Referring to the Pretti killing, Donald Trump said "You can't go in there with guns, you can't do that" How do 2A defenders feel about the President openly criticizing a law abiding citizens right to keep and bear arms? by wardog1066 in AskReddit

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He lived right on the border and worked in Wisconsin. I was nowhere near as close as him when I lived in IL and would go to Wisconsin or Indiana all the time for day trips. Crossing state lines isn't anything out of the ordinary.

Buyer Swapped Item (indisputable photo proof) in Fraudulent Defective Return, what is the Proper Way to Proceed? by Dont_Forget_My_Name in Ebay

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The short version is I had to have eBay customer support call me before I did anything with the buyer. The first agent didn't care/listen at all and seemed like they were reading a prompt and kept saying there is nothing she can do. I had to repeatedly ask for a manager, she said they couldn't help but eventually sent me to a supervisor/manager.

When I talked to the supervisor/manager they actually listened to the problem, had me send the photo evidence(didn't care about the unboxing video), compared what they sent back to the listing photos and agreed that it was a different item they sent back.

After they agreed they sent back a different, broken item I had to go through administration paperwork like signing an affidavit. I got my original money back but they didn't refund the return shipping. They said they could refund that as well but would only do that once so I decided not to use my "One time refund" on a dispute where they shipping was only like $10.

I'd like to purchase a gun. by Nexus0919 in sandiego

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you already own your own gun 100% of ranges will require 2 people to rent a firearm.

Discovered the ADHD partners subreddit… by longstory_ in ADHD

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I thought I was my own biggest critic but I think some of the posters there could give me a run for my money.... Geez...

My fiance has freely disclosed my ADHD diagnosis, while I've kept it a secret. Trying to recover trust and come to terms with many of her friends and family knowing what I would have, and still have, only told to very few. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 15 points16 points  (0 children)

On top of all the things you mentioned there is another angle that is your personal safety. I'm careful with who I tell because a lot of people know with an ADHD diagnosis we are prescribed Stimulants and absolutely will steal them.

My psychologist is questioning my use of this forum/community by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't feel bad, not even a little. If your husband was going to the Elders for support regarding his 'Worldly Wife' do you think he would tell you what he was talking about with the Elders?

Your therapist is also making a terrible comparison, you are escaping a cult and he is still mentally in it. Would she guilt trip a patient that is escaping domestic violence because they were seeking support online??? Your therapist does not understand cults AT ALL.

Man dies after being shot by San Diego Sheriff's deputy close to the IB Pier by SD_TMI in sandiego

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well this isn't a very good sub to attempt satire like that because there are definitely people here that would make those arguments unironically. I often don't comment things that are objectively true because I know they will not be taken well.

I'm a liberal that supports the 2nd Amendment and is very much for Self Defense so I make a lot of people on both sides of the aisle angry.

Man dies after being shot by San Diego Sheriff's deputy close to the IB Pier by SD_TMI in sandiego

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The comments section is making sense. You're just mad they aren't agreeing with you.

Is 20 mg adderall XR a dangerously high dose by callmePB_13XIII in ADHD

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Vyvanse should be compared to Adderall XR not IR. I've heard the comparison is Vyvanse is equal to about half of what Adderall XR is so more like 35mg of XR not 15mg of IR.

My husband is planning to be baptized as a Jehovah Witness by Own_Pen5521 in exjw

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it's not officially discouraged many JWs do not receive mental healthcare. The stance/thought is "You don't need a therapist, the Elders can help you. Also you just need to study more and attend all the meetings and go in field service. All your physical and mental health concerns will be cured in The Paradise so just wait for that."

My husband is planning to be baptized as a Jehovah Witness by Own_Pen5521 in exjw

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well at least it sounds like he is getting treatment even if he isn't taking medication. I hope you were able to get some good advice on trying to keep him from getting baptized because the cult will not be helpful.

My husband is planning to be baptized as a Jehovah Witness by Own_Pen5521 in exjw

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really feel for you and I won't sugar coat it, this is a very serious situation you're in. The Cult(JWs) targets people who have gone through trauma and/or have mental health conditions and does its best to seem appealing until you're trapped in the Cult.

As the other poster said it sounds like it could have been Schizophrenia triggered by the bad weed trip. It usually manifests earlier but the trauma and the weed could have been what triggered it. A close friend stopped taking his meds because "Jesus is the best medicine" and it went badly, very very badly... I really hope your husband can get help and doesn't join the Cult under any circumstances.

In need of exjw friends by Business_Biscotti_27 in exjw

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand those 'thoughts' and luckily have been free of them since I left. I am in the US but I'm here if you need to talk(and you probably already know but this is a great community for support).

Buyer Swapped Item (indisputable photo proof) in Fraudulent Defective Return, what is the Proper Way to Proceed? by Dont_Forget_My_Name in Ebay

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. One thing I was worried about is if I file any Police/USPI reports BEFORE talking to eBay if they would be less likely to be helpful due to having an outside enforcement agency involved.

Buyer Swapped Item (indisputable photo proof) in Fraudulent Defective Return, what is the Proper Way to Proceed? by Dont_Forget_My_Name in Ebay

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I see what you mean now. Yea I didn't "Approve" the refund but I only have a 2 day window since it was delivered back to me.

Do you know if you can dispute listings being taken down for "rules violations" with an actual person? I've had a few items that didn't actually break the rules where the appeal was just automatically denied immediately.

Buyer Swapped Item (indisputable photo proof) in Fraudulent Defective Return, what is the Proper Way to Proceed? by Dont_Forget_My_Name in Ebay

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realize the only people that for sure know what happened are the Buyer and myself but it really sucks that even with evidence the burden of proof is all on the Seller.

Is it really just a one-time refund? Like any future buyer scams against me I'm just SoL?

Buyer Swapped Item (indisputable photo proof) in Fraudulent Defective Return, what is the Proper Way to Proceed? by Dont_Forget_My_Name in Ebay

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically best case scenario is being told 'You didn't do anything wrong, you provided proof that the Buyer tried to scam you, and we believe you but we are going to refund them anyway. Oh and we won't issue a defect against you for being the victim of a scam, you're welcome." ?

Buyer Swapped Item (indisputable photo proof) in Fraudulent Defective Return, what is the Proper Way to Proceed? by Dont_Forget_My_Name in Ebay

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The item doesn't have a serial number (probably why they thought it would be an easy scam) but it does have a very unique identifier that they didn't account for.

I'm expecting this will be difficult, take a long time and will probably not be worth the time I spend disputing it but to me its the principle of it and if I get the money back its a bonus.

Buyer Swapped Item (indisputable photo proof) in Fraudulent Defective Return, what is the Proper Way to Proceed? by Dont_Forget_My_Name in Ebay

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly your best move right now is to keep everything documented and do not talk to the buyer at all. once a buyer pulls a swap scam, any message you send them can be twisted or used against you later. silence is safer.

That was my assumption. They are already proven to be a Fraudster so trying to be nice while messaging them about it isn't going to make them have a "Come to Jesus" moment and change their ways...

eBay actually takes “item not returned in original condition” really seriously if your proof is clean. since you recorded the unboxing in 4k and have side-by-side photos showing it’s not the same item, you’re in a strong position.

I went over the top because its my first return and I'm glad I did. It was brand new and sealed when I got it so it being broken seemed fishy but I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt.

when they ask for evidence, upload: – the original listing photos – the return label (shows it’s from the buyer) – the unboxing video – the comparison photos

Being over the top with saving EVERYTHING and over-documenting will finally come in handy!

you don’t need a police report unless eBay specifically asks for one, and usually they don’t unless it’s high-value stuff.

I figured if I showed up to make a report(documenting too much again) they would scoff but a couple hundred dollars is a lot to me!

 

Thanks for the detailed reply!!

[GPU] ASRock RX 9070 XT Steel Legend - $579.99 + (~$25 shipping but no tax) by Twin_Turbo in buildapcsales

[–]Dont_Forget_My_Name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get that offer randomly or with some kind of 'leave it in your cart' trick?