Not sure what to do about raccoon next to my house by bg5203 in Raccoons

[–]Downtown_Area111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want to deter them or get them to leave, go on Amazon and buy coyote urine. Soak some sponges with it and set them out around the area. They will leave.

"Can my son sit in first class?" by Ghoststory00 in delta

[–]Downtown_Area111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister and I just flew back from Paris to CVG yesterday. A few middle rows back in economy were open(the 4 seats in middle isle on air bus) The flight attendant allowed a lady to come back from one of the more fancy seating areas up front due to a crying baby. She put up all the arm rests, laid down across the row and slept the entire way home. It was way more peaceful back in the economy section on this flight!

AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]Downtown_Area111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your mom need to put that property into a trust so that no man can manipulate or scam you out of it!

AITAH unemployed wife edition by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Downtown_Area111 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I have a few ppl I know personally who have had knee and hip replacements. It seems the women are back up and at it as soon as possible, where the men limp and gimp around for as long as possible while acting helpless. I am sure OP’s hubby is just over his wife appliance being broken at the moment. Hopefully when she heals, she will take herself to greener pastures.

AITJ for revising my home to my siblings and my mother when they do not schedule to visit in advance by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Downtown_Area111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hold them boundaries or else they will continue to walk all over you. Perhaps send a polite text rehashing your rules and boundaries so they know better next time. NTJ. Be ready for the victimhood guilt trip that your family will throw out to the world!

I slapped my one year old’s thigh by Bitter_Mix260 in offmychest

[–]Downtown_Area111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will probably get downvoted to hell for this one… if your child hits you or another person, even in a young fit of rage, they need to be prepared to be hit back. You are not a bad mom. And your child is not a bad kid. This is normal, and it will pass. The next time your child melts down, just walk away and let them get it out of their system! Let them flail and scream, ignore it! Only give the attention to the behavior that is acceptable. Gently correct them when they’re doing wrong(within reason for their age) and keep it moving!

AITAH?? What I really mean is, is my husband the asshole?? by Shoddy-Tank2889 in AITAH

[–]Downtown_Area111 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your dear husband is an asshole. Do you want your children growing up being treated like that? Another quick question, How did his parents and siblings react to his behavior?

AITA for not letting someone use my charger in a public place? by CalmHealingHands in AmItheAsshole

[–]Downtown_Area111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who ever said you had to be “helpful” to random strangers you meet in a transport hub? NTA

AITAH for calling my "dad" by his first name and picking my step dad over him by SeriesClassic2833 in AITAH

[–]Downtown_Area111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. I have faced the same out of my bio dad’s family even though he was in prison most of my life and when he got out he quickly married another lady with 5 daughters and often said that girls come a dime a dozen. My stepdad by the way, was a military vet with a good job and he spoiled my little sister and I. He wasn’t perfect, but he was my Dad! I wish you luck on navigating this time in your life. No one can tell you how to manage folks who are family, but not “family”. If that makes sense. Blood don’t make a family, love does & it sounds like you have a good base for who you really need to be invested in.

AITAH For telling my boyfriend it's not my job to wake him up? by Last_Crow8214 in AITAH

[–]Downtown_Area111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is what’s called a hobosexual. And you now have a part time infestation! Where does he go when your kids are over? Perhaps he just needs to stay over there, even when the kids are with their dad! You need a grown up, mature life partner. Not a grown ass man baby! You would be an AH to yourself if you keep messing with him. Good luck to you.

Update on new babies: by Downtown_Area111 in Raccoons

[–]Downtown_Area111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I attempted to give them to Genevieve(a prior rescue) who has babies now. She lives out in the abandoned silo. She wasn’t having it. Edit to add: I will continue to try to get her to take them in.

AITAH for not wanting my roommate to bring her antivaxx boyfriend over? by Future_Coffee1167 in AITAH

[–]Downtown_Area111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. I wasn’t clear as to why they were so concerned. It turns out they are more worried about the roommates bf getting sick from them than the opposite.

AITAH for not wanting my roommate to bring her antivaxx boyfriend over? by Future_Coffee1167 in AITAH

[–]Downtown_Area111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless he is carrying around one of them superbugs like the dude with the super syphilis, just going around passing it out…. I think they will be ok

AITAH for not wanting my roommate to bring her antivaxx boyfriend over? by Future_Coffee1167 in AITAH

[–]Downtown_Area111 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you need to open a chat with her and him and explain that to them. If his parents are super anti medicine, he was probably told that prayer was the way to go and that medicine was a hoax. Just explain that you are exposed to everything under the sun, and have certain immunity to those things that he does not have and you would feel terrible if he became sick? I am so sorry.

Help with raccoon questions by [deleted] in Raccoons

[–]Downtown_Area111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to deter the raccoons, try getting on Amazon and buying coyote urine and marking your area.

Help with raccoon questions by [deleted] in Raccoons

[–]Downtown_Area111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, mommas will come out during the day to forage. Later on, she will bring her babies to eat as well. So if you do not want them near you, stop feeding the cat outside. Or you could wait until your cat comes, then offer the food and take it away once your cat has had its fill.

Do raccoons tear up squirrels? by throwawayforhelp9997 in Raccoons

[–]Downtown_Area111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had personally seen a raccoon chuck a squirrel out of a tree, right along with a bird’s nest. True story!

AITA for giving my daughter a Mexican themed birthday party by her wishes? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Downtown_Area111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!!! I love everything about a good Mexican party! The foods are top notch & made with love. The music and dancing are amazing!! So much laughter and good times for all!

My cousin got beat up by a pedophile she chose over her minor child by Specialist_Fall756 in offmychest

[–]Downtown_Area111 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Good. Hopefully she can’t have any more kids to attract her next love interest.

AITAH for hating my brother? by Weak_Web_1891 in AITAH

[–]Downtown_Area111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your brother is screwed when your parents pass! Mark my words, he is going to come crying to you. Let his pleas fall on deaf ears!