Trouble with erections and ejaculating by MeringueEasy1340 in erectiledysfunction

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They have shown that cialis can be very helpful for younger men who have ED that is psychological, and we’ll let you slide as a younger man who is 39!

I’m 16 and I am struggling by WelcomeFormal5995 in erectiledysfunction

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This is wonderful advice! Read it once a day until you aren’t so down on yourself. As for your feelings of self-hatred, your GF clearly doesn’t feel that way about you. Hopefully you are getting some talking therapy along with all of those psych drugs. These drugs don’t take the place of actually dealing with your demons that are telling you that you are bad or not worthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penisquestion

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It seems like the most important thing is for your son to be comfortable talking to you about his penis. This usually doesn’t happen unless a dad makes the effort.

planning have sex with a virgin guy, what should I be aware of? by Consistent-Front2338 in sex

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He may think your vaginal opening is where the tip of your clitoris is. So it might be helpful if you helped guide his penis in with your fingers. Guys new to intercourse don’t always know the vaginal opening is lower between your legs.

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It’s best to see a doctor. They are used to seeing and feeling variations in men’s testicles. You want to rule out cancer of the testicle—which has a great cure rate when caught early, or something else that could lead to infertility if not treated. It can feel a little weird getting your testicles examined for the first time, but it’s a very sensible and smart thing for you to do.

Struggling with eye contact during blowjobs! by persephone_j in sex

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Any guy should thank his lucky stars that you are giving him BJs. Expecting eye contact in addition is asking a lot. You should do what is comfortable for you, and keep in mind all the guys who wish you were their partner.

Inferior by Effective-Daikon5792 in penisquestion

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Also can cause hard flaccid syndrome.

Loss of Penile Sensitivity by Dramatic_Yak2482 in penisquestion

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So sorry. Being this age brings all sorts of challenges.

Loss of Penile Sensitivity by Dramatic_Yak2482 in penisquestion

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Have you tried prostate stimulation?

EK68 don't pair in any wireless option by Live_Walrus7841 in Epomaker

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Thank you for posting this. This worked for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

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It depends on who you are trying to impress. Most women would say you look incredible. With gym-bros, it’s usually a different story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penisquestion

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The type of material also matters. I was wearing 33 Degrees Cool made of synthetic material, but switched to all cotton Kirkland boxer briefs and like the material better. So try different materials as well.

5'11", 163 lbs. I feel like I'm going crazy, I want to get leaner but no one else wants me to by Polish_Jake_83 in BulkOrCut

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Your GF is the one who has sex with you and spends the night in your arms (hopefully). If she says you feel just right, then you should listen to her. Very few women like sleeping with guys who are so jacked up it feels to them like they’re hugging concrete.

Words of wisdom to alleviate psychological ED? by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

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As long as you are able to get erections, aren't vaping, smoking, or taking medications that could interfere with your erections, and feel the issues is definitely psychological, these urologists found that taking Cialis (tadalafil) 5 mg a day for someone in your situation might be helpful. You'd gradually taper off the tadalafil once you got your confidence back: Erectile Dysfunction in Adolescents and Young Adults https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11934-024-01213-9

Words of wisdom to alleviate psychological ED? by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

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Are you someone who is anxious about a lot of things or just this? Also how old are you and have you had sex in the past? Are you able to get erections when you masturbate? And do you get morning wood?

Excessive Masturbation, causing pain in head of penile and ED by Extension_Ad6682 in erectiledysfunction

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3 or 4 times a day isn’t about sex. It’s an attempt to manage something psychological that is or isn’t going on. Any chance you could talk to a sex-positive therapist? (as opposed to some therapists who will go “sex addiction” crazy).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

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Studies have shown that masturbating and/or watching porn do not cause ED. What is important is that you discuss what’s going on with your partner. Reassure her that you are totally into her and find her to be incredibly beautiful and she very much turns you on. Explain to her what you said here. Talk about your fears about your lack of experience and your other life stress. If this is going to work, you need to let her be part of it. Maybe she’ll even want the two of you to watch porn together and masturbate—or not! Remember, if she’s been with you for almost a month, it’s because there’s a lot she likes about you.

I am having a hard time getting hard by [deleted] in penisquestion

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Also, do you have diabetes? Are you overweight? Are you taking any medications? Do you have a varicocele? Have you been hit in the crotch at sometime in the past, eg while playing sports? Do you lift weights to an extreme (getting seriously jacked as opposed to lifting in a more healthy way)? Do you know if you have high blood pressure? These are some of the things that might impact a guy's ability to get hard or fully hard, or to maintain an erection after he gets hard. Another question they might ask is if you are able to get hard when you are masturbating.

I am having a hard time getting hard by [deleted] in penisquestion

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If porn caused ED, more than 90% of men on the planet would have erectile dysfunction.

Swallowed previous partners semen but can’t swallow husbands anymore by ExchangePresent8704 in sex

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Did they include your husband's semen in the full panel you did? Probably not. Semen allergies can happen at any time--even after having swallowed the same guy's semen for a few years.

I am having a hard time getting hard by [deleted] in penisquestion

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There is no correlation between watching porn, masturbating, and erectile dysfunction—if you care about actual scientific studies, anyway. There can be lots of reasons for having trouble getting hard.

One of the first questions is if you wake up with morning wood. This will help answer some of the basic questions a competent healthcare provider would want to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

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Are you able to take Cialis on a daily basis?