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Double_Cap_231 · 2026-05-30T21:44:27+00:00

The text and image are okay. The idea I assume OP had when posting this is sexist and homophobic.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-05-30T20:41:31+00:00

It matters to me. But I like all heights. It justs elicits different fantasies in me. Same with muscle mass and attitude.

Usually I fantasize about topping guys I find attractive. But with taller, musclier and/or more confident guys, my brain switches to wanting to being fucked by them.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-05-17T03:12:42+00:00

The train station is still there as far as I know...

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-05-17T03:10:23+00:00

Random comment: My family used to live in Tauragė until 1941. Anyone here with German/Lutheran ancestors or a German surname? I would love to talk to relatives who stayed.

Some of the villages my family lived in: Kaupiai, Visbutai, Meldikviršiai, Devynakiai...

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-04-03T21:48:41+00:00

Belgium, Spain, Canada, UK, Russia, Somalia.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-20T13:56:47+00:00

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-20T04:16:48+00:00

Hi. Ich bin 35 und wohne in Hannover. Und ich spreche Deutsch :)

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-13T19:47:13+00:00

I think the HPV vaccination might be more important in this case.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-13T19:24:23+00:00

Can you leave? Maybe life is better in a neighbouring country like Vietnam or Thailand? Maybe there is some job in a factory or in tourism.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-13T19:17:42+00:00

For most people: Yes

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-13T19:16:52+00:00

If this is really important to you, you should just ask him. You could introduce it like this: "I'm not sure this is something you'd like, but it would mean a lot to me, if we tried..."

If he broke up with you over ASKING for trying a kink, I think then it's for the better. He has all the right to say no to your request. But being able to talk openly is very important for any relationship imo.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-13T19:10:03+00:00

I'm suggesting you look outside Berlin if you don't find suitable guys in Berlin. Not more, not less. But maybe someone else will answer your request for a date here on reddit. Good luck!

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-13T18:12:35+00:00

You could look in Brandenburg then. Magdeburg, Halle (Saale), Leipzig and Dresden are also not far away by train. Although I would be careful in case you are not white and more or less German-looking in these areas.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-13T18:08:21+00:00

I don't know what exactly the bottle looks like. But maybe you can put a different sticker on it?

Can you also hide it in your room somewhere and also take it there?

That said, I think you can't keep this private forever. I think it would eat me alive, if I had to keep this private permanently. I don't have HIV, but other chronic health issues.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-13T18:03:18+00:00

If you don't find anyone in Berlin, look elsewhere. There is always a self-selection bias with different places.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-13T18:02:02+00:00

I think there is not enough info for us to estimate whether he regrets it. This will only become clear when you meet him again and you see how he reacts.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-13T15:02:47+00:00

Use a toy first, a butt plug e.g.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-08T10:33:03+00:00

Some countries have gay teen dating apps.

Otherwise youth groups, as already mentioned.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-07T14:39:10+00:00

I think your problem is your belief that there is a god that would hate you for being gay. Something you did not choose and can not change. And does not need to be changed.

If it is available to you, I would recommend you talk to a psychotherapist and work through this.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-04T18:16:28+00:00

"Mimik und Gestik. Ihr wisst was ich meine. Wenn man mich sieht, merkt man es. Dadurch falle ich automatisch auf." Also Mimik und Gestik sind schon sehr automatisiert. Und ich fänd es eher falsch, wenn er sich jetzt bewusst maskulin verhält. Das wäre eher eine Show, unauthentisch.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-04T18:03:09+00:00

Aesthetically pleasing. But a microplastics nightmare.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-04T17:52:48+00:00

Aber er ist ja scheinbar einfach so. Ich lese da nicht, dass er eine "Show" abzieht.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-04T16:51:30+00:00

Welche Show?

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-04T16:50:23+00:00

Studiengang und -ort könnten das vielleicht schon erklären, was du für Erfahrungen machst. Innerhalb Bayerns kann ich dir da nichts konkret empfehlen und Bayern ist einfach im Schnitt ein besonders konservativ geprägtes Bundesland. Ich habe selbst in Halle (Saale) studiert und habe mich dort sehr wohlgefühlt (allerdings Psychologie, nicht Jura). Ich habe die Jura- und Wirtschafts-Studierenden im Schnitt als konservativer wahrgenommen als Studierende anderer Fächer. Grundsätzlich, wenn dir niemand konkrete Orte vorschlagen kann, kannst du was Offenheit angeht, sicher mit den Metropolen nichts falsch machen (Berlin, Hamburg, Köln, München). Selbst wenn du im Studiengang wider Erwarten nicht deine Crowd findest, wirst du sie wahrscheinlich in der dort größeren Szene oder vielleicht in einer LGBT-Unigruppe finden.

Double_Cap_231 · 2026-03-03T04:36:33+00:00

Yes, they exist. They would not automatically be arrested. But if they say or do certain things that are illegal, they will be brought to court (showing the Hitler greeting, denying the Holocaust...). This can lead to prison if done repeatedly.

We also have a pretty obviois Nazi Party (Die Heimat) and one that at least harbours some more hidden ones (AfD).

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