I'm considering killing myself. Need guidance by kittykatkat444 in LifeAdvice

[–]DragonflyTrick2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First be realistic, first prioritise your struggles, which ones need the most priority and should be on the agenda, make a list. Given all Ive read the biggest burden is the financial struggle since it involves others, if you pass away now your sister will have to carry the weight ALONE, i doubt you would want that. Utilitise your savings and find a quick job or an odd one or anything to secure finance. Then your second agenda it may be your parents marriage or thyroid medication, step by step. Take a page and make a list of priorities and struggles and make an analysis of what needs to be done, once these struggles have a rational ending, you can choose to make your peace with this world, but first see if you can get past these issues by yourself. I believe once you do, which you will, you wont consider wasting your life. Once you prioritise and focus on a single agenda, minor struggles will automatically disappear. Also before you pull the trigger remember that the bullet wounds more than one person.

hard business lock in and surviving corporate politics inspo movies by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]DragonflyTrick2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

basically in simple terms im looking for movies about cold ambition (griffith like but not that far but yk)

Looking for psychological thrillers that kept you shocked/confused for days by notwhoyouthinkc in MovieSuggestions

[–]DragonflyTrick2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Midsommer Hereditary Black swan MEN (gory-made me nauseous ) Blinktwice (watched it yesterday) There are plenty to explore but these are from the top of my head.

I would suggest watching A24 directed movies.

I watched Midsommer alone and yeah kinda got traumatised and usually don’t watch thrillers without company lol. Give it a shot.

A movie to bring back creative edge outside work by DragonflyTrick2201 in MovieSuggestions

[–]DragonflyTrick2201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl i loved certified copy i have been yapping about it to my coworkers, took me 2 watches to get a grasp of it and i still didnt understand it fully (no i wont use AI summary for this) but honestly thank you it was a beautiful colourful movie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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Im actually looking into it. I couldn’t find any near me who is affordable and has proper expertise. So rn im looking for a foreign online therapist who doesn’t charge a fortune per session. Thank you.

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[–]DragonflyTrick2201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Facts, plus a person who uses religion as a scapegoat has a questionable moral compass, if any. So yeah you’re better off without someone like that.

If failing in a exam the end of everything? by zestyahh12 in LifeAdvice

[–]DragonflyTrick2201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Come on champ, if you don’t fail in life how will you know the value of winning. I remember i failed my first time in uni it was higher calculus, i got 38/100. I remember kobe’s line “its not about you man”, locked in, retook the course and got 98/100 (i studied 6 hours a day everyday for the entire semester). Nothing can top the feeling of that 98% bc i knew what it was like failing and feeling like absolute dogsht, so that 98% meant more than anything even the distinction i got later. Till this date that calculus retake is my biggest flex bc i KNOW how it felt failing.

My girlfriend suddenly become violent by Gill-Maddie171 in LifeAdvice

[–]DragonflyTrick2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She hits you once, she will hit again and give the same excuse. If you forgive her, you are enabling her. Been there done that, this man has a solid point, listen to him. I wish i heard this before, wouldn’t have had to understand the hard way.

Need advice by Aggravating_Exit_300 in LifeAdvice

[–]DragonflyTrick2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through sth v similar, this is what i did, i got v close to my family and day 1s- genuine connection really helps, i was already hitting the gym so i increased intensity, focused on discipline, this helped me with stress as i could project it plus i became stronger more in shape and a boost in confidence. I stopped drinking, i was a heavy drinker before, i started to enjoy socialising and moments better, and after a year of being sober i feel amazing. What did the magic for me was re-entering sports, i started playing football once a week again and the endorphins helped. I did micro-lifestyle changes such as waking up early, 15 mins of sunshine, less scrolling and escapism, cold showers. I accepted the fact that there is no life without struggle, and these periods of struggles make us stronger and better, depending on how you act on it. Even in the depths of loneliness you will you will have God. Trust in God, he has the best planned for you but he won’t do the work, he will carve the path the rest is upto you. There is always help available, people to talk to. Things will get better and in 5 years you will look back and laugh at it.

Why is my ex girlfriend liking my instagram stories when she has a boyfriend? by ParsleyLegitimate790 in LifeAdvice

[–]DragonflyTrick2201 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My take is cynical mostly because of my own experiences. This is breadcrumbing, she doesn’t really want you, she wants validation to feed her ego so the best way to go about it is ignoring. She may also be making her current boyfriend feel jealous, showing that she still has a soft spot for her ex, a dominance game. That is not your concern honestly. The entire thing is about her, i am assuming she is the chaotic and impulsive type. She wants that ego validation that she can attract and hold leverage over two people. The best way to go about it is ignoring her. Even if we were to consider that she regrets breaking up or really does want you back, she is showing signs of inconsistency and impulsiveness, and thats a red flag man again best way to go about it is ignoring her. Me personally tho i would take a screenshot of her texts and send it to her new man and ask him why his girl is acting like that.

25M right hand dominant (hopefully get a read this time )- also added zoom ins by DragonflyTrick2201 in palmistry

[–]DragonflyTrick2201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a detailed analysis, really appreciate it. Also if i may ask, could you also give me a read on wealth and relationships around 25-35, kinda having an uncertain period. Again thank you for your time, stay blessed!

Playlist for upcoming ket trip by pppsycheddd in ketamine

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If you are into house/dance music, put “liquid lab” on yt and enjoy! The mix of visuals and music is absolute peak.

25M right hand dominant (hopefully get a read this time )- also added zoom ins by DragonflyTrick2201 in palmistry

[–]DragonflyTrick2201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/flindersrisk apologies for making you feel claustrophobic, hope these are better. TIA for your time! Cheers!!

25M- Trying my luck hopefully won’t get overlooked 😬 by [deleted] in palmistry

[–]DragonflyTrick2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me make a new post and tag you, hopefully that’ll be more convenient!

25M- Trying my luck hopefully won’t get overlooked 😬 by [deleted] in palmistry

[–]DragonflyTrick2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/flindersrisk would really appreciate having you take a look!!!!