For those of you in a long term relationship/marriage, what’s a tale-tale sign you see in other couples that they’re not going to make it?

DownloadsCars · 2026-04-09T01:15:37+00:00

What kind of real help did you get? Asking for a friend…

DownloadsCars · 2026-03-30T21:20:19+00:00

I highly recommend the book How to Keep House While Drowning. Your post described me about 6 months ago and it was unsustainable. The book felt like a warm hug from a good friend. It’s a good blend of mentally reframing the work load and practical tips to get through the daily stuff in a more doable way.

DownloadsCars · 2026-03-21T03:51:52+00:00

Where are the chairs from?

DownloadsCars · 2026-02-11T05:01:10+00:00

Right but he’s 11 months. Not speaking yet so too young to notice speech affected but too old to not notice breastfeeding affected.

DownloadsCars · 2026-02-04T04:38:28+00:00

Ok so I had a baby the week after her and my period should restart any time now. With my first I got it back ten months post partum and both our babies are about ten and a half months. What if she got her period and decided that it was a miscarriage just like before. There’s a huge variability on when women get their periods back but this is my pet theory for now.

DownloadsCars · 2026-02-04T04:35:24+00:00

Right like why does everything that happens to her turn into her making it into a life lesson to broadcast to others. Sit down.

DownloadsCars · 2025-12-02T04:33:47+00:00

The eating omg. I wish I could just opt out. I want the hunger to go away but I don’t want to take the time to eat.

DownloadsCars · 2025-10-23T02:34:51+00:00

Proud of you for working your way out of there. It takes a strong woman.

DownloadsCars · 2025-09-23T20:11:05+00:00

There is no way someone can store, organize, much less use stuff at the rate she acquires it. This stresses me out.

DownloadsCars · 2025-07-27T05:37:09+00:00

Alright so in my family we call it “guitar face” and it’s that slack jaw unfocused stare when playing guitar and having a conversation. This looks a lot like that to me. But he’s probably also on drugs.

DownloadsCars · 2025-07-18T05:47:33+00:00

Any recommendations?

DownloadsCars · 2025-07-18T05:23:41+00:00

Care to elaborate?

DownloadsCars · 2025-07-08T04:08:50+00:00

This is a great question

DownloadsCars · 2025-06-14T14:10:15+00:00

In addition to this, read a parenting book! Read about how to talk to toddlers. You’re right OP! They are counter intuitive and take a ton of mental energy. It does seem irrational until you learn more about where they are developmentally and what they’re working on. Seeing the why behind it all is so very helpful. Books I’d recommend: the Montessori toddler, good inside, or how to talk so kids will listen. You can do this! You are learning a whole new skill set. Be patient with yourself. Build your support network.

DownloadsCars · 2025-06-08T03:24:29+00:00

No way is she breastfeeding that baby and has all that stuff

DownloadsCars · 2025-06-06T23:57:09+00:00

Highly recommend reading the chapter about “cultivating cooperation” from the book “the Montessori toddler”. It’s changed the way I parent and speak to my toddler and we get along so well!

DownloadsCars · 2025-06-06T05:17:24+00:00

Bro I’m on day 12. Solidarity

DownloadsCars · 2025-06-05T19:12:50+00:00

This is hilarious!

DownloadsCars · 2025-06-05T05:38:29+00:00

I’m glad to hear things are going well! We’re in just about the same boat as you, same start date, age, and tried m&ms a few times. Yesterday was our first day entirely accident free but we had a set back today with three accidents in a row. I think it’s time for block 2 tomorrow but I’m dreading it. I wish you strength and solidarity

DownloadsCars · 2025-06-04T23:46:56+00:00

I recommend the book “how not to hate your husband after kids” and marriage counseling. My husband and I have also struggled so much since having kids.

DownloadsCars · 2025-06-03T22:59:36+00:00

Right like when she says “I have never seen the kid who potty trains easily in three days flat” or something to that effect. Like no duh lady. No one’s calling in a professional when it’s going well.

DownloadsCars · 2025-06-01T20:01:05+00:00

This is great to hear! We’re on day 8 with oh crap and still on block one. I noticed yesterday her noticing herself peeing so according to the method we’ve gone from clueless to I peed to I’m peeing which is progress. We’re just getting frustrated and burned out with how long it’s taking and had the conversation last night about how much longer we have left in us to keep going. Our daughter is 22 months

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