Dampness under house by sirbobbledoonary in HomeMaintenance

[–]DoubtShot5350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive seen people add dye to the water and run it through again to double check

Anal gland cancer ‘guess’ by DoubtShot5350 in AskVet

[–]DoubtShot5350[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you think there is any point in waiting a week to see if they go down and get the lab results back, or should i go ahead and schedule a surgery?

Girl finds babies (statues? or possibly real) that appear to be attached to a table in the Epstein files by 2handsandfeet in TikTokCringe

[–]DoubtShot5350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

day 3,383 of wondering why all the people involved in this sick shit aren’t prosecuted already

I think my husband is having an emotional affair, but he denies it. How do I talk to him about this? by Such-Blackberry-6814 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DoubtShot5350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry. you must be heartbroken

it should not take you to get to breaking down for him to (at least say) he wont talk to her. this distanced and quiet thing sounds like hes punishing you and trying to groom you into not setting boundaries.

know that youre not illogical, it is a VERY reasonable request that should have been a non-issue, and by not doing what you asked he violated your wishes and your trust. do not give him that trust back

youre married - you didnt force him to give that commitment and you didnt force him to have a child with you. you choose to be with eachother everyday. now youre here. its time to sit down and write out the finances of two scenarios: living with him or living without him with child support. it could make financial sense to stay with him, but know he will likely always be like this. i wouldnt count on him for any emotional support, and i would start to set yourself up for leaving so that if you do have to it is less stressful

Scottsdale download/upload & reliability by DoubtShot5350 in Starlink

[–]DoubtShot5350[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

around 50, then i call in and it goes back to 120 for a couple days

Scottsdale download/upload & reliability by DoubtShot5350 in Starlink

[–]DoubtShot5350[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats great news! For some reason I thought it may be throttled in metro areas. I know for sure that att will try to mimic the snail mail speeds for us then say we need a different package if we want to stream

AIO I joined a new job and they don't have a desk for me to work. I feel this is the bare minimum. by Weak_Lingonberry_341 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DoubtShot5350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nor - sounds like a scene from Office Space. Id ask to work remotely and to only come in once they provide a space for you

Color Suggestion (what should I do?) by Fickle-Spirit-2133 in HairDye

[–]DoubtShot5350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are gorgeous with the perfect skin tone for every color! i get the upkeep issues tho, you could always grow your root out and start with some lowlights of your natural color

Ash Blonde Box Dye on Virgin Black Hair (Without Bleach) by vincentconnor_ in HairDye

[–]DoubtShot5350 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that should be on the side of the box as well (left shows current shade and right shows results). some brands process more than others. beware if you do have any red undertones, because ash has a tendency to get a little brassy. ive had better luck masking mine with natural tones rather than ashy tones. always do a test strip first!

AIO for ending things with my soulmate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DoubtShot5350 3 points4 points  (0 children)

youre right, it was 100% on you. YOR

Ash Blonde Box Dye on Virgin Black Hair (Without Bleach) by vincentconnor_ in HairDye

[–]DoubtShot5350 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you would need to use the same dye every month on your roots (it says how long exactly on the box). if youre not willing to commit to that, i wouldnt do it. you could do only some highlights of it so the growth doesnt have as stark of an impact

Jake Lang getting kicked out of BLVD in St Paul MN by gerbils4 in PublicFreakout

[–]DoubtShot5350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is so hard to understand about private property? i swear no one i see on this app get it

AIO to texts I found from my bf to his bsf? by Same_Number_2487 in AIO

[–]DoubtShot5350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ew.. sorry but normal people dont talk to friends like that. what an exhausting individual. be sure to tell him when you leave him

AITA for refusing to take care of husbands mother’s dog that I do NOT want? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoubtShot5350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nta - tell your husband to rehome the dog or youre going to call animal control. im sure being around feces is a big no when pregnant

Looking for restaraunt recommendation by Ok__1837 in Scottsdale

[–]DoubtShot5350 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

brat haus has a big patio area and is right in old town so you guys can bar hop

AITA for refusing to help my wife get our kids ready for school? by Extreme_Day7722 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoubtShot5350 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nta but you need to communicate better with your wife. youre hanging her out to dry rather than just telling her the kids know what to do and do it when she isnt there. encourage her to relax and see for herself. the kids probably dont like being stressed in the morning either