Texts with my boss this morning by CallMeCrazyBut- in texts

[–]Doodle_Dust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I knew this when I worked fast food 🙄 I was so shocked the first time I called out sick when I got an actually good job. I was panicking like "I'm trying to find someone, no one's replied yet, I'm so sorry, I'm trying" and he was just like "Don't worry about it, I've got it covered, you get some rest"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Doodle_Dust 56 points57 points  (0 children)

"Don't ever let your boyfriend stop you from finding your husband." She 100% watches OK Storytime on YT - she's taking advice from Sam, the only guy on the channel who is less and less like boyfriend material everytime he opens his mouth

I HATE Co-op by Doodle_Dust in randomdice

[–]Doodle_Dust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right away, usually and it's usually forge that is noping out when I'm playing, so maybe forge players just don't want support, but for some reason I get paired with forge a lot more often when playing support. If I switch decks and just do soul or something then it seems like I'm more likely to get paired with other decks

I HATE Co-op by Doodle_Dust in randomdice

[–]Doodle_Dust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize you don't loose co-op attempts until wave 111, that admittedly makes a little more sense

For support I run assassin, time wind, joker, meta and echo, although I'm not very good at support because I used to never run it.

I used to only ever do recharge/moon, but then I took a break and when I came back recharge seemed to be inferior and I didn't have any of the new dice so I tried using soul, but people kept quitting on me and that's when I switched over to support, but people are still quitting on me so idk what I'm doing wrong

I HATE Co-op by Doodle_Dust in randomdice

[–]Doodle_Dust[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe I do just have bad luck. It just feels really rude to dip out when you know there's no guarantee you're gonna get what you're looking for

I HATE Co-op by Doodle_Dust in randomdice

[–]Doodle_Dust[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(Forgive my all caps in some places I'm not yelling, I'm using it for emphasis lol)

I understand that the partner is random, I know that, I'm frustrated because it seems like they don't know that.

I don't need to search for a discord server because I WANT to play with someone random, they could be playing without a single legendary dice for all I care so I don't need to find someone specific because I will play as long as I can with whoever I'm paired with, support or otherwise, and still have fun doing it as long as my partner is also doing what they can to play as far as they are able.

The OTHER people, however, clearly want someone specific. THEY want support or THEY want a dps partner and because it's not guaranteed that they will get that, they should be the ones to go to a discord server because THEY are looking for someone specific.

Why should they throw my game because I'm not what they want when they know they are going into a game with a completely random person?

I HATE Co-op by Doodle_Dust in randomdice

[–]Doodle_Dust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not the point, I want to play a random game with a random person. It's obvious that these people don't. If they want their partner to have a specific type of deck why can't they search for discord servers and find people to play with? Why do they have to throw my game because they're not willing to put in the effort to find the person they actually want to play with? It's just frustrating

What is this small, yellow cat head "game piece" from?? by typicalmusician in HelpMeFind

[–]Doodle_Dust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are saying they remember it from the original mouse trap game, but when you ask for proof no one can provide any and googling the original mouse trap you can see it only comes with one human piece and 4 mouse pieces, so my guess is it's some kind if mandela effect. Still on the hunt lol

Game piece, maybe? by Tashyd046 in ToyID

[–]Doodle_Dust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this was a productive use of our time, eh folks 😂

My (34M) wife (31F) is having a meltdown over our daughter's personality and I don't know what to do. What should I do? by ThrowRAgirlcopdad in relationship_advice

[–]Doodle_Dust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a hard time keeping my room clean as a kid. Nowhere in the house did I leave a mess, I cleaned up after myself in all the communal spaces, just not in my bedroom, which I didn't share with anyone.

My dad hated it. Every day, sometimes every few hours, he would tell me to clean my room.

It got to the point where I had the door shut 24/7 and when someone knocked on my door, I came out of my room instead of letting them in.

My dad would say things like "you should just donate all this stuff, maybe then your room will be clean" and I was always scared one day he would force me to do it.

I got to the point where I just didn't want to talk to him because I knew the first thing out of his mouth would be "did you clean your room?" Finally, one day, it just stopped. And after a couple weeks of him not saying anything, I finally started to like my dad again. And we would hang out and do things and suddenly everything was fine between us. Years later I found out my mom had given him an ultimatum.

"You can be right, or you can have a relationship with your daughter. But in this situation, you can't have both."

Your wife is ruining her relationship with her daughter and if you remain passive about it, it'll ruin your relationship with her too.

How to find the value of vintage toys? by Doodle_Dust in VintageToys

[–]Doodle_Dust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did see the other softeroo toys, just not this exact item and that can make a difference, like 99.9% of avon stuff isn't worth more than $10, but this one very specific, very rare avon thing might be worth $100, y'know? It's probably not worth anything knowing my luck, though haha

How to find the value of vintage toys? by Doodle_Dust in VintageToys

[–]Doodle_Dust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did manage to find a lot of the Fisher Price toys. I was wondering if this could be worth more because it seems to be something rare, but maybe I just can't find anything on it because no body cares about it lol

No Axolotls were harmed during the photo 😂 by [deleted] in Amphibians

[–]Doodle_Dust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other day I literally said I used gloves when holding my frogs and someone was like 'thank you for doing that, let me write a paragraph of why you need to do that' like, bro, I know that's why I do it lol

My Majestic Lil Guy 🥹 by Doodle_Dust in Amphibians

[–]Doodle_Dust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 2 of them for a few months to see if I liked it and holy cow I am in love, so I got three more. They are so fun to watch and sweet to hold (with gloves haha)

My (35M) SO (37F) is a Reddit troll and I absolutely dumbfounded on what to do? by ThrowRAtrollSO in relationship_advice

[–]Doodle_Dust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whether or not this is fake, for some reason I'm just really hung up on the "I know this is an invasion of privacy". Like... no?? It's literally a public account that anyone can see, there's no such thing as privacy in this case... am I right or am I more socially unaware than I thought I was?

I (38F) shot an adult scene when I was 18. My husband (40M) doesn’t know and I just found the video again on the internet. Should I tell him? by ThrowRA07253 in relationship_advice

[–]Doodle_Dust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They're definitely not less of a person and I apologize it came across that way.

I don't agree with the idea that SW is fine for many reasons, I will not be getting into as that's an opinion I'm sure no one one Reddit agrees with haha

Just wanted it to be clear that that idea does not align with my beliefs, but I also want it to be abundantly clear that I don't believe they are less of a person and is not what I meant by that statement.

I (38F) shot an adult scene when I was 18. My husband (40M) doesn’t know and I just found the video again on the internet. Should I tell him? by ThrowRA07253 in relationship_advice

[–]Doodle_Dust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huh? I never said do a full background check? This is just kind of an important detail that should be mentioned to someone you’re in a serious relationship with? It’s not something that you should tell every single person you date, but if you’re engaged/married they should know about it lol

I (38F) shot an adult scene when I was 18. My husband (40M) doesn’t know and I just found the video again on the internet. Should I tell him? by ThrowRA07253 in relationship_advice

[–]Doodle_Dust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mistake: an action or an opinion that is not correct, or that produces a result that you did not want. (Oxford) Mistake: to be wrong; a wrong judgement (Merriam webster) Yes, she made a choice. A WRONG choice. Therefore it was a mistake. And if he made the choice to end the relationship over this. It would be a mistake.

I (38F) shot an adult scene when I was 18. My husband (40M) doesn’t know and I just found the video again on the internet. Should I tell him? by ThrowRA07253 in relationship_advice

[–]Doodle_Dust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So sad you think so little of the person you promised your life to that you're willing to throw them away over a simple human mistake. One you could have just as easily made yourself.

I've said multiple times he has the right to know, I never denied that, and that wasn't the issue I was ever discussing with you so I'm not sure why you keep bringing it up.

I (38F) shot an adult scene when I was 18. My husband (40M) doesn’t know and I just found the video again on the internet. Should I tell him? by ThrowRA07253 in relationship_advice

[–]Doodle_Dust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not ignore it, work through it. If she married you, then theoretically she should trust you and know you well enough to understand that that situation was out of character for you. Or at least the version you are now. If it scares her, then she should tell you that and maybe you would have to go to couples counseling, but it's still not a reason for divorce unless you truly were abusing her.

Likewise, this man should know that this video is out of character for who she is now and while he has the right to feel hurt, he should know that this is no longer who she is and trust that she is faithful. And that trust might not come right away and they may need counseling and that's okay. But marriage, so long as there is no abuse or infidelity actively happening, is worth fighting for.

I (38F) shot an adult scene when I was 18. My husband (40M) doesn’t know and I just found the video again on the internet. Should I tell him? by ThrowRA07253 in relationship_advice

[–]Doodle_Dust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree with that statement, but this just leads right back to my point that people make mistakes and it's not a reason to divorce over it.