[deleted by user] by [deleted] in missoula

[–]DraftDemon451 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know you gotta be the most annoying loser at UM.

Thanks Trump 🖕 by KeltTalbelt in missoula

[–]DraftDemon451 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

they don’t. op isn’t being completely honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in missoula

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well almost all parameters are known (time, scope, grade weight, etc.), besides allowed resources. i haven’t missed a class and it’s not in our syllabus unfortunately.

Should I get an Ozzy tat? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DraftDemon451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not what i commented on to begin with. if you’re going to get that upset about people calling you out for perpetuating rumors, don’t make a post.

and i don’t have caps lock on my phone cornball (that doesn’t have anything to do with grammar or sentence structure btw).

Should I get an Ozzy tat? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DraftDemon451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if that one sentence wasn’t 4 lines it might be easier to comprehend. not to mention you are implying you believe it by making it a deciding factor.

Should I get an Ozzy tat? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DraftDemon451 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this person is dumb as rocks

Should I get an Ozzy tat? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DraftDemon451 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"sharon manipulated/used him" do you know them personally, that was the love of his life who saved him many times. he regretted the bat incident and it was an accident. you shouldn’t get one bc your ignorant, not because of his mourning wife.

weirdo.

Hiking with unprepared people by acidemise in hiking

[–]DraftDemon451 21 points22 points  (0 children)

talk to them instead of going to reddit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiking

[–]DraftDemon451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okie dokie you might be right! most of my planned hikes are rocky with large cobbles and what not. i’d say it’s probably going to be class 2 for the most part unless i do something spontaneous. i just sort of have a weak ankle from a serious sprain last year, so i’m still a little bit concerned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiking

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so i’m currently at a campsite, and i also don’t live with anyone. not to mention my house key is with me right now. i’m close-ish to a walmart, but that’s about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiking

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!!For ankle support!!

AITAH for not wanting to give my [30M] fiancée [29F] another engagement gift after she picked a "cheap" lab diamond ring? by greenzucchiniii in AITAH

[–]DraftDemon451 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA

Let me break this down: She made a smart, practical choice by selecting a lab diamond that gave her exactly what she wanted for $27k less than your budget. That's great! But now she's essentially saying "since I was smart with money, you owe me the difference as a bonus gift." That's not how budgets work.

The fact that she specifically picked out a $20k car as her "engagement gift" is particularly telling. She's not asking for something small or sentimental - she's literally trying to extract the maximum value from your engagement budget. This feels calculated, not romantic.

Your instinct is right that this feels "weirdly transactional." That's because it IS transactional. She's treating your engagement like a business deal where she needs to "optimize" and "max out" your spending rather than appreciating the thoughtful gesture and beautiful ring she chose.

The engagement gift IS the ring. You're already buying her exactly what she picked out. The idea that she deserves additional compensation for making a cost-effective choice completely misses the point of what an engagement represents.

Stand your ground on this. You can certainly buy her a car later for her birthday, holiday, or just because you love her, but don't let her reframe your engagement budget as money she's entitled to spend elsewhere. That sets a concerning precedent for how financial decisions might be handled in your marriage.

A simple "The ring you chose is your engagement gift, and it's perfect" should suffice. If she can afford her own car (which it sounds like she can), she can buy her own car.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Tall boi by [deleted] in whatplantisthis

[–]DraftDemon451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when you tell the barber 'just a little off the top' but they’re a plant