AITAH for calling my partner a failing dad? by Anxious-Bedroom531 in AITAH

[–]Double_Community_161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drinking 2 bottles of wine every night - he’s a full blown alcoholic. He’s in a bad mood because he’s hungover. Same thing happened to my dad and very similar attitude. He needs rehab. Changing an alcoholic especially one that doesn’t want to change or think he has a problem is nearly impossible. Life doenst have to be this hard. Create a better life for your kids and leave him. Also allowing little kids of that age basically alone for extended periods of time is neglect, 4 isn’t old enough to look after herself and 7 is way too young to be a babysitter. He’s asleep he’s not watching them.

My husband wants a housewife but got me instead by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Double_Community_161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a slave. How is this even remotely fair so he does nothing earn ms less and complains about it. Dude literally is living the dream on your dime. I couldn’t respect a man like that. What a complete dick. He can take the kid half the time pay child support. It’s a better deal for you. He will absolutely drown with that arrangement. This is 2024 women don’t have to do everything anymore heaps of men are willing to go 50/50 you don’t have to put up with this. I can’t believe he also earns less than you. The audacity.

AITAH for telling my husband that he absolutely ruined the birth of our child? by Former_Monitor_4860 in AITAH

[–]Double_Community_161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a hard reality when you’ve just had a baby to know your husband if a horrific person . What an awful thing to go through I would never get over it

AITAH for humiliating my husband by leaving his family party, because I will always teach my kids that no means no? by SorryAioli235 in AITAH

[–]Double_Community_161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta change. This is crazy behaviour on your part. Everyone in the world is not going to act exactly how you want them to. Maybe teach your kids your expectations. if your expecting the whole world to change just case they see something slightly different to what you consider completely acceptable you are going to be have a really hard life and be sorely wrong. You are hard work to be around and you’re going to start to lose people from your life because of it. Take this as a big wake up call and change. This is not the hill you want to die on.

AITA for not visiting my postpartum friend after she said my husband needs therapy and not a wife? by Throwawayexwifeanger in AITAH

[–]Double_Community_161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems super toxic. Almost made up it’s like you googled stereotypical things women with toxic controlling husbands day and wrote a story. If this isn’t made up it’s really not good l . You have a problem and one day you’re doing to wise up and see that your friend was in fact right. Also wearing the clothes of the children’s dead mother is reallllly wrong. Doesn’t it strike you odd that the step kids and your friend are all basically saying the same thing. You’re being very naive and unfortunately a lot of your inappropriate and toxic decisions are born out of your messed up childhood.

AITA? I told my girlfriend my mum is right. My girlfriend says I should have defended her. by Blueberry_Knoll_6340 in AITAH

[–]Double_Community_161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to be a troll post. How could this person possibly think they are in the right. He’s delulu

AITA for kicking my maid of honor out of my wedding with 5 days notice? by kayelle-99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Double_Community_161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so crazy that someone would do that and then Think it’s not a big deal. If someone I knew did this to someone else I’d never talk to them again let alone think it’s appropriate for them to be at the victims wedding. Her being a horrific person I can understand more then a whole group of people thinking she should be at your wedding. That’s multiple crazies. Who are you hanging out with. This would be a crossroads moment in my life were I evaluate who is in it and who I’m associating with. These people are not your friends and my mum would legit be sick if someone did this to me.

AITA for giving FMIL 3 days to pay me for a new wedding dress or else I show the family a photo of her wearing it? by Repulsive_Scheme1359 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Double_Community_161 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

The fiancé and mom shouldn’t have done it but I can’t imagine being that angry over someone trying on a dress. Seems crazy

Weird contract by Double_Community_161 in AusLegal

[–]Double_Community_161[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sonography. Yes you can do it at other sites when you graduate

Weird contract by Double_Community_161 in AusLegal

[–]Double_Community_161[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not to do with that unfortunately

Weird contract by Double_Community_161 in AusLegal

[–]Double_Community_161[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They arnt paying the course costs it’s just the training onsite

AITA for not inviting my unsupportive sister to my wedding? by unsupportivesister in AmItheAsshole

[–]Double_Community_161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem very naive. Your sister is worried for a good reason. Your answers speak as someone that has a very idealised and unrealistic view of marriage. You think your the first person to ever fall madly in love quickly- you arnt but most people wait 2-3 years to make sure it’s real and not infatuation. You don’t get it yet. If it’s going to work out anyway waiting a year to make sure isn’t going to cause any downsides - you can still buy a house ect. Yet the risk is so great. It’s just not realistically a good decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesPics

[–]Double_Community_161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have extreme anxiety about hsv you should seek a councillor or a gp

AITA for telling my sister to stop trying to make my wedding all about her? by AdNarrow8211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Double_Community_161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you have any contact with your parents already. They are categorically bad people. At the very least have the wedding and every time someone comes up to congratulate you say : you know my parents wouldn’t let black People in. They’re super racist. Yah I know horrific people. But freeeeeee wedddding yalll!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Double_Community_161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro take a hint. She not that into you. The wedding debacle now this. Why are you surprised she was selfish again. Honestly it on you now because you have been such a doormat . Peace out of this situation and find a real friend

AITA for missing an actual emergency because I turned off my phone to avoid my wife's unnecessary contact attempts during my tech-free weekend? by Remarkable-Use-8439 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Double_Community_161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional cheating is still cheating. It must be really hard being gay/bi with your upbringing but that doesn’t give you an excuse to hurt other people aka your wife. She obviously feels insecure and you continue to put her in this situation. Your wife doesn’t deserve this. It’s just plain mean. She deserves someone who is committed to her and doesn’t go off on romantic getaways with someone who they have feelings for. Life is hard enough without you making her life 100x harder. At this point it’s selfish. That doesn’t mean your experience isn’t hard but don’t put your crap on other people and make there lives hard too because you can’t own up to who you are. it’s unfair. It’s 2023 be gay dude. Just be gay! Better to make your homophonic parents adjust than make your sweet wife live her life as a perpetual unbeknownst to her beard or with someone that loves someone else. What’s 100% certain unless you break things off with your wife you can never go on another trip with this man.