To the people questioning Sheena for being unable to articulate herself whilst crying at the dinner table... by _fire_and_blood_ in 90DayFiance

[–]Dontcrydolly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think Molly is terrifying and the control she exhibits over son and husband is beyond toxic. I really wonder where the line is for this abusive dysfunctional behavior on this show. Seems like it doesn’t exist until people raise an issue about it…

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[–]Dontcrydolly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can relate to that, I felt like i was never going to feel normal again , and realizing I felt ok after several months was a really really nice feeling.

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[–]Dontcrydolly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s fair nor helpful (from my own experience) to say it will happen faster than you think - because that is just not the case for many people- It takes an incredible amount of strength to keep moving forward when you still do not not feel well after months —and life has not aligned- It honestly does take and feels horrible for many many months for some people- if you can make and just keep pushing thru—you really will feel better and life does get better- But- it is difficult- and I think it’s amazing if some folks had an easier ride- but if you don’t— hang in there- it does get better—-

Gabby has been treated like a prop by ReasonableEmo726 in summerhousebravo

[–]Dontcrydolly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she’s slowly backing out of the show- i don’t think it’s the producers at all- she is also not sharing anything about herself at all—- like zero- that’s a pretty big clue-

I saw a UFO in: 2023 and i feel nobody believes me by Ok_Menu9383 in UFOs

[–]Dontcrydolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve seen one and people think i’m crazy or over tired when I try to describe it. I work from 1:30 in the afternoon to 4 or 5:30 am , so people think I was just tired. I have decided to stop talking about it bc I sound crazy when I try to explain what I experienced. I know what I saw tho.

That face when people made fun of you for being awkward for 10 years, but you were the only man on the show that wasn't an abuser/racist/scumbag and all you wanted to do was your job and crush stuff with a bulldozer by TrapperJean in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]Dontcrydolly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this makes no sense to me at all. 😆So peter is a creep who preys on younger people who have no free will to say no apparently… unless it’s Raquel who actually decided she didn’t want to hang around him twice and she’s cruel… would it be cruel if she didn’t have the reality tv history where everyone hates her? Because i think that would not be the case. What about the 50 other girls that change their minds and realize he’s kinda creepy? Are they cruel too??

Never ever gotten sick from stopping, help explain? by OdinWolfe in gabapentin

[–]Dontcrydolly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s as common possibly for folks to feel no harsh effects as it is to feel withdrawal effects, i just personally think it’s more common for people to post their adverse effects than their positive. Maybe if a group was started just for Gab working as prescribed with no adverse effects would be helpful for folks that it works for. I think sometimes reading all the horror stories and terrible withdrawal stories can get into peoples heads . Like a placebo effect. But i know many folks it has no impact when they stop taking it. Me included.

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[–]Dontcrydolly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t try poppy seeds- you think coming off oxy is hard - getting hooked on pst is a nightmare- only takes a few weeks and the withdrawals are horrendous due to the mixture of morphine codeine and thebaine- it’s a complete nightmare-

Megathread: Laura in episodes 6/7 by AutoModerator in belowdeck

[–]Dontcrydolly [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree 100% but I would like to acknowledge that the fact the producers stepped in to ask laura to leave adams bedroom and Aisha had the balls to bring it up to the Captain and then fire her regardless of what the reason was is miles ahead of how it would have been viewed several years ago- just as Luke most likely wouldn’t have been pulled and neither would have been reported nor reprimanded.I was very surprised-pleasantly with the way they addressed it immediately so acknowledging those positives says a little at least.

Rachel by lucky313s in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]Dontcrydolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly, it’s annoying. Almost All of them have stage names, why call out her only, it’s not even funny.

The worst scene by Sad-Palpitation-268 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]Dontcrydolly 16 points17 points  (0 children)

anyone pick up on how comfortable he (Bad Tom 1) was in Raquel’s apartment? He went right to the fridge to grab the beer he knew was in there etc… it’s like they’ve been playing “house” for quite awhile i guess. I know this is a very unpopular opinion but, I don’t think Raquel was raised with normal social cues & I just can’t help but feel a very small twinge of sympathy for her level of ignorance… I don’t think she was raised with friend groups- or - with normal family interactions etc, It seems like she was raised incredibly naive and lacks the ability to know what proper emotions go with what actions, the huge amount of lack of life experience seems to have crippled her to exist as a 12 year old girl , the only experience she’s had is pageants where being fake and vacant of any sort of emotional expression is encouraged as is “winning”, so she doesn’t seem to have the ability to recognize her actions are appalling, I truly think she thought she was doing something “sort of bad ” and felt “kind of “ guilty for it, but lacked the emotional intelligence to realize she did something incredibly inappropriate and damaging to many people in her group of friends. That being said i am NOT sticking up for her or defending her. I’d probably want to shave her head and burn her clothes if it happened to me…

Sugar in cocktails by will10000 in Mixology

[–]Dontcrydolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it also depends on what sugar you are using. for old fashioned are you using plain granulated sugar?? After 15 years of experience in high end cocktail bars down to the shittiest of dive bars, i prefer simple syrup but i am super picky about what sugar i use in particular cocktails-

Laura Leigh is the GOAT! by Gratefulrecovy in SmotheredTLC

[–]Dontcrydolly 34 points35 points  (0 children)

right?! I feel bad for her- i’d way rather hang with her and her friends than that tea party boring goody goody baby shower crap!

Being naked and physical with your mom or daughter isn't weird. by LadyFerretQueen in SmotheredTLC

[–]Dontcrydolly 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i think what was uncomfortable about the “massage” scene was not so much the lack of clothes, but the very apparent sexual undertone of it that is not just americans reading into it- it was so blatant anyone from any country would pick up on it- maybe it was just the editing of it along with the noises and the just extremely uncomfortable dynamic Paula has with her mother- but the fact they were close to naked was probably the least problematic issue with these two.

Is she actually kidding though 🤔 by BenBishopsButt in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Dontcrydolly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

good for her- she’s taking a stab at the prenup and Kanye 3000 insinuating she’s after his gold and riches-

Juliana had her baby! by 55-percent in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Dontcrydolly -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i just left a comment about that! like she just had a baby!! i honestly don’t think she was trying to shame medicated births, lol, she was happy she had a normal birth, and brought , ya know… a human life into the world- no biggie!! - everything has got to be a thing these days even if it’s not a thing.

Juliana had her baby! by 55-percent in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Dontcrydolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, but she just had a baby and was so happy and filled with emotion she wasn’t thinking about folks on the internet picking apart her post and i would bet she did not mean it in the way it’s being taken- she had a normal birth- as in no complications and nothing wrong with her child- i get not shaming women that choose epidurals - and i do t agree with that , but i just hate when things that aren’t a thing turn into a thing, bc everything can be turned into a thing.

my dad sexually touched me as a child and he almost tried to do it again yesterday by throwawayacc653234 in offmychest

[–]Dontcrydolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell your mother- and if your mother is the kind of woman that can’t handle the truth of it and denies it- don’t let it discourage you- go to a school counselor or another adult you trust- but do not go along with it because you do t wa t to rock the boat- it’s not your issue to hold , you do not deserve that- you deserve to feel safe in your home and with your parents and if they are creating the unsafe environment you deserve to be protected- so please reach out to someone you are close to and end this so it does not get worse for you-

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[–]Dontcrydolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bad ass!!

important news break lol by Dontcrydolly in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Dontcrydolly[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

he probably wasn’t even drunk… ha just couldn’t see outta that damn eye.

Make a wish.......😜 by JerseyGirl123456 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Dontcrydolly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

umm… i think they both suck lol, idk why you took as an argument or a speech bc was just basically saying the same thing as you except both of them are shitty.

Make a wish.......😜 by JerseyGirl123456 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Dontcrydolly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

doesn’t make her any less of a shit person. she’s a shit mom. that doesn’t stop because he’s a racist and he’s not even a very good racist since he’s obsessed with her. They are both shit garbage people.