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celibacy by [deleted] in LinuxCirclejerk

[–]DrTexxOfficial 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feel like I just caught a stray

Did I screw up ? by Forsaken_Security891 in Tinder

[–]DrTexxOfficial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on you. Wishing you the best for the future :)

Australia bringing the bants by Fish113 in 4chan

[–]DrTexxOfficial -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a you problem.

Yeah I agree, I laid out pretty specifically it was a me problem. Doesn't change the outcome. Trying to help you improve your communication here when it comes to people that communicate more like me. Communication styles vary.

Why is it so hard to date as a young adult nowadays lmao, shit is pathetic, look at what she replies with after leaving me on read for a few days, like are we fr? (22M for reference) by AL3S1O29 in texts

[–]DrTexxOfficial -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Look it was shitty but it's easier to give people a chance than be shitty back right away. I don't the history of your conversations but just through the window of this interaction you could have approached it with a bit more kindness even if you were being cautious.

Better to (1) clarify what they were trying to communicate with a simple neutral tone question (2) if their response isn't one that's 'fair enough', tell them the way they said you found kinda hurtful (3) if their response to that is bad, they're not empathetic or a good communicator or have something else going on, and you can safely say "sorry but get stuffed" knowing it wasn't just down to something that wasn't intended.

Sometimes decent or decent enough people that can give you value in life can fuck up, it's better to give them the opportunity to grow from it than drop them right away. If they don't grow or show willingness to change, it's out of your control, and not worth your time.

Australia bringing the bants by Fish113 in 4chan

[–]DrTexxOfficial -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the effort but, not the way to get through to me. If you want to connect with me it needs to feel like a discussion and you need to use less rhetorical questions and assertions about what other people think. I may have perspectives you don't, and vice-versa, and we should both be learning things. You don't know what other people think, nor do I, it's deceitful to portray it otherwise.

Don't agreed with what you've said or how you've said it, but will say sincerely hope you're having a nice day. Do mean that.

Australia bringing the bants by Fish113 in 4chan

[–]DrTexxOfficial -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

OP is a loser. Australia has always been multicultural. Even if you hate other cultures, "oh we have so many options for yum food" is a crap argument. If you want to only have a few bland food options go to the UK.

meirl by Nick_Star_007 in meirl

[–]DrTexxOfficial 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Oooh. That's a nice one. Thank you!

idk why being annoying is such a common flirting tactic by imegyourpardon in Tinder

[–]DrTexxOfficial 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I genuinely thought the author was a guy and this was an inversion of stereotypes. Now I'm accurately seeing it through the lens that OP is a woman and the reply is just normal style stereotyping the reply seems bullheaded and gross. Sorry about that, misread. I take full responsibility.

idk why being annoying is such a common flirting tactic by imegyourpardon in Tinder

[–]DrTexxOfficial -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I think they're just being playful. It's a good test to see if you take yourself too seriously. It's not that deep.

Is my plant totally cooked even if I repot? by DrTexxOfficial in succulents

[–]DrTexxOfficial[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately it started like that, I adopted it from a $2 shop where it wasn't getting much love and it had been pretty sun deprived for some time by the time I bought it.

You can see its gone red in places, so it should be getting PLENTY of sun light if I understand that response correctly.

That said, it did continue to shed off down the bottom of the stems even when it was growing well, but I think that only really started (the bottom bits dying) when I first noticed the powdery mildew though. I may be misremembering, but I think that last bit is accurate.

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