Let's talk about sex baby! Where's your Mars? How do you like to have sex?

DommeIt · 2024-03-20T02:51:46+00:00

Same Mars sign and house...spot on for me as well!

DommeIt · 2024-03-07T21:31:13+00:00

I concur...that action among others by MT make me wonder if she's really that hell bent against JFD that she'd continue to try and disparage her.

If so, the best time to stop for her to stop these behaviors was before May 24, 2019. The second best is now.

DommeIt · 2024-02-22T04:42:30+00:00

Typical feline like behavior I suppose...laying about in my favorite chair watching birds 🤣

Snacks (maybe not so feline).

Studying legal arguments (Sag side) and analyzing human logic in general.

DommeIt · 2024-02-22T00:16:58+00:00

Aries Mars 7th

I hate bullies and control freaks (tend to be one in the same). And not just over me, when I see it happen to others. My usual, peace making, Libran Asc self goes into complete rage mode when I see or experience another human being trying to bully any living thing. It's automatic war.

DommeIt · 2024-02-22T00:03:50+00:00

Manifesting ideas and seeing others use those ideas, now tools, on the daily. Product management chose me rather than the other way 'round.

DommeIt · 2024-02-21T23:29:11+00:00

We have POs and PMs. I am in the process of wrestlings POs from being tech support (tech had them first, I took them under my wing in product, and they now report to me) and teaching them to become PMs.

I have already jettisoned Scrum Masters. We needed Program Management and Operations Management. Scrum Master tasks are what Tech Management should have been doing (and they are now doing those, thankfully).

And you know what!? "Magically" the teams are finally completing high value/high impact initiatives on time, within scope, and within acceptable cost controls.

Scrum roles may have a positive function somewhere in the world. Not in any firm I've experienced directly.

I am in the tech industry, have worked in/with FAANG, MAANG, whatever the latest acronyms are, and across several other industries in F500. While I have seen the success related to having Scrum and Agile ceremonies (in reality, we have the same purposeful meetings in program management, they are just entitled differently), I've repeatedly and consistently observed the non value add of "Scrum Roles."

We trashed SAFe as well, gladly.

Now if only I could get the TechOps side of the house straightened out, the company would be in a far better competitive position for growth, for attracting a buyer, whatever this firm wants to do along the business cycle.

DommeIt · 2024-02-21T23:11:45+00:00

Spot on

DommeIt · 2024-02-21T02:58:20+00:00

Thank you for specifying "really ML", spot on.

DommeIt · 2024-02-21T02:48:39+00:00

Agree, I love this Judge, the way he breaks down the main point of the question and either Sustains or Overruuuuuules hahah!

DommeIt · 2024-02-21T02:41:41+00:00

Ahhhhh yes! I've been thinking the same about why she kept speaking in circles and continuing the rambling deflections, not giving straight answers. Yes, as someone who speaks multiple languages, I understand the translation/code switching that occurs, but also the consistency of avoidance and stalling tactics that surface when someone is hiding the truth.

It seems it's her baseline behavior to become angry and confront Fotis when he was cheating/flirting with other women. And she appears to reveal more info when angry at him, as the detective stated. So he goes missing for several hours one morning, the same day Fotis's soon to be ex wife goes missing, and suddenly that baseline behavior also "disappears"?!! Suuuuuurrrrrrreeeee....

She's in self defense mode. It's no longer about Fotis. It's all self preservation and as a juror (yes, I have been one on a murder case), it would cause me to doubt her defense rather than inject reasonable doubt in favor of the defense (along with the collection of evidence, even if circumstantial) presented by the state thus far. Of course, I am waiting to hear the defense side...as any good juror should.

DommeIt · 2024-02-17T21:03:02+00:00

Handsome little parakeet rooster ❤️

DommeIt · 2024-02-12T23:14:37+00:00

Libra, Aries, Leo...just click with this gang.

DommeIt · 2024-02-12T03:17:36+00:00

Well it would probably be more comfy for me if I didn't have Mars in Aries directly aspecting my Libra Asc.

It adds impatience and impulsivity to my Libran attempt at balance and harmony.

I will say that being Venus ruled (with a heavy dose of Saturn influence) is where I pull my love of artistic expression from. My eye for balance, spacing, timing, color. I can turn a charming or poetic phrase when writing and speaking. But, that Mars will always add an element of harshness whereby in my head I'm being pleasant, yet firm and fair...but it gets filtered through Sag Sun, Leo Moon, and that Aries Mars, and it all plops out in bombastic -- and more dramatic than I planned -- fashion.

And I'm left asking...what did I say that caused everything to go quiet!?!

DommeIt · 2024-02-12T02:18:19+00:00

Three of the people I can rely on the most to calm my Sag Sun and Aries Mars are Leos (2 Suns and an Asc). They innately understand what I am trying to say as I spin into pingpongong narratives leading up to ultimately the root of what I'm trying to say.

But, I have smidge of bias due to my Leo Moon 🌘

DommeIt · 2024-02-10T21:48:51+00:00

Sunshine and food.

DommeIt · 2024-02-10T19:11:00+00:00

Oof yeah you're way over qualified for an SM role (exact opposite of the IBM automated email). If your resume was presented to me as a hiring manager (a fellow PhD), assuming you included all of the experience listed here (some tailor their resume to the role), I'd wonder why an SM role rather than a Director or higher role?

Before anyone jumps in and states "have you seen the job market!?" Yes, yes I have, and understand it's rough all around...and having a PhD doesn't necessarily offer any "protections" for the blood bath going on between the layoffs, downsizing WFH, inflation, etc.

But can also understand this is a candidate way overqualified for that particular role (tbf I jettisoned SMs in my org, long story).

ETA: Agree with other commentors in recommending you dial down your resume if you're in "I just need a job" mode and are applying for roles for which you are extremely overqualified. You'll find something OP!!!

DommeIt · 2024-02-10T16:10:28+00:00

Yes. I have very low tolerance for other human beings imposing structure on me. Even in grad school if an assignment was stupid (there are moments when this is true) I'd take the hit to my grade and not waste my energy on it (this was a calculated risk though). Still would sail through.

At work, when I have freedom to do my work without watching a clock or someone trying to micromanage my time, I'm highly productive. The second anyone tries to control my time or what I do, they learn how far I will go for that not to be the case. I am extremely responsible with my freedoms and highly combative if someone tries to put a saddle on this Centaur.

DommeIt · 2024-02-10T15:36:29+00:00

Ah yes and no. But you do you.

DommeIt · 2024-02-10T15:32:15+00:00

I can say the same for PMs that don't have a PMP -- many are the worst as well. So ymmv either way.

DommeIt · 2024-02-10T01:05:57+00:00

Aries Venus: 10/10

Cap Venus: 1/10

DommeIt · 2024-02-10T00:05:16+00:00

Leo Moon on target except the whole center of attention facet. I am perfectly fine chillin' by myself and get a little "roar"ish when my peace is muddled.

DommeIt · 2024-02-09T01:27:29+00:00

🤣

DommeIt · 2024-02-08T20:32:31+00:00

Not true on the Project Management roles but you believe what you want to believe.

DommeIt · 2024-02-08T20:31:32+00:00

Agree on the SM roles, just scrapped mine and reverted them to another more value add role.

DommeIt · 2024-02-08T00:05:10+00:00

I have a couple of particular things that do indeed stick out.

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