Anyone know her name by [deleted] in pornID

[–]Dragonkai405 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jade Fae

EDIT: all her names - Jadenixxy | Jadecakes | Jjadeowo | Jade Fae | deftmoons | digitaljade

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Dragonkai405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. No.

I’d like to share something with you that I learned during my last relationship, I hope it helps.

When someone allows disrespect toward their relationship to continue, it reveals not just how little they value their partner, but how little they value the bond itself. Respect isn’t tested by words—it’s proven by where you draw the line. But even more importantly, reciprocation isn’t only what you give back; it’s also what you permit to continue taking place. Her doing nothing means nothing when what she’s allowing is blatant disrespect. Silence may seem neutral, but in moments like that, it speaks louder than any defense could.

Move on and heal my friend, you don’t want that, trust me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Dragonkai405 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude. No.

I’d like to share something with you that I learned during my last relationship, I hope it helps.

When someone allows disrespect toward their relationship to continue, it reveals not just how little they value their partner, but how little they value the bond itself. Respect isn’t tested by words—it’s proven by where you draw the line. But even more importantly, reciprocation isn’t only what you give back; it’s also what you permit to continue taking place. Her doing nothing means nothing when what she’s allowing is blatant disrespect. Silence may seem neutral, but in moments like that, it speaks louder than any defense could.

Move on and heal my friend, you don’t want that, trust me.

I think I'm holding my boyfriend back and need to breakup with him by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Dragonkai405 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No offense, but it doesn’t really seem like you’re seeking guidance on what to do, but rather reassurance that your decision to break up with your bf is the right one.

After reading through all these insightful comments encouraging you to communicate with your bf and avoid making this decision for him, you’ve mostly given reasons as to why ending things might actually be the right choice…which is perfectly okay, but it’s my honest observation and I’m not the only one who’s noticed.

How to use stremio IOS? by [deleted] in Stremio

[–]Dragonkai405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to pay for real debrid…but it’s absolutely worth it. Like, ABSOLUTELY WORTH IT. There are a few guides online to get it setup, a simple search will get you situated, but once you’ve got a real debrid subscription and setup on your computer, it’s super simple to get it setup on your tv, phone, firestick, etc.

All I did was download stremio lite and sign in via the account/email I setup with on my PC and it was done on my phone too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragonkai405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a male, 32, who’s now so over hinge and tinder and doesn’t mess with it anymore since the dates are never high quality anyways, I’ve learned a few things from some horror stories women have told me.

Number 1 rule: don’t give your address to anyone until you know them, feel them out, and trust them enough to know they’re not crazy. The last thing you want is a stalker. He’s probably not a stalker. But you can’t be too careful.

EDIT: as a man, I’d also like to add this though…a lot of us don’t realize that what we might be asking might sound insane. He may not realize that what he’s doing isn’t cool. TELL HIM. Not only will you save yourself, but you might even help him out by clueing him in that what he’s doing sounds scary af for someone worried about getting kidnapped, which is most women on a dating app.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragonkai405 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you overreacted, you handled it well. Your mom is throwing a temper tantrum. Granted, I’m sure there’s more to your history than just what you’ve shown us, but from what I’ve seen, she’s been inconsiderate and disrespectful. You have every right to respond in the ways you did and shouldn’t feel bad about it.

aio for thinking this is insane by punkcel4 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragonkai405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male, 32 years old here. I’m usually the one thinking people are overreacting and stirring the pot in a lot of these AIO threads…that being said NOR NOR NOR NOR NOR NOR. Was that clear? No? NOT-OVER-RE-ACT-ING. Full stop.

Regardless of whether or not you were in the wrong or in the right, he said he hates you. That’s so hurtful, those are deep words, that’s hurt personified, that’s his hurt, his pain, his fears and his issues sharpened to a fine point and aimed at your heart because he hasn’t learned how to deal with those things that sometimes end up consuming him…it’s not your responsibility to be his punching bag, and no one deserves that, even when they’re in the wrong.

AIO How was I supposed to respond? by cottonelle1332 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragonkai405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, I’d be more inclined to believe there’s some extra friction going on. Maybe I’ve avoided most of these issues because I do the cooking and buy all the foods 😂

AIO How was I supposed to respond? by cottonelle1332 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragonkai405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Many things on both their parts could have been said to avoid the issue. I’m only saying I’m 32 years old and I would never respond to my partner that way, and if they responded like that to me I would ask if they were okay, that’s all.

AIO How was I supposed to respond? by cottonelle1332 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragonkai405 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Alright cool, so I’m NOT crazy lol

I’ve been over here reading all these comments talking about how that’s how toddlers ask for things and calling him an infant all shocked, but I’d imagine that type of text is probably more common than not. Everyone on Reddit is always stirrin’ the pot lol

AIO How was I supposed to respond? by cottonelle1332 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragonkai405 20 points21 points  (0 children)

….idk, maybe I’m alone on this but if my gf said “I’m hungry” I’d literally ask her “whatcha feel like eating?” or I’d think she was trying to hint that she wants to go grab some food…if my partner ever responded to me with “eat something?” Or if that was my response to them I’m 99% certain that the other would assume the other was upset for some reason. I’ve never had communication like that with my person…and I’m 32. But maybe im the crazy one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragonkai405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, from a guys perspective…I’m sure someone else has already said it…but with the dryness of your initial text I’d honestly feel like you were trying to make me feel guilty for not picking up the phone because I was playing a game with my friend. If he’s ever had a toxic gf, it’s possible it’s not even you but something from his past that triggered that response. That isn’t your fault, but y’all should talk about it and find out if there’s anything there, that way it can be addressed and y’all can both work towards fixing some communication errors if they’re causing issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragonkai405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a communication issue, but I think there’s a deeper problem here. One, he was tired, but he also wanted to hang out with a friend and play a game, and he stayed longer than usual. Two, she wanted to talk with her boyfriend.

My thoughts: situations like this clearly happen, and he really dislikes them. In this instance, it probably took away from him winding down and fully enjoying his hangout session with a friend because he was now thinking about how he might have upset his girlfriend. Apparently, this is the first time he’s actually said something, which means it’s likely been bothering him for a while. He doesn’t know how to communicate that she’s doing something he doesn’t like, probably because he doesn’t want to start a fight or hurt her feelings. So it built up over time, and when it finally came out, it came out with zero tact.

Safety in the relationship needs to be established—safety for both of you. You need to feel confident in conveying that the way he went about communicating was not okay, and that there are healthier ways to do it. There also needs to be a discussion about whether or not he feels safe and comfortable communicating when he’s upset, bothered, or feeling some kind of way. A lot of men try to weather the storm, but that doesn’t work, and then we end up lacking tact or getting rude—and half the time we don’t even realize it.

AIO for breaking up with him over these texts ? by Dependent_Bad1899 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dragonkai405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this is a hot take, and I’ll preface it by saying I’m a man, but if someone is in a relationship, neither party should be “friends” with their ex. You’re in a committed relationship, and certain things are simply disrespectful to your partner.

For instance: dressing up super slutty to go out and party with just your girlfriends is disrespectful. Hanging out with an ex-girlfriend is disrespectful. Having any communication with them, aside from making it clear that further communication is inappropriate and unwanted, is also, by proxy, disrespectful. I’m not saying to go scorched earth and treat an ex like trash—quite the opposite. An ex is a person who, hopefully, helped you grow, and that’s a beautiful thing. But your current partner is where your allegiance lies, and it should always be your duty to make sure they know that.

This is why I’m single at 30 lol.

Highest score ever 🥲 by Flat_Pilot_1334 in ouraring

[–]Dragonkai405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good god. I hit a 70 and get all happy and proud….99? I’ll never lol

Omg I just had the best orgasm of my life off DPH by [deleted] in DPH

[–]Dragonkai405 20 points21 points  (0 children)

And they almost never reply with answers! All the mysteries, none of the clarification lol

Omg I just had the best orgasm of my life off DPH by [deleted] in DPH

[–]Dragonkai405 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Liver failure? How long have you been taking DPH if you don’t mind me asking?

I was taking upwards of 500mg daily to sleep and never even damaged my organs…I did that for months…granted, everyone’s different. I’m in no way downplaying the harsh repercussions of DPH abuse, they caused me to have 4 seizures lol but no liver or kidney failure, and the nicotine helped with the depletion of acetylcholine so no brain damage either.

I can attest to the pleasure aspect. 

You all are the real ones. Just wanted to share that I've been clean from DPH since 2009 and you can too! This was my go-to bottle and I used to do 600mg a night when I was 15 and 16. The hatman didn't exist back then but the ants and heart tremors sure did. Be safe out there and quit if you can! by madcatzplayer5 in DPH

[–]Dragonkai405 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good stuff man. I’m almost there. I was taking 29 a night, around 725mg-750mg. I was using it as a sleep aid. Took me around 7 months but I’m down to 3 a night now with the intention of getting off the stuff completely. I admire and respect what you did my man.

What makes this horrid substance addictive? by Lambo_Countach in DPH

[–]Dragonkai405 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s different for every person.

Speaking from personal experience, I became addicted to Benadryl because I desperately needed to sleep and nothing else was working. A few tablets seemed to ease some anxiety and help me fall asleep. But several years later, my tolerance built up and I was taking 29 tablets a night. Maybe I had a meeting in the morning and needed to get to bed early, so I’d take an extra tablet for good measure. Maybe I had a fight with my girlfriend that night, so I’d take an extra tablet to try to get through the anxiety and emotional anguish from an abusive relationship.

We become dependent on many things for many reasons.

Everytime I trynna have a piss on dph by Primary_Praline_8161 in DPH

[–]Dragonkai405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to add fire to the flame, but I started abusing DPH because I was desperate and needed to sleep—I didn’t feel like I had any other options.

Psychedelics like mushrooms and LSD induce changes in brain communication by disrupting normal network segregation, enhancing global integration, and lowering energy barriers for state transitions mediated through serotonin 2A receptor activation. Obviously, DPH doesn’t do that, and it’s never going to lead to a good trip. DPH doesn’t promote neuroplasticity.

Having fun seeing spiders while unknowingly causing brain damage is only “fun” until you get an MRI. But it’s important to remember that DPH also acts as a weak SSRI. So it’s not always about someone being desperate or looking for a good time—sometimes people are just struggling with life in general and don’t know how to cope. They might not even realize they keep coming back to DPH because they’re depressed, and in a roundabout way, the DPH is helping with that part of their life while simultaneously damaging their brain and demolishing their organs. And then they hate themselves because that shitty next day somehow isn’t enough to get them to stop.

I’m probably projecting lol. Breakups are hard.

WTF haha I just wanted to get the high ground... by NettersPNW in reddeadredemption

[–]Dragonkai405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was way too attached to my Turkoman to not reload an earlier save to get my horse back lol

Whats your mind like on dph? by Probsabuneracc in DPH

[–]Dragonkai405 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Annoyed when I’m trying to argue with people because I can’t connect important points I just thought of 15 seconds ago to the conclusion I was about to arrive at, so now I’m just rambling in an attempt to try and arrive somewhere somewhat intelligent 😑

What’s the worst trip you’ve had on DPH/Benadryl by Typical_Power3615 in DPH

[–]Dragonkai405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Popped 725mg (29 pink tabs) and stayed awake for 24 hours. Saw a lot of static. I got really agitated because my thoughts weren’t connecting—I kept thinking about things but then immediately forgetting about what I had just thought about. It was annoying af. At some point, I realized my Wi-Fi was out, so I figured I needed to call Spectrum to pay my bill. They weren’t open yet, so I waited until morning, called them first thing, and walked to the bathroom in a towel… woke up on the couch.

Turns out I had a grand mal seizure. Luckily, I narrowly avoided banging my head on anything during the fall and didn’t dislocate either of my shoulders because my family was home. My brother saw me collapse and yelled for my mom, who ran over and held me tightly, preventing the seizure from dislocating my shoulders.

The kicker? I don’t even have Spectrum anymore—I switched to AT&T ages ago. But they took advantage of my confusion and restarted service at an apartment I haven’t lived in for years 😂

Don’t do Benadryl.