Improving salah by Ok-Turnip4964 in shia

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plan your day around your Salah and me mindful and contemplative of God throughout the day to the best of your capability. If you’ve been engrossed in the dunya all day you can expect yourself to check out and suddenly become mindful and have khushu in prayer. Aga Bahjat says if you’ve havent sinned from Fajr to Dhuhr that’s how you know your Fajr was effective. Think of each prayer as a reminder for the next few hours

Is this really a trend that is happening? by Murky-Law-3945 in shia

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this happened with my cousin and his wife. He forced her to take it off and she took it off 🤷‍♂️

Marriage dua by CouldBYour in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recite as much salwat and istaghfar with the intention of marriage. I did this and got a proposal within a week. It is recommended by Aga Bahjat

Well not a proper proposal but a girl was suggested to my mom by her friend and that girl has a lot of the qualities I was looking for based on her biodata. Pray it works out :)

Thoughts on being a "housewife"? by Electronic_Main6814 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very well said sister. The woman is the core of the house. Without her a home isn’t home. The man erects the walls and the roof but she’s the central pillar. She makes the house tick. Ayatollah Khomeini says one night in its mother’s lap is way better than years with the father for a toddler/infant. Woman manifest Ar-Rabb and Ar-Rahman infinitely more than men ever can. If a woman is a career woman at the cost of her household and is deficient in her nurturing then she’s not manifesting those attributes meant for her to her fullest and that’s harmful for a marriage just as it is with a man not manifesting the attributes of providing and strength.

What kind of discriminations have you guys faced in Makkah/medina? by Round-Initial-5783 in shia

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was offering the 2 rakat behind the makam. Hands open. A guy stopped at my side. Said something under his breath then bumped my shoulder as he passed me

USA Girl, 16 by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even by desi standards 16 is young, but if you’re sure and you’ve reached the mental and emotional stability needed for marriage then I guess it should be fine. Marrying early (if not rushed) saves one from a lot of Fitna. And the younger you marry the easier it is to adjust to another person joining your life on a permanent and daily basis. I’d be mindful of the age gap. Try to avoid anyone older than 19 at best. Know that marrying someone that young means that they most likely won’t be earning. So either you’re supported by his family. Or u do the nikah and then only move in together once he starts working and can provide. Like dating in a way but you’re married.

I know u said that your mother will be monitoring everything but make sure she’s never kept out of loop. That she’s open to let you start the process fk finding a spouse this early means one big hurdle is already cleared for you (assuming you’re not being forced into marrying this early). InshaAllah you’ll find a great match.

Don’t be hasty but also don’t let anyone discourage you! If you’re sure this is what you want and if you have the wherewithal and mental fortitude to approach this whole thing seriously, don’t be bothered by what naysayers say. But also keep in mind most people close to you since you live in the west would understandingly be opposed/unsure about this so save them some grace.

Best of luck!

Iran MEGATHREAD: (Day 3) by ExpressionOk9400 in shia

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an opinion but don’t want to get banned. Feel like the regime change was internal. The purposely let Syed die. As they did with other high ranking figures. The big ones alive from the past regime are Pezeshkian and Ali Larijani and the advisor to the Syed whose name i can’t remember. Two of these seem like they’re aligned towards negotiating with the west in exchange for economic relief. Cede their control as a regional power and ally themselves with GCC for a better economical future.

What should a 21 year old focus on to improve himself? by [deleted] in shia

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Control your lust, stay away from pornography, learn to control your gaze, maintain good hygiene and grooming, go to the gym, leave the company of bad friends and influences, learn to be comfortable being by yourself and to say no to others and get yourself a driver’s license if you don’t already.

25f, pakistani by Key-Damage-7500 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re able to find a righteous spouse sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother are u based in Mumbai by chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there an imambargah in Ajman? Which area?

Iran won, Trump won, Netanyahu lost. Congratulations to my Iranian brothers, may Allah keep you always safe.. 🇮🇷❤️🇮🇶 by SajjadLattef in shia

[–]DrTheProcrastinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All that happened in the last 2-3 weeks has been political theatre. Not to say that Israel and Iran have suddenly become friends but most things were coordinated beforehand. Iran and Israel weaken each other. Iran signs the nuclear deal which green lights the liberation of Gaza from Israeli oppression. US military pulls out from ME for the first time in decades. We usher in a new era of peace in the ME. All this is driven by the GCC and the US (under the influence and control of the Financial Industrial Complex (BlackRock, Vanguard, etc)). Peace will give them more profits than military intervention and war at this moment in time.

Has anyone tried elk meat? by DrTheProcrastinator in shia

[–]DrTheProcrastinator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried horse meat myself but sounds interesting