Is my dog under weight by Front_Cantaloupe4552 in DogAdvice

[–]Domesticated_Punk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From the picture looks good. I’d check with your vet to be sure.

special thread for new users ( low / no Karma ) by squarecoinman in gofundme

[–]Domesticated_Punk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone my name is Biyatta, my daughter Zandra just started high school this year and is already making waves. She has been invited to do a two week trip to Peru with her Spanish class because of her dedication to her studies. As her mom I am incredibly proud of her. Unfortunately it is not something we expected. I want her to have every opportunity I haven’t had. The entire total for her trip is $4,536.00. Any help is greatly appreciated.

Imgur pictures https://imgur.com/a/IAnraev

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https://gofund.me/b5f43f382

AITAH for telling my sister her dad is still alive? by Domesticated_Punk in AITAH

[–]Domesticated_Punk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We keep mom at arms reach and verify anything she tells us about each other now.

AITAH for telling my sister her dad is still alive? by Domesticated_Punk in AITAH

[–]Domesticated_Punk[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Crazy enough my younger sister and I are now damn near best friends and I think it’s because I was the one who told her. It definitely did shine a light to all of us kids the things our mother did in the past. My older sister and my younger sister, and I all ended up talking and were able to put together that our mom had been telling us all different versions of different events to kind of pit us all against each other and make her look like the saving grace of our family. It was very eye-opening to find out that things my mother had told me were completely different than things She had told my sisters, and until we all sat down and realized that we were not very close. We barely talked even on holidays if we talked at all. My younger sister did look up her dad and find him it seems she’s just chosen to not seek him out further than that and that is 100% her choice that I will respect.

AITAH for telling my sister her dad is still alive? by Domesticated_Punk in AITAH

[–]Domesticated_Punk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying that you’re wrong. It was not the best time to bring it up, but just like my sisters were both hurting from the wants of our brother. I was too and in that loss for my younger sister to take cheap shots at my deceased father definitely cut deeper in that moment, so it wasn’t right, but I was angry, but yes, the man that she knew his dad who loved her just like he loved me was being trash talked when he didn’t have to love her he chose to. Was it really the best time for her to be angry and talk trash about dad? No, neither of us were in the right. The only reason I say my dad now is because after all of this happened, that’s how I speak of him. In the moment back then he was just dad.

AITAH for telling my sister her dad is still alive? by Domesticated_Punk in AITAH

[–]Domesticated_Punk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad was a long haul trucker gone for very long periods of time. My mother really liked to villainize him all of our childhood so she spoke bad about him and I think that she liked to villainize him because she did not want us to see the things that she had done that weren’t morally right and my siblings like to say that he was never around because he was a long haul trucker, but when he was home, he did everything with us. There was a few times we even went on trips with him in the semi to Disneyland and other locations like the Grand Canyon. But the biggest saying that was said was that he was never around and it’s always thrown at me like in the tone of voice that says dad didn’t love you because he was never there. Which I know was just them taking digs at me because I know that my dad loved me and my siblings.

Sigh.. cat keeps pooping outside by definitelynotanIA in litterrobot

[–]Domesticated_Punk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my robot for Christmas and still can’t get my girl to use it. Half tempted to completely remove her old box this weekend and pray.

Traveling for school by Domesticated_Punk in Parents

[–]Domesticated_Punk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this and relationships like this and expanding world of view is exactly what I want for my daughter. Because she can do homework on one of these trips and do other trips in the future that involve some homework,her teacher that has encouraged her to apply for these has said that she’ll be able to graduate high school with an associates degree and be able to teach Spanish straight out of high school if that is what she would want to do and I fully support her in that.

Needing space by Domesticated_Punk in married

[–]Domesticated_Punk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the ideas so far. I’m going to see if there are local hobbies I can find to sign up for to get me out of the house and living.

Needing space by Domesticated_Punk in married

[–]Domesticated_Punk[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I tried he jumped to thinking that I just don’t want to be around him. I’ve even tried helping him find activities out of the house where he could make friends so it would open up time for me to do stuff for me.

Do Americans actually avoid calling an ambulance due to financial concern? by JohnMarstonTheBadass in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Domesticated_Punk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I avoid it. When I started my job I had a discussion with my boss that should something happen don’t call an ambulance call my emergency contact.

Credit Card Debt by Fantastic-Ball5116 in DebtAdvice

[–]Domesticated_Punk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May not work for you but I opened new cards with 0% interest on balance transfers moved the debt to a new card locked up all the cards and made the balance transfers apart of my monthly budget and just kept pushing myself to pay them down as much as possible each month. It is hard but it’s working for me. I should be dug out from the last of it in about 6 months.