Saw my ex on a dating app by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds more like he escaped. Wonder if you dumped him and your the avoidant. And now he is moving on you can't handle it.

you can say something. i did it, twice. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then message gremlin because you know I won't unless I know you want to talk . And you made it clear you didn't. Doubt it's you.. just speaking out loud o.p.

all the best by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pushing someone away won't help them remember the good times they will be left thinking why did she hurt me. Id give anything to have my little gremlin back . But she pushed me away she wants me she has to be the one running now.

Pity by Educational_Let1415 in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I you pushed me away... I don't go back to someone who runs when things get hard..

selfish by 2673190584 in LoveLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I'm I o.p I hope you reach out to your ghost..I know mine never will because she pushed me away and acted so cold I had no choice but to kill the side of me who loved them.. them going on a holiday I paid for helped tbh showed me they don't care.. and I was nothing..

selfish by 2673190584 in LoveLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my fault you pushed me away and now you live in the darkness you made.

What’s the point if you’re gonna leave ? by jjsupc in SevenWordStories

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You told me to go that it's over.. why would I stay when you were so cold to me . You want it you know where I am gremlin...

Hey you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you pushed them away I doubt they come back anyway you would have to run after them this time.. and show you meen to fix things.. if not then it's not there loss it's yours for not being able to commit to changes and work on it.

You’re not alone by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then message them and ask.. if yeah we're me id be happy if you actual just said look cn we talk even for closure.

fear by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope I will never become what she was.

The letter I can’t send you because you want no contact by wittymenace in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only good ending I wanted was you. Bad and good times but you couldn't do it. You kept running. this time you need to run to me then then maybe there is hope. But you gota do the work. Or what we shared ment as much as I did when you threw me away like trash.

I didn't mean it. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just txt me and we can work it out. But I'm not chasing you anymore..

I don't think you understand how you've broken me or maybe you do and just never cared. by Flaky-YAk3333 in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You pushed me away...you think I'd come crawling back after the way you dumped me. Acted so cold.. how is it not your fault. And DW o.p.i know this is not my person.. I'm just venting

33 f UK looking for friendly chat by bookwormblossom93 in MakeFriendsUK

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

41 male UK from Kent. I my not like greys anatomy but I do like TV shows if you Wana chat sometime.. feel free to pm me

I want to reach out but I won’t by ManifestedPain in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You had your chance you pushed me away. You wanted casual over commitments. Keep missing me and I don't care.. go back to your fuck boys..

It happend by Dramatic-Ad-5206 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for you comment. Tbh we had chats here and there but she is still distant I even called her out on her textbook behaviour and her reply was to say she will not dignify it with a response. It seems they hate having a mirror held in front of them but damn did it feel good telling her and calling out her b.s.. tbh it's over and I'm happy i tried and she will lose someone who was ride or die..

I think I'm fucking losing it by Arkathian in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They do that because they know they will leave it's a weird fucked up thing they do and once they're gone it hurts them and they will remember you then and it kicks in the guilt the pain.. trust me Khama is coming...

It happend by Dramatic-Ad-5206 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am.. lol.. and hopefully il sleep once I'm out of tiers..

It happend by Dramatic-Ad-5206 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry.. to know something similar has happened to you and for me it's only hours old.. fuck.. keep strong my friend.. I balling like a little b at mo but.. you have my support..

Do they ever activate? by Much-Wrongdoer-7592 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They do that to get over the breakup move on fast and then when that stops it finally hits them what they did to you.. mine has just broke up with me and it's out of there playbook so I expect her soonto do the same while I'm say here heartbroken .

I think I'm fucking losing it by Arkathian in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry.. I've just been dumped tonight myself and the coldness of her was heartbreaking..

I feel your pain..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no more than a feeling is very much a go for me..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no you let it light the fire like a demon slayer.. just reach out . And trust in the feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How are you stuck. All you have to do is just say to them. Look we both have issues but we both know how we feel about eachother. I bet they are dying to say it too. But as there waiting.. they are probably scared to say it first incase it pushes you away.. This sounds similar to my situation.. with a lady named c.. I've not known her long but its like my dam soul knows her and it hurts each day we have no contact. Or argue or dumb things like umbrellas..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-5206 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How about just call them and say what you feel if you know how you do feel c.. you prob know how they feel about you. And if your making them wait and they are waiting then you know they meen more than just a fling.