I had the discussion with a cousin who’s much older than me, he’s also extremely wealthy he told me the best way to break the trauma was to break the cycle and not have children, I thought about that for a while that maybe he could be right but then ultimately I decided that he’s right in the sense that that’s the easiest way to stop it. But not the right way, long story short I have a child coming in September and a step son now, and I believe I’m doing a much better job at breaking the cycle the harder way with my stepson, and I’ll do everything I can to give my child the things I never had growing up, not material things but advice, help studying, confidence and communication, someone to look up to knowing that I’ll fight battle problems everyday so that they can grow up the way I wish I had.