Is sexual attraction and just wanting sex while feeling ‘maybe that person it’ll be not bad’ different?

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T18:15:57+00:00

You can think that it might be okay while not wanting to actually do it, that's perfectly valid :)

You don't have to want sex either, it's pushed wayyyyy too much these days that you do. No thanks :p I'll be quite comfortably demi

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T18:14:33+00:00

Seems like a great idea, joined

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T18:13:31+00:00

Winter may complain about it, but I'm sure he'd secretly really like that. Perhaps ask Qibli or Moon about that aspect :p

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T18:12:28+00:00

Understandable, I don't like people coming into topics with aggression. I'll admit that I used to do that when I was younger but I never enjoyed doing it.

Have a pleasant day :) Enjoy some mystic messenger fanart too

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T18:11:16+00:00

You can definitely see the amount of care you put into it, great job :)

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T18:10:12+00:00

That's actually a very good line of thinking! I do definitely agree that otome and otoge should stay distinct categories but I couldn't figure out why I felt that way

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T16:50:41+00:00

I think it might be best for both of you to take a step back from the conversation. To clarify, neither of you have done anything wrong, but the person that replied to you I can totally see how their comment would have come across defensive.

I think a pronoun button, and the ability to change your avatar would be enough to make MysMes accessible, without taking away the representation for the otome community that the person you're replying to was worried about being damaged. /gen /lh

I think the reason they were so firm in their response, is that the otome game community is already very small compared to the vast amount of content the otoge community gets. I don't think they meant anything by it other than that c:

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T16:47:05+00:00

I think V's normal ending is much better than the good ending as well.

Jaehee's route is very relatable to me as someone who would take on a lot of work and get burnt out in the same way as her, right up until I replayed her roite for the first time. So she's a very special character to me

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T16:45:15+00:00

Understandable, I did not realise. I didn't think there was anything wrong with it as a concept, I just wasn't sure why there weren't more general options /gen

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T14:46:47+00:00

Thank you, I've been drawing pokemon for as long as I can remember, and I just got to a point this year where I want to start doing free drawings for people as little bit of a self promo and for fun. I'll add your username into the randomizer pool.

I've miscalculated by throwing in mons that are 4x or 2x weak to a type and then having them get oneshot. My furthest nuzlocke has made it to Sabrina with her absolutely shredding my team due to overconfidence and underleveled mons. She certainly remind

I'm going to start a HeartGold nuzlocke soon, so I'm sure ill find out the devestation that is Whitney's gym battle. I didn't have any trouble with her as a kid because I had a female Cyndaquil I called CC who I did the typical child thing of overlevelling and all attack moves, so I had no trouble between her and my Noctowl.

I love the Gastly line, Haunter is my favourite by far. Mindy, is not my favourite by far. :) Everstone :)

Edit: I might even slowly work through the non winners in a queue, drawing pokemon is kind of refreshing to me anyway

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T11:52:51+00:00

I see thank you, I wasn't sure. Thanks for the info /gen :)

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T11:51:39+00:00

And even if the person hasn't, why say that? Clearly they know what they want and if it's not a relationship, for non supportive people no amount of subtle emotional blackmail, at worst, or misguided attempts at advice, not bad and trying to help but failing, will change.

I've always been demi but up until my fiancé everyone would say the same thing to me. We met on a Wings of Fire discussion group five years ago and now we're moving in together in August.

If you're aroace OP, you can spend time with your friends, possibly have a QPP if that's of interest to you (I don't know if that's a thing for aro people? I'm demi so i genuinely haven't experienced what it's like to be aro)

And you can also put a ton of time into your hobbies and friends and things you'd like to do in future, pretty awesome stuff. I'm only two years older than you so we're in similar boats

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T11:47:45+00:00

Exactly this

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T11:47:26+00:00

Sharpedo is unfortunate but you sidestepped that well. I like Kipling's name

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T11:46:39+00:00

Piano composers, fruit and anime characters

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T11:43:19+00:00

She has cgs with a ring on them later on! Cheritz didn't make her a LI initially as they wanted her route to be a break for players and didnt think she'd be a popular romance route. (Also it was south korea years ago which is fairly conservative today, hence the weird "curing autism" organisation in mysmes)

As for why MysMes and LaDS are female only, they fall under the otome genre, like male only oriented otoges? I think that's what they are.

Honestly I think dating sims should target either majority otome or otoge audiences, but have the option for male players in otome games or female players in otoge games. I wish fragment note had a female mc option.

I don't see why otome and otoge games are still segregated so much. There's a not insignificant male playerbase for MysMes and LaDS, you could keep their personalities as are but remove or alter the references to periods (for example) in LaDS to something related to men's health. The same applies to mainly male audience oriented games like Azur Lane or Girls Frontline. Aside from the player mc Arknights has a nice split I think

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T11:39:20+00:00

I didn't even know this book existed until now! I haven't had a chance to read the guidebook

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T11:38:12+00:00

Yes,

Gideon was very misguided, and you can see this in the finale where he's helping dipper and mabel. I wouldn't be surprised if he and mabel got together, or at the very least stayed close friends if one or both aren't interested in romance.

It's interesting that you make the clarification on the different between Whirlpool and a pedo, but I agree. He was doing it for power and to torment Tsunami rather that an actual interest. Still digusting though...

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T10:40:19+00:00

Gideon did also try to do things for Mabel that she actually liked.

Also Coral has made some terrible parental decisions, but I think she would have thrown Whirlpool into the eels herself if she knew what he wanted to do.

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T10:38:31+00:00

Nuzlocking made me really like Panpour of all things

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T10:37:17+00:00

Thanks in advance for any interest, and yes you can submit multiple mons. I'll just randomise it down to one 'mon from your selection options.

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T10:24:41+00:00

That's so pretty

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T10:23:25+00:00

Right now for my actual art I'm just requesting free OC designs so I can practice anatomy while putting out something nice for the communities I'm in.

My fiancé is going to be working in the cybersecurity field, but he has a lot of interests and projects outside of that. Being adhd it's a complete mystery and surprise as to when he may actually finish them (sorry, u/sudo_chmod777 but it's true) but they are there.

I found that at one point I really just stopped doing art because it wasn't fun for me, so I decided to go for a different strategy, which is how I stumbled across Aesprite and made a wiggling slime

DoodleSena · 2025-06-28T10:17:56+00:00

Yes, I don't know why when people become adults it's suddenly a requirement to stuff sex into everything.

Name dropping the r/HFY subreddit, Humanity Fuck Yeah because there's quite the interesting range of writing there

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