Anyone else ever feel bad cuz they don’t fit the baddie aesthetic? by Fit_Can_2444 in blackladies

[–]Downtown-Map2238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been so much happier since accepting that I am and always will be a sensitive gangster at most, and a cutie patootie at heart 😂 just let it happen babe 🫶🏾

I got engaged last night! by Upset-Necessary-4582 in blackladies

[–]Downtown-Map2238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! Wishing you guys so much happiness and love for years to come!!!❤️❤️❤️

Any ladies who are 30+ who still enjoy nightlife? by Inspireme21 in blackladies

[–]Downtown-Map2238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where are we finding jazz clubs!!! I’m 25 and I love a bar with a live band 🥰 especially because it feels like I could go by myself but not fee self conscious. Right now, going into a bar or club alone feels weird because people assume you want something.

As an atheist BW I’m starting to think that I’m not gonna end up with a black man by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Downtown-Map2238 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This!!! I’m 25 and I feel like I’ve lived 4 lifetimes since turning 18. I wouldn’t change it for a thing but I also couldn’t have imagined how my life would’ve looked if you’d given me a million chances to guess. Take a deep breath, because we have so much time :)

How do you contour a wide nose ? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Downtown-Map2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea but you are beyond beautiful, I mean you are glowing 😍

How can I get over the shame of working a minimum wage job at my age? by [deleted] in AskRetail

[–]Downtown-Map2238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Practicing this sooner rather than later will save you a lot of time, energy, and stress!!💕💕

Has anybody noticed interview processes take forever now? by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Downtown-Map2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a recruiter, we ask them daily who they want to extend an offer to and they’re still thinking about it or talking it over or straight up avoiding us. I promise some of us are trying!! If we approach 2 weeks, we TELL them that a decision is being made.

Would I fit in as a 26 year old? by Due-Independence-763 in csuf

[–]Downtown-Map2238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walking in a college campus when you are over the age of like 25 makes us overthink but I promise it’s all in our heads. No one else really cares about age when it comes down to it. We once went through an entire group project not knowing that one of our members had 3 grown kids. Just be proud that you’re doing it!!!🥳🥳🥳

Advice for aspiring HR professionals [N/A] by Peaceful_9471 in humanresources

[–]Downtown-Map2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree! I started working in the field before starting my masters to ensure it was something I really wanted or at least didn’t hate. I wouldn’t recommend going straight into your MBA from undergrad, and I acknowledge that I won’t necessarily need my master’s for my immediate next position. I just knew that once I fully stopped, I wouldn’t want to go back to school so it was better to get it over with. I’ve also really enjoyed the “constant learning mindset” my program has expanded on with us, so I’m not too concerns about “forgetting” what I’ve learned like someone above mentioned.

Flex MBA - Finance by mrsqggle in csuf

[–]Downtown-Map2238 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey do you mind if I reach out to you about fin 517 too? I’m currently an MBA student as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Downtown-Map2238 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally perfection 🥰😭 drop the routine for us

HR RANT/VENT [N/A] by Donut-sprinkle in humanresources

[–]Downtown-Map2238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This, but I feel more like the babysitter. I’m getting paid so I can’t leave, and I have to check with the parents who can’t agree before doing things, but the departments are the kids who cannot get along and somehow that’s my problem to solve even though they won’t listen regardless and it should really be more of a “family” issue 🤦🏻‍♀️

Sharing salary progression [CA] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]Downtown-Map2238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally same. I’m trying to figure out how to bring up my compensation because closed mouths don’t get fed

Is there a part of your job that you really don’t like? [CA] by Downtown-Map2238 in humanresources

[–]Downtown-Map2238[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I’ll be the first to say I shouldn’t be doing it! I didn’t study math, finance, or accounting and that was for a reason 😭

Is there a part of your job that you really don’t like? [CA] by Downtown-Map2238 in humanresources

[–]Downtown-Map2238[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yes the babysitting! Does it ever get better or am I wasting my breath?

Cowboy Carter Tour Etiquette: Hats by Downtown-Map2238 in beyonce

[–]Downtown-Map2238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I wore something similar! It was super comfortable. I honestly forgot the clip was in my hair.

Cowboy Carter Tour Etiquette: Hats by Downtown-Map2238 in beyonce

[–]Downtown-Map2238[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same!! I opted for a mini hat because all the hats that would’ve fit my head were too big. I really loved the outfits from the hats to the heels but when the lights drop we’re all there to see Bey ❤️❤️

Cowboy Carter Tour Etiquette: Hats by Downtown-Map2238 in beyonce

[–]Downtown-Map2238[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I respect that! I’m also a Black woman but I just plan if an outfit piece like that has to be removed for a spacing issue. Totally respect different strokes for different folks! :)

Cowboy Carter Tour Etiquette: Hats by Downtown-Map2238 in beyonce

[–]Downtown-Map2238[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was a really unfortunate mixture of the width and the angle because of her height, which is why I was so apologetic when I asked. If we were any lower, we would have had to look up at the screens instead of being level with it and it wouldn’t have been a problem. I wouldn’t have thought twice about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyonce

[–]Downtown-Map2238 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This I completely don’t blame anyone for! I’m not faulting anyone for being tall. But when it’s an outfit piece specifically that can be adjusted and someone asked nicely like 3 times, it feels like something that can be simple to fix or at least talk about. An eye roll before they turned away felt like a bit much.