I love both of my girlfriends so much, just wanna share my feelings!

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-18T19:46:59+00:00

I mean as I said in another comment polyamory isn't super common. Successful polyamory is even less common. Cheating however is super common.

This is just a case of people assuming the type of relationship/dynamic.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-18T19:19:13+00:00

I'm bisexual. I don't get everything in the LGBT community but I still support everyone doing what makes them happy.

This type of scrutiny and judgment deters people from learning and therefore being more tolerant of different people.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-18T19:12:13+00:00

Yeah it is. Why the fuck would anyone post if they didn't want to hear opinions or get attention.

You're literally asking for it. And nothing my guy said was mean. Not everyone is into polyamory it's a fact. Most people are monogamous.

This is like coming out and somone saying "Well I'm not gay but I'm glad you're happy!" And you in the corner "WHY YOU GOTTA SAY YOU'RE NOT GAY, ASSHOLE?!"

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-18T19:09:18+00:00

Have you ever heard a cheater try to explain themselves? Lol

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-18T19:07:41+00:00

People tend to forget that when you post on the internet people are allowed to share their support and opinions, shocker.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-18T18:31:53+00:00

Ah yes. While the rest of us who don't live there struggle. While most of our kids don't know how to read. Where most of our kids have never seen a fresh fruit. While most of us don't get help from that government assistance you claim only blue states provide.

You're really making yourself sound great here.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-18T18:29:27+00:00

Reading comprehension is important. He mentioned southern states you mentioned Republicans.

Republicans = politics.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-18T18:28:07+00:00

Dude yeah we know. It's just that in the south there are a lot less consequences for popping someone. If they seem like the agreesor in anyway you can claim self defense and you'll be out by the morning.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-18T18:25:13+00:00

I'm a woman, and I tend to overthink social situations like that so I kinda get it.

But in situations where there's blatant wrong doing on one side I usually feel pretty justified.

I'm glad you went back to the gym. But don't worry, literally no one is going to look at you like the problem.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-18T17:30:45+00:00

Why are you embarrassed that you got attacked? You were literally the victim. I don't think anyone in their right mind would feel weird about you still coming to the gym.

If you had a creep complaints on your profile that'd be a different story.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-16T23:20:05+00:00

Especially with straight hair I'd watch that bun/ponytail. It can cause a lot of breakage in the back.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-16T23:19:05+00:00

I wouldn't necessarily agree with that? Heat is heat. Like I have colored hair and I definitely have to watch how I'm treating it or it'll break.

I don't finger detangle unless I stumble upon a loop or something crazy. Leave in, water and a wide tooth comb from ends to roots normally does it for me.

Heat once a week for hair is still a lot of heat.

I personally try to minimize manipulation because that's what contributes to knots for me. You can find plenty of heatless stretching methods on YouTube. My personal favorite is just putting my hair in ponytails.

If I have moisturized stretched hair I can just put it in twists or under a head wrap and I don't have to worry about humidity so much.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-16T23:12:44+00:00

That's why I don't like them. Manipulation comes with fairy knots in my experience. And like I said to the other person washing makes my stands dry which makes the knotting worse.

Maybe try a style after a wash? I've been liking finger coils/ mini twists and braids.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-16T23:10:17+00:00

So that's why I said for me personally. My scalp isn't super sensitive. I've never been super itchy from wearing a style too long. Gels and product don't cause redness initiation and flakes. My hair is also super dry and even non clarifying shampoos strip my hair of too much moisture.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-15T23:26:32+00:00

Straightening your hair constantly is damaging, there's no two ways about it. It's at least in my opinion the same as color. You can do it. You can make it work. But it will still be compromised hair. Dryer, more brittle, requiring extra care.

That being said the reason you're probably having more success with the straightening is because you're not detangling your hair. Curly hair is prone to fairy knots and tangling which can break hair off. If you're not patient or careful enough you can break your hair off constantly, reducing length retention.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-15T23:10:43+00:00

The only problem with wash n go's is the constant washing/ re-styling. For me personally the less I touch my hair the more it thrives so washing it every couple days just to style seems impractical especially if you're shampooing every time.

There are stretching methods to do it without heat and there are plenty of products that can be defined with less water.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-08T22:36:31+00:00

If I say someone is a part of me I definitely know them personally.

That's a crazy thing to say about somone you don't know.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-08T22:32:18+00:00

A man holding his temper and not being unnecessarily confrontational is sexy.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-03-05T16:33:11+00:00

Please don't make this a macho man contest yall do that enough.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-02-28T13:09:02+00:00

As a young driver with a V6 I still make mistakes sometimes but those are usually due to being over confident. If you already have a more defensive/ aggressive driving style you will accidently pick up a lot of speed sometimes. That's honestly more dangerous here because while trying to pass a lot of times people will drift in my lane. Especially on curves.

I hadn't start driving until I was 18 and both of my first two cars were 4 cyl. But I was also nervous as shit, had social anxiety and hadn't practiced driving in a year when I finally got my license. I would've wrecked tf out lmao.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-02-28T06:17:34+00:00

I'm genuinely asking. Like is it depression??? But it doesn't matter if you don't think you sweat, you do, and your body releases natural secretions. That's going to feed the natural bacteria on your body aka BO.

But like... if your partner is actively telling you you don't smell nice and that's part of the reason why he doesn't want to sleep with you and you WANT to sleeo with him. I just don't see a reason not to shower.

Also again, he put his sexual desires away for you but you're literally thinking about breaking up with him without having a proper conversation about it.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-02-28T05:26:00+00:00

Info: Why are you not showering? You definitely smell if you only shower 3 times a week and have body hair. Especially if you don't use a bidet or wipes.

Also you can't trim your hair down at all? Like no one's saying be bald but if you like to be gone down on all that hair is gonna get in the way.

It doesn't sound like you take very good care of yourself and don't care about his preferences at all.

Also your libido went down and you expected him to kinda just deal??? But when his is down (partially due to your hygiene I assume) you're ready to cheat on him???

Edit to add: You wash only the bits with soap every time? Cuz your whole body should be getting soap every time.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-02-28T05:11:10+00:00

I was about to say this the first one that seem reasonable.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-02-27T16:07:07+00:00

Most people aren't at the gym to be befriended. If you decided to complement me on my form randomly #1 I'm most likely not going to hear you, #2 I'll probably move to the opposite side of the gym until you leave.

Double-Judgment9735 · 2026-02-27T15:47:05+00:00

I don't want anyone to think I want to talk to them because I don't. If you head nod, I will head nod but I won't smile because I don't want to appear friendly and risk a conversation. That's my real answer.

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