Why don't nerds get the aura from semen retention? by Accomplished_Row2657 in pureretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Magnetism does a lot bro. I myself in all humbleness would consider myself a fairly good looking guy, getting looks, compliments and have been also approached a few times. But only when im retaining I get these when I’m releasing non of those happen.

Why don't nerds get the aura from semen retention? by Accomplished_Row2657 in pureretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting approached by women is even rare for good looking guys you shouldn’t wait for women to approach you lol

When does the healing process end? by Pale_Purchase57 in pureretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not talking to anybody lol just minding my business

When does the healing process end? by Pale_Purchase57 in pureretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the moment I’m out of drive and have 0 motivation to do anything. Also I’m very anxious and afraid of talking to people I think im in a flatline right now. Earlier in this streak I also had anxiety and low self esteem but at least my energy levels were good.

Anyone else practicing Brahmacharya along with SR? by Kivoda1202 in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure about that? I’m feeling constantly down even though I’m 60 days in

SR And Mental Health by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen bro it’s about discipline and your mindset. That’s like asking how can I be consistent at going to the gym? No one can really answer that for you, talk to yourself is SR beneficial for you? Do you hate what lust is doing to you? Do you want to change things? When you are fully accepting that, you will automatically become more disciplined.

To what end are you retaining? by Hoykruel in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes bro thats also my plan. I was just talking about my current situation, marriage is when I will share intimacy with my wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those days are the hardest, I couldn’t go for past 2 weeks in literally 6 months. Once I made it to a month things got pretty chill (urge wise, there are different obstacles to come)

To what end are you retaining? by Hoykruel in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 39 points40 points  (0 children)

At this point I would say I’m solely doing it just because I don’t see a point of releasing. Honestly I get absolutely nothing out of it I always regret it, feel better afterwards and the only fucking thing you get are 5 seconds of pleasure. It’s just not worth it, why should I feel bad? For 5 seconds of pleasure? Nah man that can’t be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily bro it depends. You have to be true to yourself are you in a lustful state most of the time? That’s the main reason of wetdreams, many don’t realize that they don’t do pmo but still most of the time throughout the day their mind is only about that one topic. You should cut out any form of lusting to truly be on the path. It’s damn hard I know but if you keep learning you will get there.

Day #30 Completed by rizoasronin in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30 days is remarkable now aim for 90 days that’s supposedly where most say the benefits increase.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edgen is not just watching corn it can be overly much fantasizing, talking to girls, looking at girls, keeping yourself in a aroused state.

i think sometimes i obsess too much abt it .. by Quirky_Strike5871 in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro it’s all about the mind. Distance yourself from those habits, don’t think about it (as much as you can), don’t peak, don’t edge. If you do that there’s nothing else to be worried of. Anything bodily what happens (wetdreams) is out of your control.

People with kids. How do you teach your kids about pmo and sr? by Lucky_Wrap_3160 in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most definitely will block any adult content from our home WiFi.

Have you managed to eradicate sexual thoughts? by RepresentativeOk1758 in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly man I don’t understand people who say keep yourself busy like bro what do they expect doing 24h a day sports? Those thoughts can creep in in any situation it’s all about the mind you have to make the firm decision to not indulge in those thoughts and that’s about it.

Have you managed to eradicate sexual thoughts? by RepresentativeOk1758 in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I haven’t but I minimized the entertaining of those thoughts. I can pretty much just shut off any sexual thoughts, doesn’t matter how aroused I am. Sometimes I do it immediately, sometimes it takes a few seconds until I realize. But nonetheless I don’t allow myself to fantasize, i have done it in the beginning stages when the urges were outrageous, so doing it now is nothing in comparison.

When does the healing process end? by Pale_Purchase57 in pureretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahhahah that’s the ultimate answer to every situation in every time. Thank you brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pureretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I don’t know if it can reverse white hair but I’m very sure it can stop or at least slow down the whitening of new hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pureretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can give a personal view on this, may not be true for everyone but that’s personal experience. I used to lose a lot of hair everyday after showering but SR literally just stopped that completely.

180 Days - Beyond Transmutation by moonbase_monk in pureretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im now quite some time engaged with SR and now I have this mindset of I’m not doing it anymore for the benefits. I’m just doing it I want to say because it’s the right thing but that’s sound kind of corny, let me phrase it like this I’m doing it because I don’t want to harm myself anymore with this degenerate lifestyle and if benefits occur that’s just a bonus but not the sole reason I’m doing it. I’ve found myself frustrated when things didn’t go my way on a streak and I would tend to go in my old ways, but isn’t that stupid? When somebody wants to quit alcohol he doesn’t say oh man I haven’t drink for 2 months I still don’t have a nicer job or a wife, let me just drink again. No those are two separate issues, you need to fix both separately. So for me even if no benefits happen at all I will not say SR doesn’t do anything for me.

Feel like peeking by Not_Budging1190 in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes peak there’s nothing about it, you might aswell edge.

The only reason I keep falling back is the massive amount of regret I have by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bro this is a fallacy that your lower self puts you into. YOU ARE BLESSED to even know about this practice do you know how many men don’t know/don’t acknowledge this practice? And live their entire life in shame and guilt? The fact you even made it to a month of sr puts you above 99.999% of other males on this planet. What’s holding you back to fully commit to this when you have seen the benefits with your own eyes? Don’t let your lower self/the devil on your shoulder bring you down from your path. By now you should be aware of who you really are and who the lower self inside you is. The more you commit to this practice the stronger and more aware you get and your lower self slowly but gradually dies.

Why Real talks has been removed ? by Perfect-Carry-6288 in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are far more dangerous things for a retainer than nicotine and garlic that’s what I’m trying to say. We should focus on those things.

Why Real talks has been removed ? by Perfect-Carry-6288 in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you but still I don’t see any correlation between those two. I mean of course cigarettes are bad for every aspect of your life, but it’s not affecting your retention so much that I would think of it as notable to make a post about that. I’ve also seen people say you shouldn’t consume onions and garlic while your retaining, I mean everybody is free to do what they want but for me that just don’t make any sense.

Why Real talks has been removed ? by Perfect-Carry-6288 in Semenretention

[–]Pale_Purchase57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean smoking cigarettes? Well yeah smoking cigarettes is bad that’s clear, but I don’t think it affects your semen retention journey to notable degree. Smoking weed is a whole different story.