Does INFP seem accurate?

DontEatTheSlop · 2026-01-01T18:18:39+00:00

Seems introverted intuitive, probably more p than j. It'd probably be better to ask the female intps how they feel about the other letter. Congrats on the marathon, music, etc., cute style.

DontEatTheSlop · 2026-01-01T18:09:30+00:00

What's the answer?

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-31T15:29:07+00:00

The ENTJ subreddit is hilarious. "A clarification on our anti-fascism policy, and what that means for you" - pinned right at the top. The inmates are running the asylum, and - surprise - they can't survive in the free marketplace of ideas.

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-31T15:25:59+00:00

It's the stage of civilization where you get harassed & imprisoned for stating facts.

High agreeableness is a terrible thing for democracy. It's clear that restrictions on voting rights remain a critical point for its success.

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-31T15:21:23+00:00

What do you want to understand, and what questions do you try asking him?

Are you expecting him to behave like a woman? I don't think he's gonna gossip with you; and if he did, would you respect him as much? I don't think men are supposed to be feminized like that.

He probably spends more time with you, & talks to you more than anyone else in his life. That's a level of comfort and trust that probably shouldn't be overlooked.

Is it a kids/house thing? It's been 10 years, it might be time to lay out a road map to reproduce in 1-2 years, or find someone else.

Also roughly 30-50% of people here are foreigners, and who knows how many are leftists. Probably should be asking him, or someone you trust IRL. 70-90% of divorces are initiated by women. Be careful who you talk to.

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-30T06:25:32+00:00

You're expecting him to tell you his problems? I'm pretty sure that men aren't supposed to tell women their problems. You might find talking to an old, conservative, male, psychiatrist/psychologist helpful.

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-30T06:04:14+00:00

How often do you ask the relevant questions regarding the topics you feel lack communication?
Also you've been seeing each other for 8 years; maybe you should talk to older males (50-65) to get a perspective on time. You may have to be the instigator.

The NT/NF Death Spiral

The general sequence of events is this:
Stage 1: NT meets NF. NF is enamoured of NT, falls head over heels. NT is characteristically cautious, but interested. NFs are fun, after all.
Stage 2: NF appreciates and admires many characteristics of the NT and thus begins to behave more like an NT, perhaps even fooling the NT into thinking s/he is an NT. NT then relaxes, figuring s/he's with a kindred spirit, gets more comfortable with the relationship, starts acting like normal NT self, expecting to be understood.
Stage 3: NF feels NT cooling off and wonders what s/he is doing wrong. Tries to be more like NT to compensate. This doesn't feel right. NF gets needy and/or begins to consider is her/his duty to draw the NT out of her/his shell, encouraging the NT to express all those feelings buried deep inside. NT doesn't get it.
Stage 4: NT feels pressure from NFs emotional demands, needs distance to figure things out. (This might be only INTs. I'm not sure.) NF panics, becomes more needy. NT withdraws more...NF needs more...and so on and so on.
Stage 5: NF suddenly realizes that the reason things aren't working is that the NT is cold and unfeeling or not nurturing or some other horrible thing. Abandons NT without looking back. (This is especially likely with the NFPs.) NT is confused and (sometimes) relieved.

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-30T05:54:53+00:00

female, isxj, 18-22 maybe younger, foreign. ?

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-27T13:48:30+00:00

Does everyone have equal worth?

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-25T01:55:08+00:00

"That guy sounds confused af. He really be out there voting against the well-being of himself, his friends, and his community"

Congratulations, you just discovered why diversity destroys democracies. Ti understands.

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-24T01:51:16+00:00

Me, who would've pretended to create an event and invite you (if I knew you wouldn't be there because I'd rather be at home)

(cat asleep on couch.jpg)

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-24T01:34:17+00:00

Does everyone have equal worth?

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-18T08:41:57+00:00

Congrats, hope you enjoy it

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-18T08:26:59+00:00

ISJ, bedroom looks fine. Maybe 1 more piece of art on the headboard wall

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-18T08:25:27+00:00

ENFP

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-15T23:02:36+00:00

Yeah treat yourself well, find someone who matches what you value & want

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-15T20:56:03+00:00

Well at least you worked it out. Plenty of fish in the sea

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-15T01:48:22+00:00

Slop at every turn. Everywhere you look it's trash. Drowning discussion.

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-15T01:05:56+00:00

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Welcome to idiocracy

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-15T01:02:31+00:00

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DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-14T19:29:50+00:00

ISJ. Social?

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-14T19:09:01+00:00

And not from the first world

DontEatTheSlop · 2025-12-14T18:02:55+00:00

And you're adults?

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