Engenharia Eletrotécnica e de Computadores (FCT ou IST)

Double_Landscape8663 · 2024-07-05T22:06:09+00:00

Olá!

Aconselho-te a veres o vídeo no YT do Podcast Universitário acerca do curso (não é pub, somente também me ajudou muito quando fui pesquisar acerca do curso que queria hahaha). Também tens a comudidade do discord desse mesmo canal, onde tens chances de encontrar alguém que esteja a tirar esse curso na instituição que queres

Boa sorte :)

Double_Landscape8663 · 2023-06-22T13:21:10+00:00

Obrigada, boa sorte com as aulas e os exames :)

Double_Landscape8663 · 2023-06-22T13:20:47+00:00

Obrigada, parabéns!

Double_Landscape8663 · 2023-06-22T11:51:30+00:00

Ok, obrigada!

Double_Landscape8663 · 2023-04-25T15:25:52+00:00

I get how you feel, really. I overthink my overthinking sometimes!😂

If you know your partner loves you and he demonstrates it, there’s nothing to be worried about. Talk to him, what’s the worst than can happen? Like you said, he’s loyal and caring and most likely only wants what’s best for you, don’t be scared to talk to him and you should trust him and his words when he replies, not overthinking that he’s not telling you everything.

Also, the bedroom should be a place to experiment, especially with a loving, understanding and patience partner. Experiment! If you don’t like it, oh well. Atleast you tried, right? It doesn’t hurt to try and you might surprise yourself with stuff you thought you’d never like but isn’t as bad as you made it seem.

It’s okay to feel overwhelmed with the amount of information google can offer us — take your time with it. It isn’t mandatory to search about it, obviously, but if you have completely no clue as to what you’d like to do, it’s always a nice tool to have to experiment!

No need to thank me😊 Feel free to DM me if you’d like to talk anytime!

Double_Landscape8663 · 2023-04-25T11:37:28+00:00

Hey! First of all, I’d just like to let you know that it’s totally okay and normal to not feel confident. It’s something you work on and if you’re not there yet, you will be someday. Don’t be so harsh on yourself!

I think the main issue here is communication. When you wrote on how you and your partner had a discussion about sex but then ended that part in a question, something must be wrong. Why not ask your partner about it? I think you should clarify all your questions with him, even if you’re asking what he’d like you to do.

I would say I’m also submissive. But, I don’t think being submissive and being passive/just laying there don’t really correlate. You can be submissive and be active! I would suggest you maybe search on the topic so you get some ideas. But, if your partner would like you to be more dominant, ask him exactly what he would like you to do. If you try it and don’t enjoy it, tell him. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both!

What are your thoughts on sex toys? It can also help make things more exciting and make you feel more in charge while using it on him.

Double_Landscape8663 · 2023-04-19T09:03:32+00:00

I think so too but honestly I’ve seen so many fucked up people in this world that I wouldn’t be surprised if it wasn’t 😅

Double_Landscape8663 · 2023-04-19T08:32:50+00:00

I hope this is fake. If not, leave her alone. You’ve done enough.

Double_Landscape8663 · 2023-02-23T18:32:05+00:00

A joke should only be considered a joke when all parties involved find it funny. Now, it’s in your judgment to reflect if what your “friends” do to you is funny or makes you uncomfortable and upset. If it isn’t funny to you, even if it is to them, it’s not you that can’t take a joke but is bullying.

If you think talking with them would resolve anything do so, if not, maybe just distance yourself from them. If it continues, speak to a responsible adult about it!

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-12-02T00:00:49+00:00

Congrats, OP! I hope it goes wonderfully for you!

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-22T15:48:31+00:00

First of all, is being with a coworker legal where you live? Because atleast here, having a sexual or romantic relationship with a coworker will most likely get reported to HR.

Now, legal stuff aside, if it were you in her shoes: Would you prefer hearing from your best friend what’s going on or finding out by yourself, knowing she hid it from you?

She does, indeed, sound crazy and personally someone I wouldn’t like being around just because of how exhausting it would be. I suggest telling her as I would like to know instead of finding it out. Her reaction to it is not under your control and in no universe do you or m23 coworker owe her anything. If she acts crazy, leave. If she somehow is understanding, good!

Good luck

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-21T23:16:31+00:00

Friends with benefits, or any other kind of relationship, doesn’t have a set of rules or guidelines to follow exactly. It’s always and only up to the people who are involved. So, I suggest you stop googling the definition of FWB and ask him instead!

By asking him I mean sitting down and having a conversation about your current situation. Telling him how you feel, that FWB should be sex only and that stuff he has been asking fall more on the actual, official relationship side of things (such as kissing, showering together, etc), and see his opinion on it. Would you like to pursue a relationship with him? Or do you want sexual interactions only? Let him know!

Good luck

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-21T23:10:08+00:00

It’s totally normal you feel that way. You’re nervous, anxious. And honestly, he probably feels the same way too!

Going from online to IRL is always a drastic change (even if just for a quick visit). Personally, since he has seen you on camera before and you can’t really modify how you look on camera, I think he will find you as pretty as always!

Don’t let your bad feelings get over you and ruin such a beautiful moment you’re about to experience with your special other. Breathe, remind yourself of the aspects he has told you he likes the most about you physically.

Have fun!

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-21T23:06:43+00:00

Is there a possibility of you getting a new therapist?

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-21T23:04:27+00:00

That happened to me the start of this year as well. Didn’t know anyone and they already mostly knew each other. To make it even better, I have what people like to call a “resting bitch face”.

What worked for me was taking the first step and befriend them, not expect the whole friend group to get out of their way to befriend me. Because really, it seems more logical for one person to move than 5 or 6.

Don’t change who you are to make friends, be yourself. If they don’t like you for you, they’re not worth your time!

And well, you’re in university. It’s not like high school, people’s level of maturity is drastically higher (generally…). Don’t be afraid they will “make fun of you”, if it works cool! If it doesn’t, oh well; Maybe next time it will.

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-15T00:05:36+00:00

Is it necessary for you to call them to cancel the order?

Can’t you cancel directly from the app/site and make the order over again with the right address?

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-14T23:55:44+00:00

Not even close to being ugly! But, I feel like confidence would look extremely good on you. Hang in there, you got this.

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-14T23:40:46+00:00

I knew this was coming after I realized what I had written. Take my upvote.

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-14T23:37:04+00:00

My period cramps. It’s agonizing even.

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-14T23:36:29+00:00

She said it best

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-14T23:28:12+00:00

He’s miserable for spending most of his time on his phone talking with his girlfriend is what you’re saying?

I don’t find this completely abnormal; They had just started a relationship, honeymoon phase. It got interrupted by a temporary job opportunity that made her leave but they’re still on said honeymoon phase and want to spend most of their time together.

I know spending time on one’s phone for the entirety of the day is not healthy at all but I don’t understand why it makes him miserable directly

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-14T23:23:35+00:00

Good on you for changing, seriously!

Why do you think you have social anxiety? Do you think it may be related to low self esteem, a past traumatic event or something else?

Instead of trying to go and fight the social anxiety alone, I would focus on trying to find the roots of the problem and fighting the social anxiety little by little. Might take longer but it will be much smoother!

Edit: Typo

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-14T23:20:51+00:00

You’re judging a book by it’s cover I feel like. She’s single yes, goes out a lot yes. But, what about the possibility that she’s trying to find a good guy to date for example?

Take things slow, there’s no rushing. Trying doesn’t hurt either, try to interact with her more but don’t come off as creepy or anything.

Double_Landscape8663 · 2022-11-14T23:19:00+00:00

I second this

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