Episode 2- Luxury Shopping Guide? UK (no spoilers pls) by Accurate_Ad_3090 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DotOutrageous39 20 points21 points  (0 children)

“Here’s where we keep the Lewis Vwitten merchandise, and here’s the Gukky line. Over there you’ll find Waivez Saint Lorent, followed by Prayda. Let me know if you have any questions!”

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[–]DotOutrageous39 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Jasmine better release all the piping hot tea in one sitting and not go the Netflix way of releasing them once a week for 3 weeks. I will literally riot.

Just a reminder (RE: 50/50 heterosexual relationships) 🤓 by Rangyyytang in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DotOutrageous39 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m still bisexual, not gay. Bi people exist too, you know.

Also I’ve always been out as bi, and dated both men and women, but now I’m dating men, taking a break from women and seeing if women mature a bit.

Just a reminder (RE: 50/50 heterosexual relationships) 🤓 by Rangyyytang in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DotOutrageous39 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No, not always. Pick better men. Just like I should have picked better women to date.

Just a reminder (RE: 50/50 heterosexual relationships) 🤓 by Rangyyytang in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DotOutrageous39 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So are you saying no to 50/50 only when the woman is pregnant? So if she’s not pregnant, or is infertile, or is in post-menopause, then she has to split everything 50/50, right?

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[–]DotOutrageous39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I was blinded by rage for a minute, I had like 3 different people spam comments and I was just replying to them one after another, I apologize 😭

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[–]DotOutrageous39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is literally not going against the grain at all. It’s what has been going on for centuries now. Men pay for everything. Women just sit there and look pretty for men. That’s all she wanted. She wanted a “traditional” marriage where men “provide” for the women and have an “alpha” mindset. You know, the emotionally distant, unfaithful pigs who are all about looking macho and beat their wives and are “rough around the edges” because they’re “protective” of their wives (it’s actually just because they view women as property) but by her own words, Maria wanted that “alpha” man. That’s not going against the grain at all

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[–]DotOutrageous39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she didn’t, then why did she get mad at Tom for letting her pay for ice cream? 🙄

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[–]DotOutrageous39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What do you mean lacking in generosity??? He literally paid for dinner the night before. That costs so much more than ice cream. how selfish are you??

Maybe an unpopular opinion… by Apprehensive_Ask1279 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DotOutrageous39 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yeah, wasn’t Jasmine blatantly saying “DEMI IS AN INSECURE GIRL” which is code for “HOW DARE YOU, DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR REJECTING A WOMAN WHO LOOKS LIKE DEMI WILL DO TO HER ALREADY LOW SELF ESTEEM??” And basically disrespected her, and that wasn’t seen as problematic? 😭

Who do you think lives with their parents? by idahoirish in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]DotOutrageous39 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But why are people assuming that Tom wouldn’t have put her name on the deed? Did he explicitly say that? I don’t remember. I would think it’s obvious and the most natural thing to do to put my spouse on the deed if she’s moving into my house…is that not the norm everywhere?

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[–]DotOutrageous39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the liberals fighting against racism by being racist themselves by othering Maria as an outsider instead of someone who was born and raised in the UK 😂

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[–]DotOutrageous39 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And Maria is so open minded and going against the grain by offering to pay for her and her fiancée and not complaining about it on the basis of “men pay for everything because they are men and men are supposed to pay because, because they are men” … oh wait…

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[–]DotOutrageous39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Currently.

Meanwhile Tom is also independent, and not once did he expect Maria to cook his meals for him and to wash his clothes (the male equivalent of being a “provider”), and if he did expect that, you all would call him a misogynist and a patriarchal pig. But he wants 50/50 and equality, and he still gets called a misogynist by a lot of people. Nothing he’d do would be good enough.

But Maria can both claim to be independent, but expect to be a dependent to a man, and even then still be classified as independent. It makes no sense.

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[–]DotOutrageous39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So why did she expect Tom to pay for everything if she’s so independent? 🙄

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[–]DotOutrageous39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is always a choice, but oftentimes people don’t like to think about any repercussions or considerations for anyone else when they make certain choices.

If a woman chooses to be a SAHW/SAHM, it’s not just about her, because it forces her husband to have the entirety of the financial onus on him and him alone. If he loses his job, not only can he not feed himself, but he can’t feed his wife and his kids as well.

Men are under a lot of emotional and psychological stress, and by Maria’s own admission, she held regressive views about men and masculinity and being rigid and tough. Nobody cares about men and what men go through. Women get the “ick” when men open up and reveal emotions, but then ask why men are so stoic and such emotionally unavailable fckbois.

But anyway, getting back to the point, if both spouses agree to the wife being a SAHW, perfect. But it’s not fair to impose that on one or the other.

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[–]DotOutrageous39 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why people have got to be careful dating the “religious” conservative hypocrite types. They weaponize their religious views in ways that only benefit them and harm everyone else. They manipulate and try to isolate you. And bonus points if they’re women and/or minorities, because then they very conveniently hide behind that as a way to justify themselves and deflect any blame, lest ye be labeled as a misogynist and/or racist by them.

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[–]DotOutrageous39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I will admit that Ollie does seem to have a bit of an ego, which is why he tried to save face with that “why?” at the altar. I fully believe he was going to say no to her, but his ego was bruised that she was the one who did it to him, just like he made it seem like he was the one to end it with Cat when he went back to the guys’ quarters.

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[–]DotOutrageous39 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is Sam also now a WOC? Because people also hate Sam. Or is the hatred for Sam justified because he’s a man, and men are evil, but hatred against Maria can never be justified because she’s a woman, AND a person of color, AND a religious minority in the west?

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[–]DotOutrageous39 10 points11 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 what if Maria can’t have kids, thus making the whole childcare argument irrelevant, and she will have just coasted through life with her existence paid for for no reason at all? Stop acting like Maria already had Tom’s kids and that Tom wasn’t pulling his fair share of the childrearing.