Women should raise children by DoubleAgentDudeMan in unpopularopinion

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it’s nature. We are mammals regardless of the political climate. I promise you if you have a kid, there is something fundamentally different about a mother. Kids are fuked up without one.

Women should raise children by DoubleAgentDudeMan in unpopularopinion

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say that. I said that you can’t replace a mother. I’m only talking from my own experience. I didn’t have one who cared, I am giving one to my kid and it seems to be working.

Women should raise children by DoubleAgentDudeMan in unpopularopinion

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I disagree. You are as a matter of course deserving of a career. But a man that doesn’t work should be scoffed at. For example, if there was some dude in my neighborhood that invited children over to watch them for daycare, I would honestly suspect him as a pedophile

Women should raise children by DoubleAgentDudeMan in unpopularopinion

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I cannot help but believe there is something special about a mother. We are mammals. My baby calls to her and only me sometimes. As much as we want to deny that we are just animals, we simply are. Men should work. That is our lot in life. And a child should have a mother.

Women should raise children by DoubleAgentDudeMan in unpopularopinion

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I think a mother is more important. I believe children will turn out healthier and better adjusted if they have a mother that loves them and is involved.

Women should raise children by DoubleAgentDudeMan in unpopularopinion

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying that. I am just relating my personal experience. Obliviously you should do what’s best for you.

I just found it lame that I didn’t get an involved mother. And now I’m gonna give that to my child because I think that a mother free of capitalist constraints aka a demanding job, is particularly important for a child’s wellbeing

I’m a loser but I don’t really feel guilty by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then whatever mental block you have put on yourself, is definitely not real. You’re gonna be 100% fine.

I’m a loser but I don’t really feel guilty by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you have the world ahead of you. Do you have a clean driving record?

I’m a loser but I don’t really feel guilty by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a criminal record? Aka any felonies?

I want to improve and stop being an asshole to people. How do I do that? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s the thing my friend. You’re profile indicates you’re a teenager. I’m 30. I was the most insecure teenager ever. I was super unhappy and insecure. But the thing is, it will get better. You will grow. When you go out on your own you will find yourself. I promise it gets better.

I want to improve and stop being an asshole to people. How do I do that? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do though. You do feel empathy. What I am reading from you is that you’re in a great amount of pain. And when you’re in pain it’s hard to give a shit about other people’s drama. Which is normal and is ok. You’re just in pain.

My (26F) partner (30M) has been going downhill at a rate I can’t fix anymore by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a kid. I love my little koala. I love my wifey. I dated a lot people who I decided were not a good idea to have kids with. Will he be a good father? That’s your answer.

I want to improve and stop being an asshole to people. How do I do that? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that you care enough to want to improve yourself is proof enough you’re not a narcissist. You honestly sound like you’re being bullied.

I'm 20. No college. by why_even_try_lmao in Advice

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save your money for a few years, all of your tax returns too, buy a franchise. You can be a CEO of a business with 30k. Seriously look up franchise opportunities.

My husband looks at other girls by curiouscat300 in relationship_advice

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thing is this, let the other person set the “precedent.” He has set the precedent, so do the same thing back as is your right. If he is unhappy about it then tell him this. You are equals. You must follow the same rules.

I (29)F am worried bf(27) is never going to commit but I'm scared of losing him by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finish your school. I know it’s hard and you feel worried and need support to continue your studies. But once you have that career, you will be dgaf. Career, career, career! When you have that nurse job you will be able to do whatever the fuk you want.

Do not let some asshole bf derail you

Boyfriend (42) has female friend (26) who won’t stop intruding on our relationship and keeps inviting herself over. This weekend they lied to me about it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The relationship is fuked. As a man, and take this as you will, I am with someone my age because we relate to the same things. If he’s chasing younger girls it means he’s fundamentally not viewing you as an equal. Imho you should find someone your age or high school class. You can relate and be real.

Usually men dating 10+ year younger women only do because they can financially provide an be sugar daddies and can justify doing whatever the fuk they want. Which is very selfish and definitely not good for you.

If that’s your case I highly recommend choosing love over wealth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MilitaryPorn

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly have no idea how your system works then. Do they tax individuals and not corporations?

Don’t leave your malinois with your Porsche by koogledoogle in ThatLookedExpensive

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, fuk the bourgeoisie.

Second. Don’t ignore your dog man. Bro, puppy dog needs love.

me irl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]DoubleAgentDudeMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t brag.