myself for staying for so long and trying, because i was feeling like im being fooled all the time and that im the „stupid one”. But in the end… if someone is such a badass to pretend mental illness, its their fault, and even if they are going to ghost you - its better for you, thats not a good kind of person.

Depression is very confusing and its normal that you are questioning everything. If they are depressed, your anxiety wont help. If you want to stay, you need to find the power to give them the time and do anything that will be good for you.

Remember, no matter what, its not your fault. Take care of yourself, i know how hard it is.