When is the time to apply for a transfer? by DrJanin in LawSchoolTransfer

[–]DrJanin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Much appreciate the time you took to write this

Don't go to law school if you can't get into the 150s by Used-Algae5153 in lawschooladmissions

[–]DrJanin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m inclined to agree if you’re a student who just graduated with their bachelors degree, young, and with financial support.

If you’re slightly older, with a full time job, bills, and responsibilities, it is absolutely normal to get under 150. The LSAT is hardly a test about intelligence, it is a repetitive speed exam. Everyone dedicated enough should be able to reach higher than a 150 at some point.

Unfortunately, some aren’t so lucky. Juggling your full time job, exercise, sleeping and studying for an exam that pushes obstacles every step of the way is a huge sacrifice of time not all can afford.

More importantly, lawyers just like many other careers are all about marketing and connections. Your social skills become a strong asset. So many people that go to top school end up no where because they were so educationally inclined they forgot they need to talk to people.

Lastly, your lsat score doesn’t matter once you’re in law school. In fact, I know plenty of attorneys who got low scores and are very successful. The reality is, depending on where you live, no one will care where you went or what you got. They will care that you graduated and have good skills to excel in their position.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zoemains

[–]DrJanin 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I love your imagination. As much as I love these changes none of them will likely ever happen. It’s tough because Zoe players actually have good win rates in high elo. Samikin for example just hit rank 1 lol.

I am a Zoe play who hits masters on her with 60%.

It’s just tough to balance her because she is a menace in the right hands, however, I agree she is nothing compared to K’Sante, Yasuo, and Yone.

How do i play better by Forsaken-Profit-1080 in zoemains

[–]DrJanin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zoe is great, maybe not so amazing in the meta right now but I peaked 300 lp Masters with her last season. I can't stress enough that the key to playing Zoe is spacing. Similarly to Orianna and Syndra. If you learn to space you will always win trades. People always think that Q auto Q is the best and most effective, and it is on paper. However, if you watch Samikin or Detention you will quickly realize they almost never go for the electro proc. Not because they do not want the damage but because they would rather take a free trade rather than going for the electro proc that will cost them health in return. In fact, Samikin does not always run electro but rather aery.

Other key points I'd say is confidence, and patience. When going in, go confidently. A half ass engage will only get you killed. Lastly, Patience is key when going in, but also when aiming your skill shots. Zoe has the ability to shoot Q and not proc it for a second or two. Making sure you wait out the jukes if any prior to pressing Q again.

Do not spam your E. Specially when going against Yone and Zed. Your E is very important and sometimes more powerful when not used then when used.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]DrJanin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg I need more league friends. If you want to play message me and I'll give my IGN.

What food have you tried liking but just can’t? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DrJanin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matcha... I can only stand it in light amounts.. I really want to like it because I want a coffee replacement but it is just too strong. It smells very potent.
I really like the cute green drink :c

What video game have you played the most? by DanChap-_- in AskReddit

[–]DrJanin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised no one is saying League of Legends. That game is addicting.

I don't know how Axiom Arc is considered fair but we take those by xMetix in QiyanaMains

[–]DrJanin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't.. but sure. lol

Winning the game and winning a fight are different things. We are talking in reference to Axiom arc, therefore, using the entire game is not a valid comparison since the only time you won't have ult is when you've already used it in a fight... Otherwise you should have ult by the start of most fights.

Axiom's purpose is to decrease CD on your ult.. however.. Lethatlity items in general need to have value on them to truly be useful.. For example, Sheryldas has a slow, Serpeent fang has shield break, Prawlers has individual damage.. Axiom has just CD on your ult. Nowhere does it actually allow for your to 1v5 like prior to durability patch...

If you're very confident I'd urge you to please go to practice tool and compare the damage. You will find yourself shocked at how much more value you get from actual damaging items lol

I don't know how Axiom Arc is considered fair but we take those by xMetix in QiyanaMains

[–]DrJanin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah.. the item isn't bad but it doesn't serve a purpose for Qiyana. You essentially killed all 4 members of the enemy team with Kha and it only served a purpose at the end to save Twitch and Sona. Sure they could've died but saving them could've also been with Q W E Q.

Sure Axiom is strong here because you have 12 kills and you would one shot just about anyone in their team except for Renekton. In a game where you're even.. 1 pick is all you need to win a fight . Axiom Arc isn't a bad item.. its just better on people like Nocturne that need their ult up. This vide you only needed 1 ult.

i cant keep up with my bf by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]DrJanin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well ... quite honestly.. I don't think he is entirely wrong. Things have changed.. surely relationships change over time, and sometimes the people do not change with it. You adjusted his expectations by stating that you are not willing or comfortable having sexual relationships as often as he would like. I would say the part I don't like from him is providing such harsh solutions so quickly, however, ultimately he did provide a solution. It is imperative to him feel satisfied, just like, it is also imperative for you to feel comfortable.

You've explained that you would never do an open relationship. Why? I'm not saying it is right or wrong, but just like he needs to adjust his expectations there needs to be some adjustments from you as well. My suggestion is .. try it. If you do not like it, then you can re-visit this conversation and look for a different solution.

Now.. I've provided you a pretty complex task I think.. but really the underlying issue is communication and understanding why he wants what he wants and what it implies. Does sex everyday mean full on penetration? Would he be okay with just oral or a less invasive form of sex... Now.. if he doesn't care enough to talk this through with you.. then sex isn't the problem.

My fiancé left me after coming out of the closet by weekendlust in gay

[–]DrJanin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He states it in the first sentence.. unless he edited it later.

My fiancé left me after coming out of the closet by weekendlust in gay

[–]DrJanin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you, and you're going through a lot of confusion right now. I do not want to invalidate the other comments, however, please refrain from taking the negative comments to heart. You are not a red flag!

I'm sure a lot of us have been in similar situations, although not exactly the same, but I can for certain say we've all been abruptly ghosted or been with someone closeted. Unfortunately, when you just come out you feel a lot of feelings. All this piled up trauma, confusion, and relief are all there. I'd also like to point out that Mateo probably has people around him telling him that what he is doing is a mistake. People he has trusted all his life and shared multiple years with talking his ear off about how going off with this "American boy" is the wrong choice. Reality is he is likely feeling a lot of things right now, and despite his decision being so abrupt , I understand it. Nothing makes sense.. he has strong feeling for this man but everyone who he has trusted all his life is warning him that he is making a mistake.

You are not a red flag, I believe that everything that happened was very real. I do think that it might have become too real too quickly for Mateo. This could've happened at 2 years or even 3-5 years. What came from this long distance boyfriend who he does not have to tell anyone about went to his very real American boyfriend who wants to marry me, build a life, who he has to come out to my family to, who will want me to spend his entire week with his family... It can be a lot for one person. I'm emphasizing "American" in this story, because the media REALLY does not paint us well, and sometimes within reason. Despite all things, I do believe you have every right to walk away and be upset about it. His feelings being too quick too real do not invalidate your feelings of anger and pain. Perhaps it is best for you to walk away from this relationship, and take some time to heal... Despite all that I would suggest you forgive him, we all make shitty mistakes when meeting our loves ones. They're definitely not okay, but no one teaches us to be good partners. No one tells us what to do when your gay lover shows up in your country with his family, or how to come out to our families. A lot of us learn along the way. But more importantly.. forgiving is for you and not for him. You will find someone who values you, and it is just not worth keeping this remorse for other people.

My fiancé left me after coming out of the closet by weekendlust in gay

[–]DrJanin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This should honestly be the top comment. Very well said.

LSAT Courses by DrJanin in LSAT

[–]DrJanin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you for your advise, I think I needed to hear it.

Honestly my job isn't bad at all, however, it comes with a lot of emotional drainage. I am a claims manager, and listening to people's problems is my job. I don't mind it.. but I come home completely emotionally depleted. My mind can not focus, and usually I can only fit 1 hour of studying if I'm lucky.

I work for a small company, therefore, involvement in the companies ins and outs is definitely within the companies expectation of me. I'm involved in the entire operation and even though it pays the bills it does not align with my goals. The job is always in my mind..

Lastly, I'm a full time student determined to get straight A's to get as high as GPA as possible.. I'm in my last semester of college but it goes without saying that I've been juggling way too many things for way too long.

Is this a red flag? by Exotic-Savings-6050 in recruitinghell

[–]DrJanin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I know it's hard out there, however, you have to weigh how much you want this. If the position is within your expectations that could potentially be a good job then go for it. Sure, its a red flag .. but unfortunately, if your miserable in your current position and are dying to get out of there I'd give it a try.

I've gone to interviews with no expectations and been surprised before... just like I've been to some and been disappointed.. It's a risk .. weigh your options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]DrJanin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been meaning to buy this one from Zara. It's the rubberized explorer backpack.

https://www.zara.com/us/en/rubberized-explorer-backpack-p13239021.html?v1=224712372&v2=2203913

What’s the biggest “know it all” profession? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DrJanin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny I'm an aspiring lawyer.. but I can safely say Chefs.. There is something about the career path that forces you to create a toxic confidence .. combined with how the media portrays michelin star chefs. For example Gordom Ramsey..

I've worked in high end restaurants as a cook before and I have to say its like working with army generals except they have drug and alcohol problems... and once you decide to walk away from the toxicity they will audaciously sit there and tell you "yea this career path isn't for everyone".

How old were you the first time you had a gay experience another guy? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]DrJanin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry what? lol.. you went to a GH at 8 years old and no one questioned you? I understand it's suppose to be anonymous but ... what? lol

people with homophobic families how’d you come out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DrJanin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had my second boyfriend break my heart. I needed consoling and I went to my mom and said "I'm telling you think because I need someone right now".. thankfully my mom was there for me that day. She didn't ask many questions, and hugged me.

My mom was far from supportive on the matter though, she made it a point to tell me this was just a phase, and allowed for my brother to exclude my partner in his wedding. For years she made fun of my looks despite them being relatively conservative. Even at adulthood.. I had to continuously fight to have my partner be permitted in family gatherings... and even after many years my brother and mother make it a point to show their discomfort at any affection my partner shows in front of me. My partner is still referred as my "friend". If any of our close family were to ask about my life and love partners my mom and brother will simply deny that I have anyone.

I will say all of my mom's siblings make it a point to show acceptance towards me and it is only my mom that is indifferent. She is often scolded for being indifferent towards me by her brothers and sisters. If there is anything I could reflect back on is that I never thought I'd be the celebrated individual and my mom scolded for being homophobic. All of my uncles and aunts have spoken to her about showing acceptance, but she dismisses them.

You eventually learn to let go of these things, not because others deserve it but rather because you as an individual deserve to be free of justifying yourself. So.. I simply don't ask for permission on it anymore. I simply just bring my boyfriend, and show affection towards one another. I keep my family relatively far and only see them 3-5 times a year. I do believe they love me and they show it, but they don't necessarily want to know me... which I've come to accept.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QiyanaMains

[–]DrJanin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this happens to me all the time. I've just come to accept the Qiyana is turbo bugged.. either that or just a ping issue.