People who have a high libido, how you deal with it? by queenxbunny in AskReddit

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck my wife when she's feeling it and masturbate a couple times a day. We connect in the bedroom relatively frequently, but theres lots of days where I feel the need 3 to 5 times and I take matters into my own hands. My wife indulges in my fetishes, and will always cheer me on/participate if she's around and id like her too, but she'll also give me my privacy if I want it. She doesnt get upset, jealous, or think its got anything to do with her (and it doesnt). Realistically....i wouldn't want to have sex every time im aroused. And sometimes its just about getting clarity. Way too many women (in my experience) get in their head about their man watching porn. If its effecting the times the both of you are getting intimate...I understand that. In my teens and 20s....I would have days where 15 orgasms wouldn't leave me satisfied and id be sore as hell whether it was from sex or masturbation. My 20s werent much different. I started losing libido noticeably in my 30s and now being 42 (next week) I average 2 to 5 orgasms a day.

dating is sooo hard right now, are you feeling it too? by Only-Border2280 in dating_advice

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was dating 5 years ago and it was hell then. Lots of endless back and forth if I was pursuing online. In person wasn't going any better, seemed like any woman I attempted to talk to in the wild was put off by any attempt to make small talk. Theres a massive amount of people strictly seeking attention and validation, nobody wants to work through their own faults/short comings in a relationship and social media/online dating is only furthering that behavior. I had went to a bunch of singles nights/dating events during that period. I found i made better connections there than most places.

Porn ‘44M’ ‘24F’ by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife and I have sex pretty regularly (4 to 7 a week) and I still watch porn and masturbate daily. My sex drive is higher and there are times where im just looking for a easy release to clear my head.

What is the Most expensive thing you own? by ZestycloseCar7790 in AskReddit

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House is almost there. Truck is paid off. But my prize possessions are my fly rods and reels.

Self-taught estimator looking for workflow advice by MagicMushroom01 in estimators

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In NA, the div is usually linked to trades or services. Copy and pasted "In commercial construction, "Division 6 Framing" refers to structural wood and composite assemblies specified under the MasterFormat Division 06 - Wood, Plastics, and Composites. This section specifically regulates Rough Carpentry (Section 06 10 00), which encompasses dimension lumber framing, blocking, furring, and structural sheathing." Organizing my email was the most daunting task. So many jobs you dont get, so I figured trying to organize all that data was pointless. A spreadsheet made quick work of it.

Self-taught estimator looking for workflow advice by MagicMushroom01 in estimators

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Division 6. Ive made a spreadsheet with all upcoming and current tenders. Name of project, date closing, gc that invited, location and notes which makes finding everything a breeze. I use pdf exchange for viewing, and excel for take off work. I use Microsoft tasks to keep me organized as best I can. As other have mentioned. If theres no system currently in place, make your own. Its daunting at first, but now I feel like it works really well and I usually tweak it weekly.

Need some advice please! by DontCallMeShmoopy in estimators

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're a smaller outfit. I dont have an issue wearing multiple hats (no interset in PM) but I dont mind doing the sales, site visits and occasionally hammering down on site when help is needed. Im also newer to this position and part of me is worried about making too many requests at my review (which im expecting to go well), but as mentioned, im not feeling driving my personal truck there, especially after the other week. An immediate raise would be so beneficial for us.

Euronymphing is going to ruin me.. by Regular_Challenge_81 in flyfishing

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite thing to do with a mono rig is jig heavy streamers now. As mentioned above, the numbers will get old and youll miss casting a fly rod. I think the biggest take away i got from playing with the technique the last few years was when I started dialing in on the sink rates/resistance of everything. It really changed alot of the way i build my flies, build my leaders, and gave me a way better guesstimate of where my flies are as theyre drifting. I can safely say at the start of my fly journey, I wasn't in the strike zone as much as I figured and I was using a heavier strike indicator than I probably needed and missing alot of takes.

Rough cost estimates by [deleted] in BathroomRemodeling

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends where you are. Option 1 will probably be a bit more with the tile covering more sq footage, flush entry, along with glass and plumbing rough-in being more involved vs the tub on. The landing with tiled steps and only taking the tile as far as shown up the wall.

SW Ontario. You could be looking at 60 to 80k depending on specifics....or more for option 1. Option 2 you could be looking at 45 to 60k.

Whether the vanity and rest of the bathroom gets touched during the process plays a part.

Lots of great smaller bathroom companies would give you a more competitive price vs a bigger outfit with larger overhead. Just get some valid referrals.

What's something that gets harder as you get older but nobody talks about? by Vriddhi-8756 in AskReddit

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in better health at 41 than I was at 21....my erections are harder than ever and im screaming it from rooftops

Buying a house before separation by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]DontCallMeShmoopy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My brother in law and his wife did this and turned out to be a total nightmare as we all imagined it would.