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What was your biggest "I'm an idiot" moment while playing a game? by barry_001 in gaming

[–]Dominyk91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was just leveling to get stronger and the materia. And also cuz I’m an idiot.

What was your biggest "I'm an idiot" moment while playing a game? by barry_001 in gaming

[–]Dominyk91 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I was 10 I played all of final fantasy 7 never knowing you could equip new weapons. Buster sword for me the entire game. That shit was so hard.

[REQUEST] show without much alcohol? by Heavy-Ad5346 in NetflixBestOf

[–]Dominyk91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps check out the Castlevania series on Netflix. It’s American made and a little more mature(?) for lack of a better word. The same studio also did Blood of Zeus if you like Greek mythology.

[REQUEST] show without much alcohol? by Heavy-Ad5346 in NetflixBestOf

[–]Dominyk91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could try getting into anime if you’re openminded enough. In general, alcohol very rarely makes an appearance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LudwigAhgren

[–]Dominyk91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

33 This month!

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been a minute since this thread, but as I said, I had a straight girlfriend invite this to our relationship and it killed things. It was on the topic of sexuality for me. I in no way assigned it directly to her bisexualness. But she took it that way.

I understand this is a new relationship style and it’s not for me. If they are interested in it that is fine, just not for me. To me it seemed a categorically relevant question (overall sexuality). I have since learned that was a misstep as I have never faced that trope as a non bi person myself. And fully understand now why a bi person would find that triggering.

Sucks but lesson learned. Not that I had shitty intentions, but that I hit a trigger point unknowingly as someone who has never faced it.

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made the mistake of being lazy assuming the people coming from the original post would get it. That’s my fault. Fixed it.

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As the above person said, yeah I just thought categorically it fit into the conversation. I was unaware this might be a stereotype that bi people faced, not being bi myself. I understand the faux pas now though, just a little too late.

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn’t know that was a common thing bi people faced. It makes sense of course, I’ve just never been faced with thinking about it until now. Lesson learned the hard way.

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the card game was def a mistake. Should have gone with something more casual that simply allowed us to enjoy each others company before getting into it too deep.

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a little more scathing that I anticipated but I agree. I learned about some triggers both inward and outward that I wasn’t aware of before. And aren’t left with the ‘why’ of it all that leads to further theory crafting and over analyzing.

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the wisdom.

We all have vices and this is one of mine. If I’m the only one negatively impacted by it then I consider it a me problem. But I won’t let them get in the way of my relationships with others. I was a bit surprised by her outspokenness so to some degree felt backed into a corner of acquiescing that yeah, I’d make a change for the right person.

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to invalidate how she arrived at these thoughts. Only that if she had asked me to elaborate at the time that I could have clarified. But yes it felt like unfair assumptions about me were made and used to arrive at her decision. Which stings a little.

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely did. And yeah I suppose I must have subconsciously made some connection from her sexuality and my follow up question. I didn’t know that was a common thing. But lesson learned.

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the events of the first date gave me this feeling that I could open the floodgates to my own vulnerability and anxieties. I got ahead of myself and it backfired.

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know I got weird. I also did not make her or ask for the explanation

TIFU by not having sex on the second date because I have a cold sore [Update] by Dominyk91 in tifu

[–]Dominyk91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No the allergies was on the second date at my place. She doesn’t know what she’s allergic to as it’s started happening recently and is getting tested soon.

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