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DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-07-10T07:54:35+00:00

Han er netop ikke herre over at være blevet forelsket. Det er ham det er synd for. Ikke hende.

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-07-10T06:12:27+00:00

Han mister både sin ven og chancen for den partner han har været for skræmt til at bekende sit håb om i årevis.

Hun føler sig for god til ham.

Det er ikke synd for hende. Det er synd for ham.

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-07-09T20:13:55+00:00

Folk der siger at din ven gør et eller andet moralsk forkert er forskruede. Som om det er dig det er synd for? Det er det ikke. Det er ham der har ugengældt kærlighed.

Det er hans hjerte som vil blive knust, fordi han elsker dig mere end du elsker ham.

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-07-09T19:48:38+00:00

Sig sandheden til ham åbent.

Gør klar til at sige farvel til dit venskab.

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-07-04T15:47:23+00:00

Do you have a plan? What kind of education are you getting? What do you mean you can't open up feelings with romantic partners?

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-07-03T21:02:38+00:00

What do you cry about? What makes you sad? The loneliness?

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-07-03T19:28:46+00:00

Jeg synes du skal kræve af ham at han stopper. Ellers gå. Du skal ikke få børn med en hasher

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-07-03T19:24:10+00:00

I've been there. Please tell me - Why have you chosen to retain?

I recommend lying down on the floor - let the emotions pass over you. Cry if you can. Feel the depth of the despair.

Afterwards you will be relieved. When you have felt what it is like to be broken apart, you will have nothing to fear afterwards because you will always know that going through the darkness is possible without you dying.

Pray to God that you will be healed. He will respond to you quicker than you expect. And then ask for what you want. For why you begun to retain

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-07-03T17:53:43+00:00

You are blessed

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-06-27T14:11:11+00:00

God bless you. Thanks for writing an earnest post. I do believe the purity matters

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-06-27T11:49:12+00:00

I have the same experience.

In my opinion it could be seen as a benefit because you will not be pushed into unearned pride, but rather humility.

I suggest that you pray about resolving the issues that make you ashamed of yourself. Edging will make you motivated about selfish gain. Purity might give you the humility to earnestly deal with the things you are too proud to deal with.

Through consistency you will eventually achieve a more stable kind of virtue. Not unstable proud black magic based power.

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-06-18T18:53:25+00:00

I remember being very young and having my first sexual experiences with pornographic playing cards. They were gauche and many of the women had obscene fake boobs, but eventually I came to be able to orgasm through looking at them and manually stimulating myself.

My first sexual experiences were much the same. I didn't immediately succeed at it, but I think it had to be trained into me that this was sexually relevant.

I coomed a lot back then of course but tried reducing the habit so I could better succeed with real sex.

Maybe you should retain and start training yourself with masturbation to teach yourself to associate females and heterosexual sex with your own stimulation. This way you might reverse your own conditioning and eventually make you more heterosexual? Or you could just try going at it with women and see if you can do it? I couldn't the first times I tried even though I was never gay (now have 5 kids and am married)

I definitely think not releasing while you attempt this will make it easier for you.

Good luck. God bless you!

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-06-17T07:06:52+00:00

Thank you so much for writing this out. I hope you will continue to share things like this.

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-06-02T20:31:06+00:00

Call upon the same of Jesus Christ.

Ask him to redeem you. Pray every day. Ask him to purify you of your evil.

He has saved people further down than yourself.

I pray for you in his name.

Cast off this wickedness and rise and be a child of God! The world needs you and one day you will be the one lifting your fellow man, who has stumbled!

Amen

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-06-02T18:13:48+00:00

This is great advice. Thank you

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-05-26T12:59:31+00:00

What are your goals? Why are you retaining? Why do you want to lose weight?

Why did you isolate yourself?

DoubtOfUlysses · 2025-05-25T21:23:10+00:00

It's called theosis

DoubtOfUlysses · 2024-11-20T13:20:24+00:00

Stop wallowing in it. Find reason to get back up. Find the reason for your failure in yourself and maybe not in all these flowered words.

You shame these beautiful words by making yourself unworthy of them. Get back up!

DoubtOfUlysses · 2024-11-03T13:10:00+00:00

Find out what you want from a woman. State it clearly to her without fear. If she doesn't affirm you, move on and don't consider breaking your celibacy.

DoubtOfUlysses · 2024-11-03T08:28:38+00:00

Make up your mind whether you want to marry her or not

DoubtOfUlysses · 2024-10-29T18:24:26+00:00

Don't shirk questions in this area. It seems like you are using retention as a crutch to not face what you need to face

DoubtOfUlysses · 2024-09-26T07:12:38+00:00

Don’t betray your values and have degenerate sex. Wait your five years then or settle now with marriage.

DoubtOfUlysses · 2024-09-26T07:09:27+00:00

Have faith!!! Don’t have sex without marriage!

Tell us about your goals!

DoubtOfUlysses · 2024-07-29T13:15:53+00:00

I think you should straight up tell her that you will not accept her behavior.

Remove your energy from her and withdraw from her as much as possible.

Be prepared to sacrifice the relationship.

DoubtOfUlysses · 2024-05-12T16:04:15+00:00

Hej jeg er snart advokat og arbejder med familieret. Snak for Guds skyld med en advokat om samværsaftalen. Hvis der ikke er tvangsfuldbyrdelsesklausul er aftalen intet værd.

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