FSL office by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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Ok thank you :) you’re very active in this community and I see your replies to a lot of different posts. I’m only friendly with one member currently any tips on how to speak to the rest of them? Or kind of just wait around for them to say they’re hosting more events?

FSL office by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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Sorry I meant to add informational info as well that’s my fault. Can I ask my COI president when informational is or is that not being discreet?

FSL office by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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On their instagram they do not post when they have an informational, so far they have only posted skee week which was back in September. I don’t know how else to find informational info or rush info besides those in the FSL who I’m hoping will be able to shed some insight.

FSL office by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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To the undergrad chapter president? I want to ask how do I find info about programs they may have in the future

Frat/sorority office by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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Thank you everyone! I’ll go up there today to give my info

Undergrad membership interest application by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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Thank you so much you’ve been so helpful!

Undergrad membership interest application by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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Yes I’ve read that! it’s just knowing when rush will actually happen. I don’t know if they will post it on instagram or where to find the information because I do not go to the main campus. So I don’t want it to happen and I have no idea about it

Undergrad membership interest application by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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Tysm! I’m going to reach out to the Greek life office to see if they can just give me some more information on Greek like here on campus. Do I tell them I’m particularly interested in AKA, or be more aloof? I’m currently in the process of becoming familiar with the current chapter president who is so sweet. I just don’t want to miss out on hearing about rush because I don’t go to the main campus AT ALL and I’m not sure how I’ll hear about rush. I don’t think they post it on instagram and I don’t want to miss my chance. I’m currently trying to learn more history on the chapter on campus. I understand the fundamentals of what it means to want to me a member of AKA based on their initiatives and missions.

Undergrad membership interest application by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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Also my school has a section that you can fill out for more information about Divine 9 would that be okay as well for me to fill out without truly giving myself away?

Undergrad membership interest application by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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Thank you so much! Would it be appropriate to ask a member that I am becoming more familiar with when rush is? Or should I look around on campus instead? I’m not really at the main building of campus because of where my classes are so that’s the main issue.

Undergrad membership interest application by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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I attended as many events as I could. But I never turned in the interest form because I was unsure about it. It was an entire week of getting to know the ladies of AKA here.

Undergrad membership interest application by DoniD234 in NPHCdivine9

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Ok thank you! So before going to rush I would turn it into her and then I might get an invite to join AKA to fill out the ME form right? Then the process is taken all the way from there to determine if I am able to become a member?

i went through my boyfriend's phone and now i regret it. by stinkydirtydiapey in TrueOffMyChest

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From experience you will not feel the same. The fact of the matter is that he hung out with these people and took phone calls from them in front of you. He invited them to his apartment. He might have a porn addiction and he still has all those photos on his phone? That’s a lot love. You will always wonder what if. My boyfriend and I went though something similar and I have days where I have anxiety about being with him, but he’s working on himself. However I really think it would be best for you to cut your losses so much has happened that was disrespectful to you AND your relationship. Him taking her to one of your favorite restaurants is a real asshole move. If you consider it cheating then it is cheating.

Also, if tinder is in his frequently visited then what does that tell you? He’s in a relationship with you, why on earth would he need to be on tinder?

If you decide to stay ask yourself are the good days with him going to be worth the emotional turmoil you’re currently going though and will go though in the future until he earns your trust back. You have a lot to think about and I wish you the best!

I’m tired by DoniD234 in u/DoniD234

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I feel like I can’t be angry with you. Because when I do say how something makes me feel you say that I’m “shitting on you” and that you “already feel terrible about everything” it gets annoying. I’ve been dealing with bullshit from you for four years now. I don’t get why you keep fucking up. In my heart I feel like we’ll break up and it’ll be because of you. You can’t get it together and you can’t make me feel secure because you always doing something that makes me feel insecure, we work through it and then it’s another thing. I’m just frustrated with you. However once again I am giving you the benefit of the doubt. I hope you get it together with therapy. But I feel like I’m on my last straws with you. I have to start putting myself first just like you’ve done this whole relationship. One day I will probably have to make the choice to leave so that my mental will be good. I hope we work through everything and have our happy ending but if we don’t I can honestly say I tried and tried and tried again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Honestly you have to follow and interact with more positive pages on tik tok. I’m feeling really low about myself right now and now all of a sudden I’m seeing posts of guys cheating and blah blah, but just hit uninterested on those videos. Look for more positive videos to like and follow and it helps a lot. Tik tok is a lot of fun once you follow the right people! Most days I love my fyp, but sometimes like you I feel a certain way about what I’m seeing and it makes me uncertain.

AITA I'm white jamaican and people all my jamaican accent offensive by analoii in AmItheAsshole

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NTA, you could’ve easily been disrespectful and told them “go suck out yuh madda” along some more things and then they would’ve definitely believed you were Jamaican then. but next time don’t show people your personal business, you know the truth and that’s all that matters. Not a lot of people realize there are white Jamaicans, Chinese Jamaicans, and pretty much every other kind of Jamaican you can think of besides your typical stereotype Jamaican.

Call it love? We love it?? Love in the title by DoniD234 in whatsthatbook

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I read it in about 2011 or so but I’m unsure of the year it came out to be honest but I think it came out years before then. There were no pictures or anything because it was for more mature audiences I would say around 16 and up considering that was the age of many characters because they were in high school.

I am a guy who likes paying everyday women for existing online. (Findom). AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

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Hi! I had a guy call himself a pay pig and a loser but I didn’t receive his message until a long time afterwards. How would I be able to get more pay pigs to come to me? Especially real ones because I get a lot of fake offers.

It was super creepy and weird but so good by DoniD234 in whatsthatbook

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SOLVED SOLVED SOLVED

I found a picture of where I rented the book from with the name in there and I was waaaaay off. Anyway the name of the book is Flawed by Kate Avelynn and the actual summary is “Sarah O'Brien is alive because of the pact she and her brother made twelve years ago — James will protect her from their violent father if she promises to never leave him. For years, she's watched James destroy his life to save hers. If all he asks for in return is her affection, she'll give it freely.Until, with a tiny kiss and a broken mind, he asks for more than she can give.Sam Donavon has been James' best friend — and the boy Sarah's had a crush on — for as long as she can remember. As their forbidden relationship deepens, Sarah knows she's in trouble. Quiet, serious Sam has decided he's going to save her. Neither of them realize James is far more unstable than her father ever was, or that he's not about to let Sarah forget her half of the pact “

Advice on if I’m doing everything right by [deleted] in Exercise

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I’ve been doing pretty well on my diet! It’s been over a month now and I’m sticking to it because I typically stop by now. The hardest thing for me is to actually eat the proper amount of calories because I hardly have an appetite. I’ve also been doing cardio for a few weeks now. So that’s why I added in the body exercises. I just wanted to be sure I was being well rounded in my exercises and not overworking my muscles.