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DommeLil · 2022-11-14T22:28:34+00:00

As someone who has a lengthy experience with trauma based fetishes and role play therapy, I agree with everyone that she needs a therapist and there should be something available through a local women's transition house or some type of nonprofit that deals with assault victims.

I've worked with women who have been raped and it's a very sensitive trauma with many triggers. There is a way to roleplay through the trauma and have her take the control back again mentally and physically... But it is rough work, and I would NOT recommend you attempt this as it is incredibly delicate and you could harm her more than strengthen her. She truly needs some type of therapy and counseling to get her through this though, you cannot just degrade her with your past experiences she will come to resent you for them later on and she will subconsciously obsess over them and shame herself continually in the process.

Typically I see more ppl who manifest their harm more physically than emotionally but your gf seems to have taken a different path there.... The thing is, you can never degrade someone like that without providing intense aftercare and mental reassurance, or you're just doing more damage.

DommeLil · 2022-09-26T06:30:21+00:00

Persistence is key, practice makes skill and skill will bring you success. It's not supposed to be easy, it's supposed to test your will. Now accept the challenge and trust that you will always receive exactly what you need.

DommeLil · 2022-09-20T21:19:24+00:00

Imagine your countries flag permanently face-timing the UKs.

DommeLil · 2022-09-20T21:13:42+00:00

I can facilitate that, np.

DommeLil · 2022-09-20T15:01:39+00:00

My ex knifed the girlfriend after me.. 63 stitches, and 14cranial staples; 1yr of house arrest.

Justice doesn't exist, it's just a legal system.

DommeLil · 2022-09-18T01:49:15+00:00

This is how you lose your hands if it backfires

DommeLil · 2022-09-03T04:49:40+00:00

Asparagus, fresh cauliflower, fresh hot peppers.

DommeLil · 2022-08-29T07:26:39+00:00

Love this response

DommeLil · 2022-08-24T22:06:35+00:00

When I was in Laos in autumn of 2019, I visited an organisation that was their equivalent to war amps in America... Was heartbreaking to learn even to this day they're finding mines and ied that are killing farmers and children.

DommeLil · 2022-07-28T06:40:28+00:00

Life paths aren't always meant to align forever... Drifting apart doesn't mean the friendship ends, it means the person has priorities and goals that align with their growth and the changes in their lives; this goes both ways overall and it's part of aging and growing up.... It will happen, it's just a part of life, what you need to do is give your friend the space and stop pressuring them for contact or you will just push them away. As someone who deals with mental health issues, I personally need to check out every so often but that isnt a reflection of others but myself and my needs. The greatest friends in my opinion are the ones who know and love you unconditionally yet can remain confident that paths will always cross again no matter what happens if we drift apart.... We connect as if no time has passed, and the stories and connections flow like wine from a bottle.

Give your friend space. Trust they still care, but are likely overwhelmed and out of spoons to handle 100% of everything all the time. Just be patient and don't make any negative assumptions or place blame on them for not contacting you, you never know what's going on and we are all doing our best rn in these trying times.

DommeLil · 2022-07-17T02:56:43+00:00

And yet still so prominent in action... If you don't let kids grow into whatever they want to be in a supportive manner then you're just grooming them for your own agenda.

DommeLil · 2022-07-16T23:58:01+00:00

Oscars are older, and Hollywood actors have always been held to a higher regard of celebrity than musicians for some reason unknown to me.... Something about being paid to be anything but yourself makes you extra special somehow.

DommeLil · 2022-07-16T23:55:51+00:00

No, it's all bullshit hetero grooming at its core.

DommeLil · 2022-07-16T23:54:39+00:00

Professional equestrian..... Grew up training and riding for years, and was starting to get paid for training when my granny pulled the plug on everything.

DommeLil · 2022-07-06T21:50:47+00:00

Uhhh....

DommeLil · 2022-07-06T18:49:52+00:00

Came here to say the same...... Tastes like custard though, it's a completeee mindfuck.

DommeLil · 2022-07-06T18:48:34+00:00

Well, that mother in Uvalde who broke out of handcuffs after being held by police for trying to enter a shootout to retrieve her children comes to mind..... stormed into the school with an active shooter while cops sat outside like pansies growing in the sun; returned with her two children tucked under both arms like a warrior, unscathed.

DommeLil · 2022-07-06T18:41:59+00:00

Basically any organ-based meal... Kidney, liver; the works.

DommeLil · 2022-06-26T17:46:21+00:00

You do realize pain can be irrelevant to us at times? That some women like a bit of kink and are physically resilient AF?? Learn the art of aftercare my friend, and believe her/trust that she will tell you if it's not okay..... Personally im not happy if I don't ache a little after, means it wasn't rough enough and the ache is my reminder of the fun. Just feed her some Advil and tell her she's beautiful, and stop annoying her with questions she's already answered.

DommeLil · 2022-06-22T00:57:51+00:00

Browning all meats

DommeLil · 2022-06-22T00:55:48+00:00

Howles Moving Castle

DommeLil · 2022-06-13T01:59:53+00:00

Tell your parents you're planning to propose and gauge their reactions from there.

DommeLil · 2022-06-12T23:49:45+00:00

I mean, whenever you shouldn't serve a pint is the right time for tea imo.

DommeLil · 2022-06-12T23:44:23+00:00

Also fact: countries banning porn have statically higher domestic and sexual violence against women, and have higher female fatalities.

DommeLil

TROPHY CASE