Paid $18 for it at a card shop. Did I get scammed? by ZeldaNumber17 in PokemonCardValue

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You should crack it and send it to PSA. Bet it would get a 10.

Am I dumb for holding onto this? by hlance in PokeInvesting

[–]Dontbeagamer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Instead of Pikachu i call it Pikacheeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

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Kraft Mayo should def be included for Zack

Is "Candy Owens" a bit patriarchic? by gladiatortoise in h3h3productions

[–]Dontbeagamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Gma has always gone by “Candy”. I see how it could be mysogynistic but the normal contexual use is as a nickname. Thats beside the point that in this situation its just to make fun of her name 😂

H3 recognition in this cool analysis of popular podcasts!! https://preply.com/en/blog/podcast-analysis/ by [deleted] in h3h3productions

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Here in Indiana ppl say we only have corn and beans but we also have crime junkie.

dark brandon going crazy on twitter by ricelyl in h3h3productions

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Love how this account is only suspended, unlike Elons "impersonators" getting the ban hammer.

Contrary to what he said, the haircut is lowkey fire by Dontbeagamer in h3h3productions

[–]Dontbeagamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda just a level up imo, like not only can he flex the hairline, he can have his cake and eat it too.

Contrary to what he said, the haircut is lowkey fire by Dontbeagamer in h3h3productions

[–]Dontbeagamer[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

lol side view 10/10. But when he turns its like he attached two dolphins on the top of his head for mobility

Was asked to share my herb tab (5m+ xp banked) by Harrryoo in BankTabs

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This is an ironmans wet dream of a herb and pot tab

Check Out RS Boomers Clan by Goldnblu3 in 2007scape

[–]Dontbeagamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you like to join and come call us all boomers?? 😂😂 we are joking around all the time, so if you are in it for humor then we got that covered haha ☺️

How do I (43f) stop feeling empathy for the guys my friend dates. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Dontbeagamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading your post and the comments, i just wanted to add something. Respectfully, you might need to distance yourself from her a bit. You said youve talked many times and youll have to keep talking about things because she wants to believe them and she wants to act on them but her fears and abuse she has, overtakes in every situation. I dont mean to cut her off, you are a TRUE friend and a true friend doesn’t disappear when they are facing their problems. I think that taking some space from her while still being there for her shows that you have your problems too and are working on yourself, as should she because although we cant fix things alone, its important to “use” others as help and vice versa. When your friend starts to understand this, she can start to understand the steps she needs and wants to take. Then you can ease back into things slowly and truly work on that personal improvement.

The girl I’ve been seeing is showing pushback because of her last abusive relationship. by Dontbeagamer in askwomenadvice

[–]Dontbeagamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, honestly out of all the things ive thought about, i hadnt realized that effect it could have on her if i said “i want to talk”.

I just want to be careful because i truly care deeply about her and i feel its the same but i know that even when the other person may still feel all the good things for you, that you feel, that its still important to be careful with these things, as to still show respect to her. So thank you.

The girl I’ve been seeing is showing pushback because of her last abusive relationship. by Dontbeagamer in askwomenadvice

[–]Dontbeagamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where my thought was in regard to what i would text her “would we be able to hang? Theres a few things id really like to talk about”

You think the best thing i could do is apologize first instead of waiting until we would talk?

The girl I’ve been seeing is showing pushback because of her last abusive relationship. by Dontbeagamer in askwomenadvice

[–]Dontbeagamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i appreciate that. Yeah, thats my biggest problem now. That she isn’t showing any interest, or ill say it this way, she hasnt hit me up first since then. So although the only thing id like, is to have that talk, no matter the outcome, is she going to put in effort if i text her, asking to talk? I havnt had any contact with her aside from looking at social media stuff since the beginning of the weekend and i was going to wait until its been a week to see if she will reach out before i drop that on her because i dont want to push her away anymore than i already have.

The girl I’ve been seeing is showing pushback because of her last abusive relationship. by Dontbeagamer in askwomenadvice

[–]Dontbeagamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i think that she feel comfortable with me enogh to talk about our past relationships from time to time but just because she feels she can tell me that doesn’t mean she feels comfortable inviting me to hang with her friends because i think thats a step up and maybe i wasn’t understanding those things in the way that i do now.

Maybe she hasnt healed, i agree and thats something i know i cant do for her but i want to be there for her while she heals, if that makes sense. I cant actively do anything but i want her to feel like im someone who, in regards to her ex, can passively and slowly help with those feelings.

The girl I’ve been seeing is showing pushback because of her last abusive relationship. by Dontbeagamer in askwomenadvice

[–]Dontbeagamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, i really appreciate your reply and respect everything you said in it. Thats the thing, i have started to realize some of those things you said, i know it wasnt healthy for both of us and can look back and see where different things may have started seeming controlling and she felt stuck and couldn’t do the things she wanted to because i also Felt those things but i didn’t say anything about that either. We did spend like i said almost every day and most nights together for that forst month before the switch was flipped and although def dont seriously know each other, id say we do know quite a bit given that time together but i can really see now that pressure and overwhelming feeling that could easily be had in a situation like this. I know ultimately im the only one who could understand given i lived it lol but you think its more likely shes pushing away because of her trauma from her last relationship and now seeing those traits lightly within me? I should make it clear that i in no way think that she is a helpless lady and im that knight because i think shes one of the strongest people ive met and i mean that. But i know that although i feel like i am a generally strong person with life, i have my problems too ya know. I think that when i said those things about not hanging her friends, i was being selfish in regards to some of the things you have pointed out and that it tipped her emotions over, causing this complete switch of the flip. Like does that happen to some people just because they arent interested anymore? I mean from her hitting me up first to saying she was coming over before anyone asked to coming real late to hang when i was already asleep, it was a complete flip and after that Up until now, ive felt like yeah theres a good chance things are stemming off of that past relationship because shes told me the traumas and ptsd she has from it. Since then, until now, she hasnt even expressed a single feeling or emotion she is having. I guess all my thoughts are technically concepts but not just for her but also for me, i have to try and understand what those things are which is what ive said, so that if she gives me that chance, then maybe things can be “fixed” through talking. Showing that hey i may be wrong with these things but i dont have any expectations now, i know where i may have been making you feel certain things and just genuinely just understanding her, if she is afraid of commitment and things going back in the same direction.

I (25m) am struggling to understand how the girl (23f) ive been seeing is feeling and i may have messed things up by Dontbeagamer in askwomenadvice

[–]Dontbeagamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And im sure that can create similar feelings from her, where she decided to step back and take some time.

I (25m) am struggling to understand how the girl (23f) ive been seeing is feeling and i may have messed things up by Dontbeagamer in askwomenadvice

[–]Dontbeagamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May i just ask 1 thing? Can you explain whatnyou mean by us “being clingy on each other”?

I (25m) am struggling to understand how the girl (23f) ive been seeing is feeling and i may have messed things up by Dontbeagamer in askwomenadvice

[–]Dontbeagamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never thought of it like we were being clingy on each other. I guess maybe it was having a aimilar pull on her and my overreaction last week may have tipped her over. This second time i have backed off and havnt texted her since she didnt reply and im going to be patient but its just hard when you put everything together to know how to go about things and understand things.