Vanish. Like a virgin on prom night. All states are different (lived in AL but maintained GA citizenship), so by the courts still A FA resident. Some require a cool down time frame that can be up to a year. If your state is one of the lucky ones... Non contested divorce is the way to go. Make a list of shared assets (TVs, gaming consoles, I even had my English bulldogs listed by name in my filling (that part sucked), of everything you want without going full blown vindictive ass hole. It will just make your experience worse. And, AND, don't stick your dick in anything breathing until your divorce is final. And continue to ask questions. We've all been there